| Big Labia Lips On Women
Posted: 5/16/2009 8:50:10 AM | Hello all,
I have been seeing this girl for about a month now and for some reason she is very shy in regards to me going down on her. She claims “it really does not do much for her” . Well I finally put two and two together after a few times and it turns out that she has very big labia lips. I mean they are definitely the largest ones that I have seen but then again all the other women who I have been with have nice clean, neat, tight lips. During sex she always apologizes to me that her lips get in the way because they are big and always gets irritated when I want to go down on her. What causes above average labia lips on a woman? Is it being promiscuous, over masturbating, being with “larger” guys, being intimate often, genetics, etc? Also is the reason why me going down on her does not do much for her due to an insecurity issue or her feeling embarrassed?
Jake | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:07:07 AM | Why does she feel responsible for her genetics?
nice clean, neat, tight lips
Are you making her feel "unclean" because of her natural physicality? What are you doing to reassure her and alleviate her insecurites? If you are so hung up on this, how do you thing it makes her feel? It is YOU that has the issue, not her. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:14:14 AM | You better hope she doesn't read this if u ever want to get anywhere near here again.
I would certainly take it that you thought she was dirty, untidy, big lips !
And you even saying because maybe it was because she was proniscuous would be enough to throw you out on your head.. No ! Not your big one. The one between your legs. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:34:25 AM | | it's genetics bbz not that she's a big stinky hoe. Labia aren't an idicator of how many times a woman has been bucked, do you watch porn? Most of them have tiny labia and they spend their lives getting rid. maybs you should reassure her that's she's beautiful no matter what size her nether regions are rather than pondering why they're like that in the first place? OR maybe she does just not like being gone down on? | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:34:56 AM | OHNOYOUDIDNT!
What causes above average labia lips on a woman? Is it being promiscuous, over masturbating, being with “larger” guys, being intimate often, genetics, etc? Also is the reason why me going down on her does not do much for her due to an insecurity issue or her feeling embarrassed?
I hope to GOD that you keps those negative comments to yourself!
It is purely genetics.. unless she's into labial stretching. Ask her. No... on second thought, don't.
And yes.. she's probably embarassed considering the plethora of *nice, clean, tight lips* available in porn... to further cause insecurities in people.
If you don't make a big deal about it, she eventually will become more comfortable about her body. Best thing that ever happened to me was a guy who LOVED my whole body. There was no denying him when he wanted to go down on me. His enjoyment became mine... | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:39:26 AM |
What causes above average labia lips on a woman? Is it being promiscuous, over masturbating, being with “larger” guys, being intimate often, genetics, etc?
The last one.
Also is the reason why me going down on her does not do much for her due to an insecurity issue or her feeling embarrassed?
Yeah probably. She's probably too inexperienced to know how to enjoy it, and she's inexperienced because she's too embarrassed to let someone go down there. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 9:49:47 AM |
probably too inexperienced to know how to enjoy it,
and evidently, from your post Mr. OP, you are too! | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:02:50 AM | The OP isn't into big labia lips. What wrong with that?
Why the hostility? | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:08:07 AM |
The OP isn't into big labia lips. What wrong with that?
Are you a mind reader? I dont see anywhere in his post where he makes that statement. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:11:27 AM | *sigh*
It is genetics,,trust me. No 2 women are made the same down there just as no 2 men are the same. If you line up every single woman (and man for that matter) on this earth, i do guarantee you every single woman (and man) WILL look different.
I really truly find it amazing and shocking how naive most men are (and some women too actually) regarding a womans body! No amount of sex is going to change the look of her labia (inner AND outer), nor will lots of sex stretch anything out of shape (weakened muscles do that, due to many various reasons not having anything remotely to do with sex)! | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 10:41:09 AM | | My self I like them. It gives me more to lick and suck on and teez befor I go for the clit. It makes it easer to get the hood back and get to the good spot. I love to go down on a woman till she is begging for me to stop. No matter how long it takes the longer the better. I allso like bigger clits smaller ones are so damn hard to find and suck. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:07:57 AM | Some women don't enjoy oral. They prefer to have a nice firm part going in and out rather than a tongue playing around.
Everyone likes something different sexual, there is no right or wrong as long as you aren't doing something she says not to.
Every woman is different down there. I saw a plastic surgery done on an athlete. She had problems running because of enlargements. She is much more comfortable now. But not everyone can get plastic surgery. If your gf isn't comfortable with her body, it is because she has been made to feel uncomfortable about it. If you really care about her, let her know you find her sexy and love her differences. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:25:51 AM |
What causes above average labia lips on a woman? Is it being promiscuous, over masturbating, being with “larger” guys, being intimate often, genetics, etc?
