| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:05:19 AM | Hello. I am hoping some people on this forum have some experience in this area. I have a long standing 2 guy and me fantasy that I am now seriously consider fulfilling. I’ve simply pondered it in the past and flirted about it with some guy friends, but I am now interested in making it happen. The problem is – I’m single and this can be a lot harder when you don’t have another partner. For two reasons – 1) I’m a little embarrassed to admit this desire and 2) I need to find two guys, not just one.
I don’t want to damage one of my friendships, but I’m not totally sure about two strangers from on-line either. Also, I don’t want to shock whatever guy and his friend I ask because it’s not something that most southern belles usually approach their man about where I live.
If anyone has any suggestions let me know. I’d love to hear them!
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:16:04 AM | LOL!! Did you see the post by the two guys offering exactly what you're looking for?? Only thing is.. their in UK.... c*ck for hire. *sigh*
I too have this fantasy.. I have a guy willing to make it a reality. I can't offer any words of advice tho, sorry. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:18:59 AM | Is this really that common of a fantasy for women?
I've met a few girls before who told me they did this, and it was an instant, 100% turnoff for me.
As for advice, I would say to use the internet and find some no strings attached guys who are ready and willing. Doing it with a friend may make you feel more comfortable short term, but chances are it'll screw up your friendship and cause potential complications.
Plus your circle of friends may call you, "fingercuffs" behind your back. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:27:43 AM | | I could never do a MFM. Thats just me. I couldn't imagine being in that kind of situation. Now, for me, a FMF would be a fantasy I've always had, but will probably never get to do it. Any ideas on how someone like me would go about looking for that kind of situation? | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:41:37 AM | Jennifer sometimes there is just too much to you. I once bought a girlfriend this very fantasy, but she was a friend who was a girl not someone I was romantically involved with. I can understand why a woman would want a cvck in the **** and another one in the mouth or butt, very erotic, however I think you should tread warily, much potential danger with strangers. In this case it could actually be safer with professionals with your SO standing guard. Look into that side and good luck I remember cost me $500 in oz no idea in Nth America | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 5:48:20 AM | | This is a difficult one... Not got ANY experience in this matter, but I've heard of intimate friends who have done this, and it's ruined their intimacy and the friendship too... Is it worth it? Sometimes a fantasy is just that and nothing more. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:05:09 AM | | I'd say you'd be better off with two strangers rather than men you know. Possibly you may have to find a partner who enjoys 3-somes and then find another male. There are a few good swinger's sites where you might find partners. At any rate,insist on STD and HIV tests as well as safe sex,and have fun. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:16:05 AM | I am usually up for any adventure a woman cares to try but the idea of having another hairy set of legs in bed would be hard to get past. I cannot think of any guy I would share a milkshake with let alone a woman. Maybe that is because I am a lover and being loving to a woman with a guy in the room would seem weird. If I could get my mind to a place that it was just about sex then I guess if we each had our own end I could do it and then switch but I still think I would pass but I'll bet you already have offers coming in your email from guys that would love the idea.
Suggestion:
When I hire laborers from the local labor pool I pick one that I think can do the job then ask him to bring along someone he would like to work with. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:21:20 AM |
Is this really that common of a fantasy for women?
I've met a few girls before who told me they did this, and it was an instant, 100% turnoff for me.
As for advice, I would say to use the internet and find some no strings attached guys who are ready and willing. Doing it with a friend may make you feel more comfortable short term, but chances are it'll screw up your friendship and cause potential complications.
Plus your circle of friends may call you, "fingercuffs" behind your back.
Lol and if your girlfriend suggested a fmf you'd be more than willingy right? So a girl is not a slut if she has a ffm, but shes a hoe if she is with two guys at once? Idiot hypocrite. I find it funny that men that women should agree, without argument to your sleazy ffm fantasies, yet if she asked you to do one with two guys its a turn off? Do you see yourself. Dude if its a turn off dont respond to the post. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:27:04 AM |
FMF is not that hard.
Just date someone freaky who has gal friends. Alchohol helps.
Lol if this is true why then do I read about many couples finding difficult finding a third party? It would be easier to find another guy than a girl, but men dont want their women screwing other men., but they want to be able to screw other women. Just because you dont hear about MFM threeways doesnt mean they dont exist. They probably exist in larger percentages than mff they are just not widely discussed out in the open. THey are much more common than people think its the best kept secret.
I love how you call yourself a "christian" whith strong morals 8soldierfalcon8
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:31:58 AM | Becky911,
I responded to the OP and gave good advice.
How about you stop being so fvcking defensive, k? And for the record, if I had a gf who asked for this I would not do it with her. I've been down that road and it never ends well. Some fantasies should stay fantasies. The reality is far too complicated for a night of pleasure to be worth it.
