| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/25/2009 8:01:06 PM | | we have a man on here on plenty of fish that is nothing but filled with lies just to get what he wants. he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants and get into his truck and leave. he left me standing here in a daze wondering what and why he did that to me. he has on his profile how he does not want an intimate encounter and how he just want some woman to love him and that could not be further from the truth. if he ever makes it big in the music world he will be found out about cause i intend to tell the whole truth about him. i was seriously abused and used by this man and you girls just better be on the look out for his ways. he has a lot of charisma and he knows just what to say on the web site of his. he is only wanting one thing and that is to have sex with you. nothing more matters to him. he says it relieves his stress. he says he is high in the sex department. he does not really want anything to do with a real relationship he just want you for just the one thing. there are so many on here like that and i just cannot stand that. whatever happen to dating getting to know the lady treating her like a lady and then if it leads to that it does. there is not a man on here i am feeling that is really worht my time cause that is all they want. just look out for this one man girls. his name i will keep to myself for now. you will know him when you run into him. he says all he wants is to be loved such a laugh. he is into music and he has a way of making you want to answer him back. he is 36 years of age. just stay away from him unless you are looking for this very same thing long term he is not about even though he says he is. he will say anything to you to get you in bed. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/25/2009 8:12:57 PM | I don't think I would be advertising that it only took a man 20 minutes to get in your pants...  | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/25/2009 11:19:46 PM | | Not to mention...you just described probably 80% of the men on this site. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/26/2009 12:56:56 AM | people tend to lie to get what they want. since we can't control them, let's focus on controlling ourselves.
sorry, but........who's fault is it really if we let ourselves be used? | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/26/2009 4:52:46 AM | | 20 minutes? If that is all it took then I feel no pitty for you. That is just tragic. We all get screwed over at one point or another, and yes I do think a lot on this site are after just sex, but it is also not gender specific. Not all men are this way, just some of them. Just like women as well ( as I heave been told.). It would take more than being told just anything in 20 minutes.....good grief. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/26/2009 5:31:19 AM | Question is, was he any good in bed ?
But seriosuly, you are maybe being far too romantic and not thinking with your head.
Lots of people go far to far the other way, and there are plenty of those on this site and in life in general so don't beat yourself up.
Learn from the experience and move on, but don't flip the other way and become too cynical. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/26/2009 7:17:49 AM | . he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants
he is only wanting one thing and that is to have sex with you. nothing more matters to him
he says he is high in the sex department.
he does not really want anything to do with a real relationship
now after reading all you learned all this from him....i would wonder... is this a warning for other women... or are you just angry he only came once and left? | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 1:16:38 PM | | Whoa... Very cynical. But, then, I know you really don't mean that. Besides, unless you're a total loser you don't really have to lie at all - there's plenty of people, men & women willing to live for the moment. - Rick | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 1:18:39 PM | ahhhhh
so it is HIS fault that you had sex with him after 20 minutes!!!
perhaps next time you will leave your pants on until he at least buys you dinner | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 1:20:50 PM | Hmmm...How many more of these helpless women being used for sex threads must I endure today.
You OP are responsible for your own actions.
Edit: Mmmmm Rain. Good point! Are you listening OP??? | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:22:21 PM |
whatever happen to dating getting to know the lady treating her like a lady and then if it leads to that it does.
*raises eyebrow*
*perplexed*
Ummm, OP...it sounds to me like it led to 'that'.
WTH am I missing here?
~ds~ | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 3:07:48 PM | LOL..... That's seriously disgusting. 20 minutes.... lmao | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 3:30:07 PM | we have a man on here on plenty of fish that is nothing but filled with lies just to get what he wants
Just one! I would have thought it a much higher ratio than that!
Before you get off your soap box though I could tell you way worse story's I have been part of involving a woman with about the same morals.
PS OP That is not a POF thing that is a "life thing" so maybe you should be more cautious and brush up a tad on reading people and maybe, just maybe, use the aspirin held between your knees trick for at least the first hour if not the first date! | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 3:43:52 PM |
i was seriously abused and used by this man
Okay OP if you were abused as in ... I said no and he refused to listen,, then report him ASAP.
But, if you mean as in your heart... well then, let this be a lesson to you.
Most of us have run across men like this.. just some of us have better detectors than others.
Trust me, there are many men on this site that are not looking for sex only... I have met lots of them. You just have to be wise enough not to fall for the sweet words of a virtual stranger next time.
But please, do not take this attitude towards all men on here. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 4:15:46 PM | | Why do you just trust someone like that? Trust must be earned and not given right away. I believe that you must test people by asking questions, hearng what they have to say, and looking at what they do. ACTIONS speak way louder than words. Remember that for next time. I consider myself a romantic guy and I really want a romantic and loving girl but you must be patient and hopefully they will do the same. Be more careful next time. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/27/2009 4:18:09 PM | Never? Really?
a man lying? Never heard the like of it ....... | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 7:17:23 PM | soooooo........???????? what the hell else is new????????????????????
And your point is??????????????
I can't imagine ANYONE lying to get what they want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whether it be sex or otherwise.
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/28/2009 12:47:24 AM | u got PLAYED!!
I take my hat off to the dude that got u in the sac after 20 mins
loose lips sink ships
get alife | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/28/2009 1:31:47 AM | He is 36....old enough to be your son...
Live and learn. Don't listen to sweet NOTHINGS next time. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 6:28:12 AM | | This is truly a frightening post. Even more disturbing is if you passed this stupidity on to the children you birthed. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/28/2009 7:56:28 AM | | I hear loneliness. I also hear judgments being made by others about someone's loneliness. If you gave him what he wanted in 20 minutes time, I would say you are fragile and lonely..and need to discover the power and love for yourself within you before trying to find a man to love you. I myself do not have sex with strangers. I have been on this site for years and am still looking for the right one. Men travel a thousand miles to meet me, and I do not have sex with any of them. In fact they are told before they even come here that they will not get sex. If the man falls away, good for him. Good riddens. Learn to feel the power of NO! | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:05:55 AM | | Now let me get this straight, 20 mins from arrival to departure? Meaning he actually got in your pants (providing you were wearing any) within minutes of knocking on the door (providing the door was even closed)? Sounds like there is a lot more to this story than you choose to share, but in all honesty, I'm sure you realize, you have shared more than enough. The guy may be a louse, and I certainly don't condone his actions, but we are all responsible for our own bad choices. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/28/2009 1:16:23 PM |
whatever happen to dating getting to know the lady treating her like a lady and then if it leads to that it does.
You answered your own question OP. If you had acted like a lady you would have been treated as such. However, to drop your pants within minutes of meeting someone is definitely NOT acting like a lady in my books. But I guess we all have a different definition of what it means to be a "lady" | |
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