The main problem with this ignorant comment is that you're assuming the "nice clean, neat, tight lips" are the norm. They're not necessarily--they're simply one type in an infinite amount of variation. Nothing "causes" big labia any more than anything "causes" small ones; it's all genetics. And I suspect your general ignorance and apparently being weirded out by the size of her labia is contributing significantly to her lack of ability to relax during oral sex. Not all of us have the stealth variety (and not all men prefer that version, either), and everyone deserves to be appreciated for the bodies they do have. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:40:28 AM |
If you line up every single woman (and man for that matter) on this earth, i do guarantee you every single woman (and man) WILL look different.
With the exception of twins of course. mmmm twin's vaginas. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:40:41 AM |
If you line up every single woman (and man for that matter) on this earth, i do guarantee you every single woman (and man) WILL look different.
With the exception of twins of course. mmmm twin's vaginas. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 11:48:40 AM | Please!
Every woman is different. Some have pronounced labia, others don't. It's not a biggie.
It sounds to me like your partner has had a couple of comments from less educated males and, as a result, has developed a complex.
You can, either, a) reassure her that her physiology doesn't bother you in the slightest and make the most of it, or, b) do a swift one, add to her insecurity, and hope to find someone more in keeping with your idea of what it should look like downstairs.
I can only hope that you choose a. Women aren't all Barbie replicas. Enjoy and embrace their differences. You might even find that a refusal to expect the porn star homogeneity will serve you well. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 12:52:37 PM | | Big labia lips on women are like the petals of an orchid, just appreciate the beauty and don't over think it! | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 1:10:22 PM | My good god OP, are you an idiot??? Do you think labia lips come in one size???? Tight and littlegirllike in all the pornos??? Man, you need to grow up and take a look at all sorts of women.
If men all had the same d*ck size, what a boring life would all us straight women lead!!!
(Edit: ewww I was really negative on this one, but am going to let it stand. Ignorance is just an irritation, and most women on here seem about the same view as me. Big or small, figure out what YOU like OP and then go for it. It seems to me her hangup is based in part by your perception that she is not normal) | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 1:16:28 PM | I can't believe that someone over 30 is asking this.
Of course it's genetics. I hope to god you haven't used any of the words you've used in this post to talk to her about it.
As for the final question (the only one that has any merit), sometimes embarrassment can make it difficult for a woman to enjoy things. Sometimes they genuinely just don't like something. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. In this case it's probably better to try to make her feel sexy for a while. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 1:22:32 PM | | First of all, it's genetics. She may have been criticized in the past and is very sensitive about being different from the labia alterated on pornflicks. Lastly, you probably aren't all that great at the art. And unfortunately, it sounds like you are blaming her rather than yourself for her unresponsiveness. I blame you on two fronts - physical prowess and mindset. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 1:52:05 PM | | Somewhere along the line someone probably told this poor lady that large lips weren't normal,and now she's self-concious about it. As a lot of other posters have said,it's genetics,just the way things developed. Personally I love large labia;there's more to lick. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 2:16:41 PM |
Chadsa:. the other women who I have been with have nice clean, neat, tight lips......What causes above average labia lips on a woman? Is it being promiscuous, over masturbating, being with “larger” guys, being intimate often, genetics, etc? .....Also is the reason why me going down on her does not do much for her due to an insecurity issue or her feeling embarrassed?
Without saying it you're last comment or question is answered by your assumption that she's been some type of ho. Fact is most large lips are genetic related. Some women even have one lip that is larger than the other. So if you have saggy balls should a woman think you are bi and have had men sucking on them to much? The woman deserves a better man.
~Beth~ | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 2:24:14 PM | Asking what causes large labia lips on a woman is like asking ...What causes a man to have a small penis? To the original poster, you suggest that she "caused" her labia lips to be different than what you are used to from past experience. The female body is a wonderfully unique and no two are the same. Savor what is unique about her and be glad you are even getting to share in the delightfulness of her body! I'm sure there a lot of men who would be turned on by her shape and size.
Do you go out of your way to make her feel comfortable about her body? | |
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Posted: 5/16/2009 3:02:41 PM | I used to worry that my labia was too big, it started when i was a teenager and it all changed shape, it scared me.
Now the fact that the lips are quite big, means that there is more area to be sucked ! so i get more pleasure ! So i would still prefer smaller bits, but you cant design it all ! No one has complained so far, not to me, maybe they have behind my back though. | |
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