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Posted: 5/23/2009 5:39:01 AM | | I met a guy about weeks on this and we met up twice and got on very well....or so I though. Then we had arranged to meet at his house last tuesday .I got of work early to meet him he had text me the night before about 100 times saying he couldn't wait to see me and he felt this was something special..I turned up at his house on tuesday and he didnt show up ...I just left after about 15 minutes i did try and ring him and he didnt answer. I just deleted his number...I came home a bit crushed and decided to go online he was obvoisly stupid and when he turned on his computer it showed up in my messenger...Then he logged off.... Ive heard nothing but Im not too bothered but Im just wondering what kind of guy does that .He could have just text to cancel...Any ideas | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 5:58:20 AM | | I say cut your losses, you've learned a lesson here about who this guy was. Least a gentleman would do is call and let you know he wouldn't be able to make it. You're a very pretty lady. I say move on to better things. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 7:19:13 AM | | There could have been several reasons why he didn't show up, however, a simple phone call to let you know he was running late, changed his mind or given any other reason would have sufficed. He should have at least called and told you something. I can't say that I would give this person a second chance or even if I would consider it. There is no excuse for people who are rude. Move on and put this behind you. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 7:25:45 AM | Forget him. He is an a$$hole and not worth your time.
but I will lay odds he will come around about 2-3 months later acting like nothing happened. - if he does, ignore him.
I personally have had this happen several times and my feeling is they had their chance and don't get a second one. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 8:49:04 AM | Thousands of reasons........
Could be his ego is large but other things are not..
Never set up during the week meets...makes you second best.
Selfish guys......use women for selfish reasons///sometimes and he just was not into meeting anyone at the moment...going into "his black mood".
Oh...you will hear from him...when he get's amorous... | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 9:14:40 AM | | The title of this thread sums up what kind of guy would do this. A loser. It's as simple as that. Move on. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 10:27:48 AM | This one is not a man and is best forgotten. The reasons why he did it are likely as lame as he is. A word worse than loser fits the bill with this one. Someone who does this doesn't deserve a good woman. I know some men will have a lineup of arrangements with women and then pick and choose from them-dirty little game!! Keep your chin up and move on Joanie.
Good Luck!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 10:46:55 AM | | Thanks for the compliment....Its so hard to weed them out and worst thing is hes a assistant manager in a club im going to in 2 weeks ....But I dont feel that bad anymore .Thanks guys | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 5:55:35 PM | I agree. I had a an almost similar situation last weekend. Except we actually we met for dinner, after exchanging multiple emails, and phone conversations. One of her emails even said "I have a good feeling about this."
I picked up at her house, took to the restaurant of her choice, had a nice conversation. During the dinner, she started dropping little hints. Phrases like "don't get too attached to me." I know I wasn't needy. Her profile even mentions she has been burned a couple of times. I believe she really wasn't trying, except dreaming up excuses to bail just so she could feel better about herself. What a sad way to live.
In short, cut your losses and move forward. You do not need toxic people in your life. Believe me, I'm better for it. | |
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Posted: 5/24/2009 10:00:58 AM | | He got scared and chickened out. Don't worry, hon--we're not all wimps. Next time, be wary of guys who use too much flowery romantic language-! | |
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Posted: 5/24/2009 10:23:45 AM | He's on a dating site? He met twice with you and then no show?
I'd say he found an upgrade.
Sorry, this is the online dating world at its finest.
Gotta luv it.
Nothing like an online dating site to remind us that there is always someone better than us out there LOL! And I say that with humor, not meant as an insult.
Thank the heavens OP...he wasn't the right one for you, just imagine the hell that bonehead would have put you through if he's that dishonest to start off with. Couldn't even tell you he was no longer interested.
Do you like cowards? I didn't think so. | |
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Posted: 5/24/2009 10:57:41 AM | | He sounds like a right weirdo who just likes attention, you can do alot better for yourself forget him. you get some creeps on the net. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 11:40:51 AM | | he is just not that into you | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 12:41:32 PM | you know i wouldnt worrie about it,and when you go to the club he works at,just show him what kinda girl you are and what he will never get now...his loss!!! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:07:52 PM | Joanie,
You seem very attractive, intelligent, reading your thread you seem quite articulate, so tell the Fish in the Sea of why you were chasing after a “Loser”…
It could have been as simple as he had another gal under his arm when you and he were to meet at his house. Play it safe, meet at public places where the scavengers, sharks and bottom-feeders are going to behave themselves. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2009 7:30:00 AM | | That was very rude hun. I bet you were a little hurt by the experience. It is amazing to me how callous people even women are. Does this happen to you often? Hey tell me what you are thinking ? Do you feel like texting? I am an honest nice looking highly educated professional man. I was taught growing up to have feelings for others. Write me if you wish. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2009 10:43:35 AM | | he's an ass not worth yr time or trouble | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 12:17:02 PM | | He is just a twat forget him. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 2:06:04 PM | | Had that happen 2 weeks ago. I met a sweet man on this site and we went out. Then we made plans again. And we was always talking .But he didn't show up for our 2nd date. So I called him and left him a message letting know he should of called but it was ok. That i went out anyhow. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 7:50:26 AM | Joanie,
This was not a man dear. But someone who does that IS a loser and you are way better off seeking out someone who will be respectful to you. Count your blessings ! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 9:34:27 AM | | Advice is advice... The most important thing to remember, is that we are ALL human and are hurt by the rudeness that people exhibit toward us... no ifs ands OR buts... | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 6:27:14 AM | I was dumb enough to give my "special" looser a second chance. There were so many red flags, and friends telling me, and I will tell you straight up I regret soooo bad that I let him con his way back to me. OMG talk about user, looser, lying, girl count your blessings, there are alot of good fish in this pond, but when you get that litttle feeling in your tummy---run with it---THE OTHER WAY  God
bless you will find better | |
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Posted: 10/4/2009 3:47:30 PM | | Sorry to say but he is not obligated to tell you shit. If he wantsto walk away without looking back, then he has every right to do so. Yeah he could have texted or called you, but he didn't. You may as well move on already. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2009 5:46:18 PM | “Im just wondering what kind of guy does that”
That’s what you get online! From both genders. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2009 8:28:19 PM | | No idea, but toilet paper his house. That's what I would do. | |
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