| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:51:05 AM | | You've gone out several times..... you text and talk on the phone a few times a day..............you enjoy each others company and are physicaly attracted to one another but are waiting to be intimate( both parties agree to wait) all signs pointing toward a relationship but how do you know when your a couple? Do you say " hey Im diigin you and your diggin me, lets be a couple" cheesy I know but Im sure you know where Im headed w/ that..............................aahhhhh........... | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:57:33 AM | I read the book "He's Just Not that Into You" and it said you are not a girlfriend until he introduces you as "The girlfriend" or calls you his girlfriend. Never assume  | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:40:29 AM | you could just say sometime that "I am really into you, and would like to take this to an exclusive level. I only want to get to know you right now and I am going to put on hold dating anyone else till i see where this goes...how do you feel about that?"
Or you could sleep with him...that usually seals the deal for me lol | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:43:32 AM | | I'd say a minimum requirement for being a couple is to actually discuss what it means to be a couple. Oh - with each other, not with the fishies. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:06:30 AM | sit down and have a talk... it may be cheesey, but its better to see what you both want. if you wait to be introduced as the boyfriend/girlfriend, it may not be for a while and that person may believe you are dating before you think you are, have the talk.. ask her if she wants to be "your girl"....
I would rather be safe than sorry. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:14:46 AM | | I'm for having the chessy conersation. Good relationship are full of good cheese, it makes them fun! But really all you have to do is just ask "hey, I've been thinking....What would call our relationship?" and the wheel of cheese goes rolling! If shes weirded out by something as simple as that and you feel the way you do, maybe somethings a little off? Good luck | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:20:36 AM | | You have the conversation in which you both decide to be exclusive and see where it goes. Nothing more. No I love you stuff, or you're the one forever or any of that crap. That comes later. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 11:37:03 AM | | One way you can tell is by counting how many of you there are. If it's more than one and less than three, you would be either a pair, duo, duet, brace, or a couple. To tell whether they have started thinking of yourselves as having couple status, you can ask them straight up whether they are aware of the unbreakable bond yet, or are still thinking they could wander away as if free to do so. A look of terror would mean they had not yet realized the exclusivity clause had been invoked. If they get smarmy and reach for your hand, it means they already surrendered to the fact of your union. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 12:17:21 PM |
One way you can tell is by counting how many of you there are. If it's more than one and less than three, you would be either a pair, duo, duet, brace, or a couple. To tell whether they have started thinking of yourselves as having couple status, you can ask them straight up whether they are aware of the unbreakable bond yet, or are still thinking they could wander away as if free to do so. A look of terror would mean they had not yet realized the exclusivity clause had been invoked. If they get smarmy and reach for your hand, it means they already surrendered to the fact of your union.
*snort*
I think I love you. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 3:25:21 PM | Wait four months or so to become intimate...most meetings become fast and furious when the attraction is there ...
We as adults need a bit of self control ....we don't want to give out all the goodies then everything comes to a screeching halt because there is nothing left to look forward to..
besides..."What do you want to do? ...I don't know..what do YOU want to do?.....I dont know...what..."
The name of the game is to forge a relationship and it's not going to happen when you jump in bed on the third date... | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 11:20:09 PM | | you will know if the guy would tell you "I want you to be my girlfriend" if he didnt say anything then youre just dating with free ****.(thats only my opinion) | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 5/7/2009 11:46:37 PM | | My last boyfriend was so cute about it, he simply held my hand and asked if I'd be his girlfriend! Too bad his cuteness didn't last! | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:34:18 PM | I think you sould consider that you are a "couple" when you are introduced to his family and friends as his girl friend..... | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/3/2009 8:27:19 PM | The only way to know the answer to that question is to ask.
Of course you don't start with "We need to talk." But you do need to ask about how he sees you. Sounds like you're already emotionally involved and in all fairness to yourself you need to clarify if those feelings will be returned.
I would suggest that you ask those questions soon to prevent a misunderstanding. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:34:02 AM | | If youve been asked out and you said yes, you are a couple. Or if youve asked her out and she said yes then you are a couple. Asked out by asking will u be my ____? Its real real official when yall go public with it. Thats my answer. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:36:02 AM | | Yes, I agree that you need to have the "what's our status now? Are we exclusive?" talk before you can know for sure. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:06:40 PM | | I once dated this girl, and I never actually called her my gf, but then after she dumped me, I called her my ex and vice versa. So she was never my girlfriend, but she is however my ex-girlfriend. I don't quite have these rules figured out either. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:29:18 PM | If you have to ask, it ain't happening.
First you have intimacy. That is sex and seeing each other peeing and all that stuff. Second, you spend more than two to three times a week together. Then you have asked, not assumed to be exclusive. Then you're a couple. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:28:29 AM |
you are not a girlfriend until he introduces you as "The girlfriend" or calls you his girlfriend. Never assume
So is this the decision of the man's.
Ahhhhh I get it, he get to say when you are his girlfriend, and then you get to deceide if you can be bothered to be or not.
No .... I think I am with the cheesy talk together. | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/7/2009 11:39:40 PM | The only way to know for sure is
if you can pass gas in each others presence
and you think its cute
your a couple | |
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| How do u know when your a couple
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:09:12 AM | | If the relationship is new and one of the parties wants to confirm it early on...a discussion about it will usually be brought up...if the relationship is long term...you're looking for a place together, you have things at his place, you spend 4-5 days a week at his place...safe to say you're a couple. | |
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