| when you think you found the right one
Posted: 4/23/2009 10:45:51 AM | i met a great guy on here and he was sweet caring and loveable guy and i really cared about him he broke my heart .i thought he was the right one that i was gonna spend my life with.
i am not into dating much so i took a chance and i hope he finds what he is looking for and i wish him the best of luck...
im not perfect and yes i have a 13 year old that tries to run me but i have been putting my foot down more and so far so good...
what is it with men and them making it were you fall for him and his family then he shoots you down were it makes it hard on you to trust again...
but i guess you have to try and put that behind you and move on to bigger and better things in life...well all of you have best of luck on pof there is a soulmate for everyone... | |
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| when you think you found the right one
Posted: 6/7/2009 11:16:28 AM | | I see your thread was awhile back. I understand your situation since I'm in it now. It had been years since I met someone and it instantly felt right AND my myself so emotionally available. Now I'm back to thinking I'm just going to take one day at a time, enjoy my life, wish the best for that person who rejected me. Honestly, he would have also been an excellent friend and now I don't seem to have that opportunity either. I think what hurts is that there was no explanation. Maybe, I could have learned something from my experience that I don't see immediately. I want to thank you for expressing yourself. Sharing yourself and vulnerbility takes courage. I wish the best for you in all your pursuits. | |
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| when you think you found the right one
Posted: 6/14/2009 7:53:08 PM | Hi Suny and Tommygirl. I am so sorry that this has happened to both of you. I think it has happened to a good many of us who have tried our hand at these dating sites for any length of time. I have tried for the life of me to figure it out and have never come up with any good or logical answer. I think one problem that I have is that I am geographically undesirable. I live in a small town, 40 miles from CDA or Spokane. Most of the singles from my area are from both of those two towns. There are so many singles on here and the fishing has got to be good in those two areas and the two aren't that far apart from each other, so my guess is they eventualy find someone who lives a lot closer. Let's face it, when you want to go out to dinner or dancing on a Friday or Saturday night, most do not want to drive 40-50 miles.
I agree, it would be nice if these guys would have told you the reason, but not all guys play fair or nice (and it is not gender specific.) I have had guys tell me that women have done this to them.
I am starting to realize that guys are more interested in dating and making new friends, where women tend to be looking for long term relationships and something more serious. I guess it all comes down to the known fact, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and we do not think alike. If either of you has read that book it explains this pretty well. A lot of men will run, not walk in the opposite direction when they feel things are getting too serious.
I wish you both the best and good luck to both of you ladies. Eventually you will find the right guy. You are both wonderful, sensitive ladies with a lot to give. It was their loss. ;-) | |
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