| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/16/2009 8:49:32 AM | | every guy i meet it starts out gud last 4 about 2wks of them saying al these nice things inc they like me then they just stop texting. Wtf? Why do guys do this. Im a nice outgoing girl and ive been hurt so many times and i dont kno y. Im scard that everytime i meet sum1 the same thing will happen. :-( | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/16/2009 10:13:32 AM | | 3 sides actually. his side .. her side ...then the truth because each one is stretch it to fit themself | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/16/2009 2:56:19 PM | Get off the dam cell phone texting and actually get face to face communications between you and the guy you are interested in for a change.
I would never ever date any woman who swore by texting for our communications. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/16/2009 3:52:35 PM | Just remember OP, the common denominator in these scenarios is you. What do you need to look at in order to stop being hurt? Do you actually sabotage your happiness? I have done that before, until I realized what I was doing. Peace to your heart.  | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/17/2009 12:55:32 AM | That's why I hate text messages, if you want to talk to him just pick up he phone and call. Anyhow, I know it sucks when someone you feel for all of a sudden starts disappearing and you ask yourself ..why?? It has happened to me, and it will continue to happen this sadly is how some people are. You're definitely falling for the wrong type of guys. I was used to dating one type of girl and always ended up f***ed up, I had to tell myself that wasn't working and changed my scope of people...try doing the same.
At first it will feel weird and different , but at the same time it'll give you a whole new perspective of how to be treated by other people. I guarantee you won't go back to sating the kind of guys you're currently dating.
Be positive and everything will be ok. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/17/2009 2:13:27 PM | All you have to do is wait it out for a month or two before you get your hopes up. If I am chatting with someone for two weeks and then they disappear I don't think about it at all. Don't pay any attention to it for at least two weeks no matter what they say. And also there are flakes on this site. Don't expect anything from guys on POF. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 3:10:57 PM | Are you joking?
First off, learn how to spell and use the english language instead of butchering it.
Secondly, your profile indicates you are totally childish and materialistic...cars, money? WTF?
My question would be how do you manage 2 weeks in the first place.
Nice? Outgoing? I doubt it...nice doesn't focus on material things, it's what's inside that counts. Outgoing? Try getting off your cell phone and get into the real world where life is actually happening...you text so much that you've forgotten how to type the whole word, but then you probably posted this from your cell LOL!
Sounds like it's something about YOU that's causing the problem...I wonder what it could be? | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 3:41:37 PM | that's why guys doesn't stay with u long , just "hit it and run" lol. . . .u can suck it ! ! ! ! | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 4:57:14 PM | Just read your profile and well I can hardly make out what you wrote here.This is meant to be typed in the way you would talk not how you would text. And you been duped...like the rest said...Hit and Run. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 7:27:48 PM |
First off, learn how to spell and use the english language instead of butchering it. Secondly, your profile indicates you are totally childish and materialistic... My question would be how do you manage 2 weeks in the first place. Sounds like it's something about YOU that's causing the problem...I wonder what it could be?
Exactly! As if we couldn't tell she's high maintenance by those big ass sunglasses that are all the rave right now... STOOPID! | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 7:54:46 PM | yeh im totes joking thats why i posted it on pof in the first place. ;-) and for the record majority of ppl these days text shorter versions of words doesnt mean they cant spell
and why would you judge me when you dont even know me. im sure your this fun and outgoing chick who isnt materialistic.... well since i dont know you i cant say that. so next time dont post things that arent very nice. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 8:00:33 PM | | YEH THE SUNNIES COST ME $20 SO MUCH MONEY SPENT THERE. LEARN HOW TO SPELL UMMMMM DUDE YOU CANT EVEN SPELL STUPID. SO MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE. and for the record i dont really appreciate people like you and that girl assuming stuff about me that isnt true. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 8:32:53 PM | sorry but you are not a victim. You are choosing these guys.
You say you love party boys in your profile; well party boys are players and cheats; you choose these guys and actually think you they are going to treat you nicely?
You may think these guys are cool, and you may think you can show these guys off to your friends but they are leaving you in the weeds.
You chose the clubber lifestyle at a young age; party hardy right? well party boys hurt girls.
Change your choices, you'll change your outcome. Whats popular isnt' always right, whats right isn't always popular. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 8:40:54 PM | I just have two words..THANK YOU!!!!After reading your posts and profile it made me so happy at how well my daughter turned out and she is nothing like you at all...THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU !!!!!!
I raised a daughter with a brain when it comes to the guys she dates and her grammar. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 8:50:14 PM | | hahahahahahahaha anytime. im sure your daughter is exactly like you....judges a book by its cover BEFORE READING IT. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 9:09:26 PM | | I am judging by what I have seen through your profile and what you have posted here.You actually seem like the type of girl my daughter says that gives other young girls like her a bad name. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/18/2009 9:19:39 PM | Lol well from everything i know... Most of the male gender... and i cant forget to add the female gender.. are all players in some way or another. For instance... My ex.. after 3 years... just decides its ok to cheat on me. and oh yeah Girls seem to be the most to judge a book by the cover. So as for always being hurt... we all should THINK about who we have hurt by our own actions. Case in point. Karma is a ****  | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/19/2009 4:47:14 AM | | OMFG they just stop texting? lmfao Try typing in English including your posts and maybe someone will keep texting you! And don't make it ghetto either!!! WTF? | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/19/2009 7:12:54 AM | | i know how u feel i am sick of men i try and it just go's to the shits.i am also a nice woman and have alot to offer someone.when i am with someone i give it my all but never get it back i think i am going to go in hidden for awhile. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 5/19/2009 10:38:44 AM | Sounds like you are hurting.....YOURSELF!! Do you like this activity? I need to ask cause when someone is deliberate, and so onvious on a roll with cruelty in mind, just for sport, it always amazes me there are those who choose to endure it!!!! Guess thats why masochists proliferate these days! | |
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| Im sick of being hurt Posted: 7/1/2009 11:31:11 PM | | If a guy does not want me its his lost. Maybe, you should be looking just for guy friends then they would be more quailty relationships. There may be romance or physical relationship but friends last for a long time. | |
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