Additionally, if the MFM and FMF are both the same in your book, then calling FMF, "
your sleazy ffm fantasies ," then by extension you have to think MFM is sleezy.
So why the hell are you posting?
And just so you know, fyi, it's an instant turnoff because it seems whorish to me. When I date bi girls, I don't count the girls they've been with as sexual partners. Yes, I know it's a double standard, but the world is not fair and I am not apologizing for it. Knowing a girl had 2 cokcs in her at the same time would make her totally repugnant to me. I always must know a girl's sexual history before dating her. That includes how many men she's been with. 2 at a time would just be a deal breakers. But I highly doubt I am even the OPs type, so it doesn't matter. I doubt she cares, but you do... ?
Too bad, so sad, keep trucking.
I am not judging the OP, every person has their kink - which is why I gave serious, well thought out advice.
Now becky911, please crawl back under the rock you came from and stay there for a while. I would appreciate it.
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:36:19 AM | Hey OP This is not the best place to ask this question. One too many hypocrites here. Apparently the moral police will come out of the woodworks when you talk about fantasizing about two men simulataneously. The moral police have no problem with lesbianism and bisexuality in women and no problem with MFF, but dont you dare desire two men at once.
Oh look some douche already voted to delete this thread. I bet I knew who that was. Its a threat to the arrogant hypermasculinity of this forum.
If you want to do it keep it to yourself noone needs to know. This is easier to get than you think. Youre a beautiful woman Im sure that two guys on your favorites list would not hesitate to help you out with this fantasy.
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:38:14 AM | Becky911,
Once again, your ability to be a total asshat shocks and horrifies me. Do you make this many assumptions and judgements about people in your in person life on a daily basis? If so... I truly pity you.
So anyway, once again, cry more noob. QQ
For the record, being a Christian is attempting to be Christ-like, and having a certain morality. It does not mean wearing a suit all day and hiding out in the house. Additionally, when I became a Christian, or what my life has been like is information that you do not have. You have opened a huge can of spite, nastiness, and just plain tomfoolery on me simply because I said that MFM 3-somes are a turnoff for me, even to the point where you attacked my religion.
Why? Did your dad used to molest you with your uncle or something... and you liked it? I mean seriously, you've got some issues, hun.
PS. I and other have given the OP good advice. All you've done is attack other posters.
Oh yeah and she attacked my divorce below. What a peach. No wonder she doesn't have a profile up if she sees others' profile as ammunition for her venom. ::eye roll:: | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:43:12 AM |
How about you stop being so fvcking defensive, k? And for the record, if I had a gf who asked for this I would not do it with her. I've been down that road and it never ends well. Some fantasies should stay fantasies. The reality is far too complicated for a night of pleasure to be worth it.
Additionally, if the MFM and FMF are both the same in your book, then calling FMF, "
your sleazy ffm fantasies
," then by extension you have to think MFM is sleezy.
So why the hell are you posting?
And just so you know, fyi, it's an instant turnoff because it seems whorish to me. When I date bi girls, I don't count the girls they've been with as sexual partners. Yes, I know it's a double standard, but the world is not fair and I am not apologizing for it. Knowing a girl had 2 cokcs in her at the same time would make her totally repugnant to me. I always must know a girl's sexual history before dating her. That includes how many men she's been with. 2 at a time would just be a deal breakers. But I highly doubt I am even the OPs type, so it doesn't matter. I doubt she cares, but you do... ?
Too bad, so sad, keep trucking.
I am not judging the OP, every person has their kink - which is why I gave serious, well thought out advice.
Now becky911, please crawl back under the rock you came from and stay there for a while. I would appreciate it.
Lol so your saying lesbian sex is not promiscuity and you taking advantage of bi girks in order to get a chance at having sex with her best friends isnt whorish? You are intentionally manipulating women in order to **** her friends and you have the audacity to say a woman is a whore for wanting to be with two guys. Lol listen self proclaimed Christian with strong morals your God does not like hypocrites. So you'd willing date a bi girl as long as she exclusively had threeways with women, but if a straight girl had two male partners in her lifetime and she happened to be with them at once shed be a ho? Yet the Bi girl has been with more partners, So as long as its not men its cool.
The idea that Lesbian sex isnt real sex is arrogant. I guess lesbians that use dildos are hoes since there is penetration involved.
No wonder your divorced. Lol keep on manipulating women it will bite back hard one day. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 7:13:27 AM | Tough one given that you are single. Getting 2 strangers could get you into a situation you would not want or enjoy. Do NOT approach strangers or people you've only known/met online. If you hate anal and grab 2 strangers you may find yourself doing it whether you want to or not. You could also find yourself in a room full of guys instead of 2.....or in the hospital.....
