| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:21:15 PM | Please tell me if you can fist a lady who has not given birth.
I have had fidting as a fantasy for a while and have not been able to find much "technical" information on this subject.
If anyone can help either with an answer to this post or a reference to available information, that would be appreciated. Thanks | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:47:24 PM | Wow, OP.... you're 60....just how young a girl are you dating????
yes, you can fist a girl who's never had kids before. However you better make damn sure she's ok with you doing this to her... she might not be, ya know. Just because it's your fantasy doesn't mean they share in your fantasy.
With that said.... women are made to stretch. That's why we can have kids after all.
So start with one finger... then two... work it around a bit... then 3... same thing.... then 4... and yes, you are going to need to take it slow and you're going to need some lube and LOTS of it. Eventually you can get all 5 in there but to get in you're gonna have to squish your hand together... kinda like all fingers/thumb straight out but thumb and index finger touching pinky. Once you get past the knuckle on your thumb you are good to go. Again... and I can't stress this enough.... take it SLOW.... You aren't gonna have your whole fist in there in like 5 min., ok? She'll probably feel a little pain from it so be as gentle as you can.
For more info on fisting you can either do a thread search and type in fist or google "fisting techniques". You should find everything you are looking for. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:04:01 PM | GEEZ!
Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.
You both have pedophile written all over you!
Sickos. Disgusting PIGS! | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:13:10 PM |
Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.
You DO know sidewinder154 is female, right?
You both have pedophile written all over you!
Where do they mention children?
Sickos. Disgusting PIGS!
I'm guessing you're not up to help the O.P. with his fantasy?  | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:13:10 PM | Huh??
Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.
When I checked sidewinder's profile she looked female to me...so is vision impairment your excuse or just plain old stupidity?
You both have pedophile written all over you!
What does fisting have to do with pedophilia?
Different strokes for different folks. OP there is lots of info out there but like sidewinder said..make sure your lady is agreeable to this and go slow. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:14:40 PM | "GEEZ!
Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.
You both have pedophile written all over you!
Sickos. Disgusting PIGS! "
Harsh much?
Have you never heard of the "thumper" philosophy...
If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all?
Truth, Adults make the best children-TruthinessInc | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:20:13 PM | ^^^^^^^LMAO  The poster giving the advice is a FEMALE, LOL.
Add to that the fact that NOTHING either of them said even hinted at pedophilia, I'd say you pretty much missed the boat.
Fisting is NOT one of my kinks; but there are a large number of stretch receptor type nerve endings in the vagina; and apparently a lot of women enjoy this. Again, not my kink, I'm just saying...to each his/her own, and as long as everyone is a consenting adult, and is enjoying themselves, why bash them? The guy had a legitimate question, and the responder obviously answered from a helpful, and educated perspective.
OP, just to point out the obvious, the fact that the first child makes it out ok is indication enough that the vagina is indeed very pliable. Also, after childbirth, with few exceptions, the vagina returns to it's pre-birth deminisions and elasticity.
EDIT: Sorry guys, when I started typing I was right under the second poster; you guys just beat me to it. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:25:39 PM |
GEEZ!
Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.
You both have pedophile written all over you!
Sickos. Disgusting PIGS!
Ummm...sweetness...
1) OP can ask whatever the F he wants to. YOU didn't have to read it...but you did...what do you think fisting was about?>
2) sidewinder ain't no MAN. Better get your eyes checked
3) WTH does his question have to do with pedophilia? Do you even know what the topic is about? Or are you riding the judgmental broom just because you can?
4) What's sick and disgusting is you being ignorant. Yes...IGNORANT. The sex forums are open to any and everyone to post but there's absolutely NO reason for you to come out riding the judgement broom if it's a topic you don't know anything about or find distasteful. Truthiness was trying to be nice--I'm not. Your response wasn't needed.
People can have whatever desires they want. What his question is about has nothing to do with kids whatsoever. You might want to do a mind check next time before you open your mouth. Shoes don't taste good when you have to eat them...words sometime are even nastier.
OP--fisting isn't for everyone and if you can't talk to your partner about this desire then please, don't just do it. That's one surefire way to get hurt. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:29:09 PM | Yeah, women are sexual deviants too. Since when would pedophiles have to be only female. The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.
Either way. This post is f-ing sick!
Laugh all you want... but these are the kind of people who end up on the news for raping... and the kind who destroy families.
Get a reality grip!
Oh yeah... and don't call me "sweetness." | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:35:49 PM | | specialheartedlady...you are the one who called the top 2 posts males...so open eyes before opening mouth because you came off as quite un-intelligent with that alone. And who said anything about young women? There are lots of women who have chosen not to or cannot give birth...or maybe OP's lady had a c-section and therefore no vaginal stretching. Anyway you look at it you come off looking like a close minded fool. You are definitely specialhearted. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:36:19 PM | | Um, at the risk of--well, I'm not sure at the risk of what--I'm going to admit that I like fisting. And I haven't had any children yet. Oh, and I'm of legal age. Though it's been suggested that I'm a deviant sicko. Anyway, I like it to be started with the person's hand in what I call a shadow-puppet duck shape. Can you picture that? It makes the hand kind of narrow. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:38:25 PM | "The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet."
Reading really isn't your forte, huh?
"but these are the kind of people who end up on the news for raping... and the kind who destroy families."
So that means you're the kind we see who runs into the grocery store for "just a second" while they leave their kids in the back seat of the car with the windows cranked and its 110 degrees out?
"Get a reality grip!"
Do you know the reference of the pot, and the kettle?
