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 damsalindistress

Joined: 3/17/2009
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Masturbation, How often is normal?
Posted: 5/5/2009 2:19:06 PM
Was wondering how often most women need to masturbate? And how often do men need to?

I can go weeks with out the desire to masturbate, and then there are times that I can't satisfy myself enough and have to do it up to 4 times in a day. Now some are instant gratification, others can take an upto an hour.

Are there others that are going through peri-menapause, who have got a higher then normal sex drive? or have you always had a high sex drive? Or is it the fact that you are single that creates the need for sex and companionship?
 sarcasticboy

Joined: 9/14/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2009 2:22:32 PM
dpeends on mood and if i am getting any good sex. mixed with regular sex a couple times a week......in a dry spelll 5 times a day
 FunkyMonkee

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 2:23:27 PM
Remember it will make you go blind.
 damsalindistress

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Posted: 5/5/2009 2:25:13 PM
Oh sorry, fairly new to forums, didn't know that this had been covered before, however I am sure there are some newcomers that would like to talk about the situation. And since I really can't talk about it with the girlfriends, as they are fairly well narrow minded, I thought I would try and find some others that have an opinion on the matter.
 ~JustSimplyMe~

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Posted: 5/5/2009 2:57:53 PM
How often do you masturbate?

That's pretty normal :)
 whytwater

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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:01:48 PM
Remember it will make you go blind.


Lol. I suspect that the source of this caveat is from the house of the head prelate in Roma, whose agenda seems to be to maximize the number of financial supporters for Holy Mother church. In truth, a build-up of sexual energy has more blinding effect than any method of release.


And since I really can't talk about it with the girlfriends, as they are fairly well narrow minded,


There are plenty of blindered horses running rampant through these pages as well.

I haven't a clue about the practices of women in my world, OP, but I'd have to say 5 days out of 7 for me, sometimes more than once, depending on, I dunno, stimuli? Lol. It tends to return my feet to the clay. But I've never gone for anything close to an hour!!! Holy chit, something could rub off, and NOT grow back!! Lol.
If you're premenopausal, you're on the cusp of a sense of sexual freedom you have never known. Revel in it! Lol. Contrary to popular phraseology, there's nothing abusive about it. More therapeutic. imho.
I use the local fire station alarm as my cue-goes off daily at 2 p.m. sharp. LOL.
 Briannazg2

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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:03:00 PM
I can go weeks with out the desire to masturbate, and then there are times that I can't satisfy myself enough and have to do it up to 4 times in a day. Now some are instant gratification, others can take an upto an hour.


Sorry but the record stands at 21 times by some chick as quoted in another thread....so until you reach that limit, keep your browser cache cleaned of porn & have fun... beware of carpal tunnel... <--- that's masturbating so hard you will see the light

may want to do thread search before you post again, rules are tight here...

to answer your question OP... depends on the mood...


I haven't a clue about the practices of women in my world


It would scare you my friend.... LOL :roll:


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"Normal" is a word that should be eliminated from your vocabulary...

Just a setting on a wash machine lol
 Momma Lotus

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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:08:24 PM
"Normal" is a word that should be eliminated from your vocabulary...
 nizhoni1

Joined: 3/25/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:13:42 PM
I dont think he will see that
 whytwater

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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:18:30 PM

It would scare you my friend.... LOL


Just flashed on that scene where Yoda advises Luke of the power of the dark side. Like me at first blush, Luke sorta puffs out his chest and claims he's not skeered, and Yoda says, "You will be".
Always thought death by drowning would be what did me in- not some lady in turbo sex mode.
 Briannazg2

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Posted: 5/5/2009 3:45:14 PM
City lights dim.... oh its the chinese on main grid alright....
Made in China vibrators, dildo's oh My...... fades to black LOL and can hear ole Darth still breathing and fogging up his screen LOL
Masturbation, How often is normal?
Posted: 5/5/2009 3:47:23 PM
HMM NOT SURE ABOUT NORMAL, BUT I AM A DAILY KIND OF GAL *BLUSHES*
 nicole6325

