| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/22/2009 9:14:35 PM | what do you honestly hate about a relationship? and why?
I could name many reasons but I will cut the story short.
I think you can do you'r own laundry. That is what I hate, a lazy beer, tv watchin retard..
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/22/2009 9:18:01 PM |
what do you honestly hate about a relationship? and why?
I could name many reasons but I will cut the story short.
I think you can do you'r own laundry. That is what I hate, a lazy beer, tv watchin retard..
i hate when my significant other doesnt have my laundry done each week, forgets to have my beer waiting for me when i get home, and disturbs my TV watching by asking crazy questions like, "what do you honestly hate about relationships?" | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:20:12 PM | A non-cleaning, non-working, emotional wreck that pretends to have goals but at the end of the day the harsh reality is an empty "girl" with no ambition or future.
the reason i hate this is because it wastes time that could be better spent getting to realize this finally!! I can't recall how many people i dated and got to "know" and they weren't worth getting to know!!!
BTW: regardless of how much this gentleman upset you.... classifying them as mentally handi-capped and using the word retard is still un-hip. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:30:19 PM | People always expect/want/push you into the next step:
Do you have a girlfriend? (like you're somehow missing your nose if you don't have one)
Are you steady?
When are you getting married?
When are you getting kids?
when is the next one due?
It goes downhill from there...
the bills are due.
the lawn needs mowing.
trash collection on tuesdays.
PTA meetings.
Etc. etc., ETC! | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 10:05:00 PM | i hate when my significant other doesnt have my laundry done each week, forgets to have my beer waiting for me when i get home, and disturbs my TV watching by asking crazy questions like, "what do you honestly hate about relationships?"
 too funny
Having to deal with a jealous boyfriend can be a real drag. Also, dealing with a guy who doesn't have a job and refuses to get one. I've dealt with that before and I refuse to do it again! | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 10:07:25 PM | It's so funny, I started a thread entitled Why ARe You Excited About Being Single, and a lot of people said the same things that are being said here.
But these complaints have nothing to do with being in a relationship.
They have everything to do with being in a bad relationship or a relationship with the wrong person.
Most of these things are things that no one should ever put up with. | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/22/2009 10:28:10 PM | | Belldon, i was wondering if you are aware that you are listed as a 21 year old man on your profile?? you should probably change that. | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/22/2009 10:37:41 PM | Even in a good relationship, what I REALLY hate is being Half of a couple. I just want to remain 'whole' for the rest of my life, so I don't have to go through the pain of realizing that I devoted my life to being "half".
If I ever marry again, I won't change my name again, and I won't make my entire social circle of people we know as a couple. And as far as work goes, whether I'm married or single is nobody's business. I keep my personal life much more private now, after experiencing a very public divorce and rebuilding my life as a single person. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 10:48:28 PM | can't been two weeks oh well sucks...lol
and i dont feel like making a new sn for here....maybe the mods would change it | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 11:24:00 PM | I honestly don't hate ,I tried to be nuetral in relationship... I don't want to waste my precious energy on hates especialy to a man if we can't get along then we split..
Life is too short that I want to enjoy every moment of it, as if it is my last day  | |
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Posted: 4/23/2009 4:15:09 AM | | This will sound bad but oh well: I hate having to constantly think of another person when any arrangements come up for anything and I hate being seen as just one person and our names just naturally get grouped together like a single entity. Other than that, love relationships are usually great if you are with the right person. | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/23/2009 4:44:37 AM | | LOL Cheeky, See I am on the oppisite eide of the spectrum. I want to be in a relationship were we are thought of as one. NOT that we would not have seperate interests and activities, NOT joined at the hip. But one where as best friends first, were we put the SO first. Gawd I long for that LOL........who knows maybe someday. | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/23/2009 5:06:14 AM | The feeling of having to discuss what I do with someone or they'll take it personally.
The feeling of not being able to just be alone without someone taking it like I don't want to spend time with them.
The feeling that I can't do what I want, when I want.
The feeling that I have to explain friends, male or female.
The feeling that I have to change my life to accomodate.
Anyone who cannot entertain themselves and expects me to do it.
Anyone who actually tells me I can or can't do something.
Emotional drama....not being able to calmly and logically discuss events in the relationship without a temper tantrum.
Having to discuss the progress of the relationship constantly.
The feeling of suffocation.
Unsolicited advice on my life, my friends, how I dress, what I do in my spare time...
Someone who expects to be everywhere I am, every minute of the day (or wants me to report on it).
Territorial behavior.
Hypocrisy.
That's enough for now...lol. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2009 5:44:50 AM | I've only been in relationships that made me happy and didn't leave me with a whole shopping list of complaints.
I figure if you're that unhappy with your SO, then why are you with them? | |
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:54:27 AM | | ^^^Exbthdrcy - that's what I was thinking! I was miserable in my marriage and could use any and all of the above complaints. But my current relationship is good, and I don't resent many of the same things I did before. I think a lot of that has to do with equality. The fact that he contributes as much in time, effort and expenses as I do - whereas my ex didn't - makes for a more equitable relationshp. I think inequality leads to resentment. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:11:22 AM | A guy gets home from work, does a Dandy Don flop back into the couch, flicks on the tv, and says to his wife, "Honey, get me a beer before it starts." She does, he chugs it, and repeats the request. The second beer goes the way of the first, and the guy says, "Hon, I'm gonna need another before it starts." And she says, "You lazy Fck, who the hell do you think you are, ordering me around?"
And he says, "Too late. It's started."
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:11:52 AM | I've sat here thinking and thinking...
In HAPPY relationships I've had - not a thing. That they ended maybe?
In ones that were bad - everything! That they started!!! | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:29:48 AM | Cause there isn't enough hate threads online? lol..
Hate is a strong word...I hate nothing about a relationship..if I come across something I don't like, I tell the guy, and if it's a dealbreaker then so be it. | |
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| What do you honestly hate about
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:31:18 AM |
regardless of how much this gentleman upset you.... classifying them as mentally handi-capped and using the word retard is still un-hip
I agree with that ^^^^
(although I am not sure I have ever used the phrase "un-hip)
I try not use the word "hate" either.
There has been bad stuff in some of my relationships. The worst might have been a period of time when I seemed to stop laughing. It just didn't happen when he was around. That was how I knew it was over. | |
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