"Oh yeah... and don't call me "sweetness." "
Fair enough, sweatness
Truth, I hate people who are intolerant of other people’s cultures, and, the Dutch-TruthinessInc | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:42:57 PM | Azalea7
I WAS drinking some orange Crush, until; I came across "what I call a shadow-puppet duck shape. Can you picture that?"
Not only can I picture it, I pictured Donald duck doing, well, the UNTHINKABLE!!
I just have to say, that was pure poetry!
Truth, tomorrow, I'll be a real boy-TruthinessInc | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:50:51 PM | "The Donald himself? Ok, I'm not that much of a deviant sicko."
*shocked* I'm not a sicko!
In your puppet show you have going on; do you think you can make the likeness of Abraham Lincoln?
"Hmm, though a guy in a costume maybe..."
Hey! I just so happen to have my Bo Peep outfit back from the cleaners!
If you thought for more than a moment about your ability to possibly create the likeness of Abraham Lincoln, then YOU'RE a sicko! HA!
Truth, four score and a six pack ago-TruthinessInc | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:55:24 PM |
Yeah, women are sexual deviants too. Since when would pedophiles have to be only female. The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.
OK LADY...since you wanna be so smart...I, at 45, and am younger than OP, and HAVE NOT BORE CHILDREN, would be considered a young woman who hasn't had kids. Now, where in the F does pedophilia come into play? And if a young woman of 25 is into doing whatever her and OP want to do, again, explain the pedophilia??? I'm listening.
Either way. This post is f-ing sick!
Either way, you didn't have to read it nor did you have to contribute. Again, your ignorance is showing...you might wanna hid that before someone else sees it.
Laugh all you want... but these are the kind of people who end up on the news for raping... and the kind who destroy families.
What kind of crack are you smoking? You know the kind of people who've ended up on the news lately? Huh? Let's see...
I've read in the last week, at least 4 stories about men who are married and have decided, for some reason or another, that killing their wives and kids was an excellent idea.
Oh and let's not forget that lovely single mother of the year in Florida who's killed her kid for no damn reason...now THAT'S a model of single motherhood if I've ever seen one (that's sarcasm)
Do I need to go on? One 60 yr old horn dog who wants to experience something new does NOT equal pedophile or newsmaker. Angry parents and weird ass people do though.
Get a reality grip!
I believe my grip on reality is probably tighter than yours since I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with wanting to experience new things in and out of the bed. I bet that anal sex and anything but missionary is freaky to you.
Oh yeah... and don't call me "sweetness."
Gawd...the fingers hover over the keyboard, knowing that if I say want I wanna say I can go to banned camp. Instead, I'll let this one go and call you Judgment broom rider. How's that? | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:58:57 PM | *Using my best Jedi mind powers*
Say what you really wanted to say afashionlady...never mute yourself because of the ignorance of others...
And these aren't the droids you're looking for*waves fingers*
Truth, the force is strong with this one-TruthinessInc | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:14:03 PM |
Enjoy your rants. That's all it will ever be.
I do, I did, and if that's the best ya got then my work here is done. I think you got what I was saying.
Here's how life works online--if ya don't like what's being said, you ain't gots to comment (and yes I am using bad English on purpose). That goes double when it comes to sex Ms. Lady. Everyone has their "thing". Some people, like this guy, are brave enough to come out and ask a simple dang question about it. I might not like fisting--but he didn't ASK if people liked it or not, he asked what worked and how to go about fulfilling this "thing" of his. You've taken what was a simple and honest question and turned into a Salem witch hunting thing. Pedophilia, raping people...what part of the world do you live in?
Like I said, if the young woman in question is 25 there is no harm, no foul. Actually if she's YOUNGER THAN THE OP, and has no kids, there's nothing perverted going on.
Except whatever is going on in your brain lady.
OP--beyond the witch hunt hijack of your thread and my apologies but sometimes people....ugh...
Whatever you try, make sure that you go slowly, be attentive to her desires and needs, and hey look, Ms. Azalea is alllllll over that. Maybe she's a good person to talk to about this particular question.
And good luck guy...you're entitled to want whatever you want as long as it's not illegal! | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:30:16 PM | SpecialHearted~...what disturbs me most about your rants is not the stupidity of what you are writing...God knows there are enough fools with access to the Internet and a belief they have something to say.
Nope...it is when I looked at your profile and found that you have a graduate degree and are beginning work as a counselor.
That blew me away. You had no grasp of the OP. You were completely off base on the pedophilia stuff. And then you went after your detractors like a pit bull wanting to hump a leg. You really need to rethink a career choice you can so easily sabotage by trashing people's life with your casual opinion delivered under the persona of being a professional counselor.
 Just my $0.02 worth...but I do wish the mods would delete her posts. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:38:32 PM |
Anyway, I like it to be started with the person's hand in what I call a shadow-puppet duck shape.
You're killing me!
SpecialHeartedLady sure is...uh, special? With such a closed mind I WOULD say you're going to grow old being known as that "crazy cat lady" that lives down the street; but, after reading in your profile you don't like animals, I guess you'll be know as that "just plain crazy lady". You might be O.K. with having sex missionary style with the lights out (not that there is anything wrong with that), but quit being so judgemental about the rest of us that like something a little less vanilla.
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/7/2009 11:26:09 PM |
AlanE2 :Please tell me if you can fist a lady who has not given birth. I have had fidting as a fantasy for a while and have not been able to find much "technical" information on this subject. If anyone can help either with an answer to this post or a reference to available information, that would be appreciated. Thanks
Most ob/gyn get this question and yes fisting can be done on an adult woman who hasn't had a child. There are women in their forties and onward who have never had a child. Just go slow and don't expect it to work the first time. Fisting to some is similar to using a larger dildo or other sex toy.
When I was in university it was getting a Pepsi can inside that was the thing women would do.
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