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Posted: 5/5/2009 4:56:51 PM
I would say to each their own... however, on a personal note (when not in any kind of a relationship) once when I wake up and once before I go to sleep.
 HenXX

Joined: 3/2/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 5:21:05 PM
op........think you need to see a specialist for your low sex drive.......def way below normal! The fact you ask this question obviously means you know there is something wrong!!!!!!
 Pixy Dust

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Posted: 5/5/2009 5:26:22 PM
I would say as long as it doesn't interfere with your other functions in life and doesn't interfere with your love relationship and you don't go blind then it's all relative don't you think?
 no_1_bby

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Posted: 5/5/2009 5:56:47 PM
*Normal* depends on the person. I've had crazy days for me.. up to 5 or 6 times in 8 hrs... I've also gone months without. It happens whether I'm in a relationship or not.
 whytwater

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Posted: 5/5/2009 6:27:58 PM

City lights dim.... oh its the chinese on main grid alright....
Made in China vibrators, dildo's oh My...... fades to black LOL and can hear ole Darth still breathing and fogging up his screen LOL


Okay, I'm probably not 'sposed to say this, but I have this irrepressible urge to express verboten thoughts, on a fairly regular basis, and I'm pretty much convinced that a sexual event with you would wreak much the same havoc as crossing those Ghostbuster streams- Zuul would consume my body, the marshmallow man would disintegrate, the dog-bytch would be zapped back to her origins, the sheets would lie in tattered ruin, and at some point, you would be hovering about three feet above the mattress.
 mandarine1

Joined: 4/30/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 6:30:24 PM
I am like you damsel, I can go weeks without and then want to do it multiple times in a day or series of days. Would probably do it more often if I ever get around to buying another vibrator.

But in answer to your post, I think normal depends on the person. Not sure of the stats and what they say is normal.
 Leeanne

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Posted: 5/5/2009 7:05:48 PM
Normal is simply a term to set a boundary for those who give a sh:t! When it comes to sexual pleasure normal is not a word that enters into some peoples life!
 Briannazg2

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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:15:37 PM

convinced that a sexual event with you would wreak much the same havoc as crossing those Ghostbuster streams- Zuul would consume my body, the marshmallow man would disintegrate, the dog-bytch would be zapped back to her origins, the sheets would lie in tattered ruin, and at some point, you would be hovering about three feet above the mattress.


been watching again haven't ya...dayum LOL... you forgot to say the neighbors lit up a cigarette afterwards... sheets tattered are much better than one night with candles.... turned the waterbed into a titanic fantasy really damn quick LOL
 penzer

Joined: 4/25/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:21:34 PM
ya i gonna be every day guy throwin it out there... once a day is good to clean out the pipes, i do, of course i get in shiit for it cause thats 30 mins less time with the ladies
 MandaKay

Joined: 4/13/2009
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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:44:40 PM

And since I really can't talk about it with the girlfriends, as they are fairly well narrow minded,


Just out of curiosity, why do you think your gal pals are so narrow minded? Maybe they think that about you and are afraid of bringing up the subject? My friends and I discuss everything. Nothing is taboo or forbidden to talk about.
 kpooks

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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:45:23 PM
Depends on how hot the female company in my presence is and how often I'm around them. When beautiful women are around me all the time, and if I'm not having sex with any of them, I can't get them out of my head and I'll fantasize about them and masturbate at least once a day until the image of them is purged and gone from my mind. Hasn't really changed much since puberty. Run out of sperm much quicker these days...can't spill seed 5 times a day like I did in my early 20s, but I can still get off 1-2 times a day now.
 ZenBeth

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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:59:27 PM
So much depends on what stress is in ones life, which is one reason I do self love. And I have always had a high sex drive. Or if a spouse is away, or you have eaten something sensual and the mood hits you a person may want self love.

To much would be if someone is doing it instead of making an effort to get out and do other things. Like when sex is what food becomes to someone with an eating disorder.

~Beth~
 54online

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Posted: 5/5/2009 10:19:16 PM
It's just you and your toys - who cares ?????
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