| Let's get naked
Posted: 5/17/2009 10:10:04 PM | As I was standing in front of the mirror the other morning flexing and posing I noticed that my sixpac has lost some definition in fact it could be defined as six cans in a grocery bag.:) I am pretty comfortable with my naked body, though I do not parade it any more. But with a woman in the room I can get a hernia trying to keep my gut sucked in and there are still those love handles that do not retreat. My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time?  | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 5/17/2009 10:43:04 PM |
My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time? I have some concerns.
I've been told that I don't look at all bad (body-wise) for a 60 year old "old fart". But when I'm told that ... I always just look at the person saying it and say, "Ya, but I'm the one who has to see me nekid in the mirror ... 
Let's just say this ... I'm self-conscious about it, but if the man convinces me that he's finding me very sexy and the kisses are right and the other moves are also right ... then I'm into it. | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 5/17/2009 11:07:31 PM | 
believe it or not, a few years ago was the first time heard this phrase. A woman said something me about having this thing called a six pack .. 
I hung my head feeling sorry for myself. later I'am thinking WTF !!! I don't have a beer gut ! ! ! maybe a few mac bugers.
Now I go DAMN , she wanted my body ..................... annnnd could have had it | |
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Posted: 5/17/2009 11:11:21 PM | starman89506:As I was standing in front of the mirror the other morning flexing and posing I noticed that my sixpac has lost some definition in fact it could be defined as six cans in a grocery bag.:) I am pretty comfortable with my naked body, though I do not parade it any more. But with a woman in the room I can get a hernia trying to keep my gut sucked in and there are still those love handles that do not retreat. My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time?
Doesn't bother me. Have been au natural minded all my life. And today it was 105* here so swimming naked this evening was a nice treat. And my body smiles just thinking of all the great times it has seen. And I find it refreshing that as men and women get past age fifty that more and more are at peace with their bodies.
Have had a few friends who were in need of losing weight and were blessed to meet their partners who loved them as is, and because of this, within six months they had lost the weight. Wish people would realize that love can do a lot of things, including encourage someone to get fit and healthy.
~Beth~ | |
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Posted: 5/17/2009 11:31:16 PM | I have always been shy, never mattered my size, weight or what type of shape I was in...
I wonder if it has more to do with your life-long comfort? If you have always been comfortable au naturali, then maybe it doesn't go away. If you are shy???? | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:53:35 AM | It's been a very long time since I was naked infront of anyone....................
I think I'll be alright - I'll just down a few glasses of something beforehand................LOL | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 1:13:06 AM | i would hope to know him well enough, for it not to be a problem. trust is a very important factor in all this. besides most men and women after age 45 need glasses and in this situation, they would probably take them offn beforehand, either due to vanity or it's easier kissing that way!
surely you have some redeeming features, OP? i think when we like someone, we tend to focus on that for the visual and then of course, there are "feelings" that overtake the whole situation.
and of course, there's my old suggestion for similar threads: when you must go out the bedroom and to the bathroom, just make sure that your best side is the side your partner catches a glimpse of! 
wise words beth. i know my relationship is not working if i start to want to overeat! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 1:26:56 AM | The first time?
How does soft candle light sound, with some music and a couple glasses of wine?
I've got some really sexy lingerie, but that's cheating, since you said naked.
I'm pretty comfortable with my body, but I think it looks better with clothes on it.
Haven't had anyone run away...or found any bloody arm stumps chewed off under my head in the morning. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 2:05:56 AM | Works for me. I am all for it and don't have a problem with it. The problem is finding a woman I WANT to get naked with regardless of how "hot" she is. ALL the pieces need to be "in place". Even then, so many of today's women have "body issues" of one type or another... and it most certainly can affect THEIR "attitude" on the subject matter, regardless of how much praise or reassurance is genuinely offered.
It IS a nice thing to dream about though! SHE must be out there somewhere... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 2:18:49 AM | I'm thinking .... not all that many over 45 people (male or female) look as good undressed as dressed.
I don't have any bulges ..... but - I still imagine the lights should be off just in case  | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:32:58 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^
Most definitely. I am with you on this one Ron.................. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:49:28 AM |
My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time?
No problem at all. At this time of my life I'm quite comfortable with my body, I might not be God's gift, but I have no problem with being naked in front of a woman! (even better if she's naked too! lol) | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 6:16:49 AM | If I'm going to get naked with someone of the opposite sex, there's usually a bit of (cough, cough) arousal in there. And that tends to change things. As to sitting in front of the mirror and admiring my naked body ... I'm 58 years old !! ... Are you nuts ?? Why would I do that to myself ??
D | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 6:35:01 AM | | I think getting naked together is the perfect way for a middle aged man and woman to test their capacity for compassion and good humor, for those two qualities in that situation determine the difference between joy and terror. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 7:47:03 AM | Gravity and aging is the challenge of being over 45.
You can look damned good at 60, but it takes work and one must not be too fussy.
I think this is why night sex is so popular. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 7:49:29 AM | I think by the time I am ready to get naked, for the first time, in front of someone there will be a certain amount of trust and caring involved.
I would have no problem whatsoever doing this.
.... and please, leave the lights on! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 8:05:36 AM | | Like Treasured, I have always been shy ... no matter my size, weight, or what type of shape I was in. Even when I was in my "prime", you would never catch me naked unless it was under the covers or in the shower. Shyness/modesty has always been just a "part of me"... and always will be. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 8:16:11 AM | | An accidental nakedness I could be very shy or embarassed. But with someone that we are both getting naked together to make it. No problem... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 8:25:55 AM | I love takin off the man made notion that his cloths define me.
I have more trouble making cloths look good on than off
I don't have to worry if i choose the right style cuz it does not look right for my frame.
I do not have to worry if the color fits my skin tones and i don't worry about a man who wants to be intimate cuz he is focused on the lil map with a treasure in the middle...are you folks forgetting that naked allows the freedom to simly enjoy raw emotion in gender
the pureist form of connecting with self is empowering your unique to yourself...power card down to self in 10 times the effect of claiming your raw gender!!!!!
and shaking head yes...keep that light on cuz when you desensitize to accepting self because than you can relax completely enjoy your bodies gifts....if your not comfortable in your skin use courage to get there!
we are spose to get more accepting threw life experience not the other way around...(this is a clear choice to evolve and find your power in your gender!
this is using your parent card to deliver education to yourself and claim the consequence of education and choice to evolve or be left to your own fears....choose to empower your heart and know that energy is yours to OWN or walk right by and pretend you don't have the courage to find your respect to self!
so remind yourself there is still more courage to find...you deserve to discover your bodies gifts and your in charge of the outcome.
is your destiny to discover the unique part of you and set aside the stigma that retail would like you to believe....the notion that business standards belong in my bedroom make me rip off the notion and toss in a pile in corner....
do not know about you folks...but that is the one area your stigma is not welcome...i own all corners of my bed.
being naked cost nothing and the reward is empowering to your gender cuz you are perfict onto yourself.....unless you want to believe the business ethics tossed down your throat for a lifetime...is up to you to claim your strength ...no loss to me.
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Posted: 5/18/2009 8:36:34 AM | | Isn't it funny how that "6 pack"can so easily turn into a Keg? | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 9:48:34 AM | 95% of us look better clothed than unclothed....probably about 99.99% when we reach "a certain age."
But if we are really into each other and I have enough champagne, I may FORGET that I'm nekkid.......   | |
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