Do you have a guy friend that is open minded? Someone you can talk to? Someone you can TRUST? If not, do you have any gay male friends that you could talk to about this? You might find it easier to discuss that way. Perhaps they could you help you set it up, be present to ensure you are safe, or even be one of the males to help you fufill the fantasy.
I would also suggest that you write down exactly what it is you want to do and what you are willing to do and communicate that with the 2 males. If your fantasy is to have one do you from behind while giving the other head, you want to make sure that this is what you do. A safe word is an absolute requirement.
If you decide to wait until you are in a relationship to explore this fantasy let me pass on some advice. You should do this either at the start of the relationship, before the L word comes out, or only when you are VERY secure in your relationship. Males tend to get territorial. Letting you have sex with another male wouldn't necessarily be a big deal. The other male ejaculating in you WILL be a big deal.
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 7:19:01 AM | You never hear pros discuss this, and maybe their experiences wouldn't be much help to the rest of us. An ex likely had 30 (maybe 70 by now - she's certainly not counting) of these. Very difficult to keep taggers-on off the carpet and chairs late in the evening, she exuded some sort of 'all you boys please follow me' magic.
I've only been involved in one - there my girl got things going with my friend while playing a bunch of Manheim Steinkammer tapes and using a slingshot to toplessly shoot out christmas tree bulbs.
Looking back there were a bunch of situations meant to be something but I was too much a doughhead. A girl in the attic with my cuz and me likely wasn't overwarm when she decided to toss off her shirt in the morning and stretch naked for him to see. The 'maybe 70' girl mentioned years afterward that an awkward situation we had, with a friend of mine sneaking down to illicitly touch her breasts, was one of the most erotic she'd encountered. I stopped that as well.
If I was to suggest anything it would be that the OP should find at least one guy that's tuned to her bodylanguage and in her trust circle, even if he's not keen on the extra guy biz. Guys can be trained but they need to see what's going on. < edit: posting your note likely helped -- of course we'll never know> | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 7:28:52 AM |
Jennifer sometimes there is just too much to you. I once bought a girlfriend this very fantasy, but she was a friend who was a girl not someone I was romantically involved with. I can understand why a woman would want a cvck in the **** and another one in the mouth or butt, very erotic, however I think you should tread warily, much potential danger with strangers. In this case it could actually be safer with professionals with your SO standing guard. Look into that side and good luck I remember cost me $500 in oz no idea in Nth America
What???? Am I not allowed to be a ravenous sexual she-beast sometimes??? Hehehe.. Don't answer that. I know what you will say... hehehe..
On a more serious note... I've thought about this since I was 17. It's now 23 yrs later and I've turned one down (didn't know the second guy) and had one turn me down (he was uber straight). My current fellow and I have discussed it. In depth. I'm perfectly content to leave this one as pure fantasy... and for several reasons. First and foremost it will lose some of it's power for me once it leaves the confines of my brain. In my head I have full and total control over what happens and when and how and by whom. If I were to have that same control in reality.. it would have to follow a script.. and I don't believe it would have the same spontaneous feel in real life that it does in my head. Does that make sense? No? Ok.. how's this. I'm too much of a control freak and will want to be telling everyone what to do and when instead of being able to just kick back and let it happen (like I do when I use this for fodder). It never.. not once, ever.. has failed to get me the result that I am looking for... hehe..
Secondly.. my guy and I do not agree on the third. We simply have different taste in men. Yes. Read that again. For this to truly work well for *us* the other man has to be someone we BOTH want to play with. There aren't many and Johnny Depp just doesn't return my phone calls. *shrug* Go figure.
I have heard from many guys over the last few years that they'd be willing to do it... but when push comes to shove and scheduling comes up, they always find an excuse to back out. Whatever. As I said before.. I'm perfectly content to just let this one be a favorite in the spank bank. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 7:38:14 AM | | Well, thanks so far for all of the advice. I like the idea of a safe word. That's probably a good idea. To qualify - I actually think for me it enhances the fantasy if both of the guys are relative strangers and don't know each other. I'm also not into them doing things to each other. All the attention should be on me : ). I'd like to try DP as well, just to see if it's as great as I imagine it to be. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 7:52:50 AM | Mountain_Gal4fun : I think everyone here is giving you great advice. You appear to be a fine young woman and yes, we all have fantasies, (I know I sure do) but you have to think of the big picture, the grand scheme of things. It would have to be an ultimately discrete activity as you probably wouldn't want it to get out that you did that kind of thing. Then there is the safety issue. There is also the question of what happens when and if you say STOP and the two guys want to keep going?
I share the same fantasy as you, but of course its FFM, but as I say, I will probably meet my maker not achieving this fantasy. But that is what the imagination is for. Find yourself a loving partner and maybe do some role playing, or put on a really good adult movie and watch it with your mate. Live out your fantasy through your partner that way.....I wish you luck!
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