| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:12:10 AM | To the men and women: I'd be curious to hear from those who have been involved in a situation where either you, gentlemen, were caught viewing or possessing gay porn, or you, women, were the ones who found the gay porn or caught your man viewing it.
What were the reactions of all? Was it a positive experience, negative experience, humorous, uncomfortable, intriguing, hostile?
Thanks to all those who reply. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 11:38:05 AM | if a man wants to look at gay porn he has it in his head to desire the act.
I want nothin to do with a gay man or a bi man. If he doesn't like poosea then buh bye!
Oh and if I found gay porn anywhere near me it would go out with him and the rest of his trash.
I don't give a damn about gay people or what they do with their lives. I feel the same about my next door neighbor. What they do is their business and as long as it doesn't affect me I am good.
I date straight men. If I found out he was bi then he was not honest with me.
Now if the guy is just looking to have his inner "penus' stroked...I got no problem with that! Just give me some lube and I am on it. But if he wants a penus in his mouth he can get the fudge out of my life....and soon! | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 11:45:49 AM |
I want nothin to do with a gay man or a bi man. If he doesn't like poosea then buh bye!
Just want to point out the flaw in your logic. Bi men like p*ssy. I know this 'cause mine can't keep himself off mine. The one before him couldn't either. Just sayin'. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 11:46:11 AM | ^^^^^ forumnite.....
So.......if I like watching girl on girl action in Porn........
do you ASSume I have a desire for the act??
Amazing how people have to "judge" and "analyze" every sexual thought or act out there.
Can't we just watch some porn without it meaning anything other than we like to watch porn?!!
Some of us, just like watching some good ole f*cking and sucking.......no matter who's doing it! | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 2:19:55 PM | I don't think its a big deal. There are plenty of straight men who may be curious about gay porn, or may even have some gay sex fantasies, just as some straight women have had girl on girl fantasies.
I would just ask him about it. Are these just fantasies or is he looking to carry some of them out? Some men also like the idea of watching their women with other men.
For some men, it could be that they are still "hiding" who they truly are, by dating women, but still really want to be with men. If they grew up in a conservative or overly religious household, they were not "allowed" to be gay, therefore, they have to keep it a secret.
I wouldn't be angry about it, but I would want to talk to him about it. If it turns out he just has some gay fantasies, no biggie. But if it turns out he's truly struggling with his sexuality, then we'd need to discuss the future of the relationship obviously.
It would all depend on the situation. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:42:41 PM | Holy heck - who hasn't checked out gay porn?!? If ya say ya haven't I can bet a million bucks you'd be lying!! Everyone has sneeked a peek - especially since it's so easy to find on the web - in private!
Porn is mostly c*ck anyway so most men are seeing it anyway!! LOL | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 4:51:45 PM | | Have never checked out gay porn, and I would bet there are a lot of people (both men and women) who haven't. Never been curious about it, even once. To each his own...I respect that; but some of us love the women and have no urge to check out other guys. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 6:44:00 PM | I disagree with the fact that because a male is in possession of and watches a particular genre of porn then it means that is what he desires.
We all have had porn of several genre's but that doesn't necessarily mean that is what the person desires or even fantasize about.
Sometimes it is just what the male is particular interested in watching at that particular phase.
If I view plumpers, large breast featured actresses, "water-sports" or women that squirt or whatever else doesn't necessarily mean that is what I wish to have or desire secretly.
Many of us have viewed flicks that we were curious about or thought were interesting at one time but I wouldn't just assume that person has an secret desire for. Yes that person could be attracted to that genre and perhaps would like to engage in those activities but that isn't a definite. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 10:11:34 PM | Whatever I guess ... If he was Bi that wouldn't be my top thing to worry about it.
I have dated a lot of guys that were into a lot of odd shit. So, if I liked a man that was Bi. He would be the most "normal" guy I have dated.  | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/25/2009 10:33:31 PM | Yea that is what I am saying. If you watch girl on girl then you probably want a lil girl action yourself. If that is true then whatever and I really don't care what my neighbor does but for me I believe that anyone who watches their own sex having sex with their own sex and enjoys it, prolly wants it for themselves.
I am not gay, not bi. I am hetero all the way and proud to claim I have NO DESIRE to lick anything but what a man has.
I don't want to see it or and I don't ever think about it either. When I lay down at night I think about a man. When I watch porn it is man on woman action only and I am pretty damn open to just about anything men and women can drum up to do together.
I really don't care what other people think. This is my opinon and here in POF forums that is what people are seeking. People with personal opinions.
If you like watching chicks then go for it. If you say it doesn't make you gay they ...uh OK.
I am straight that is all I care about. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:08:46 PM | Thanks for the many positive replies. My question, however, really dealt with the element of being CAUGHT -- not WHAT IF.
By being caught, it forces you to address the situation right away. That's what I was interested in hearing.
For those open-minded individuals, though, thanks again for your feedback. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:35:50 PM |
Thanks for the many positive replies. My question, however, really dealt with the element of being CAUGHT -- not WHAT IF.
By being caught, it forces you to address the situation right away. That's what I was interested in hearing.
For those open-minded individuals, though, thanks again for your feedback.
I knew my guy was bi before we started dating. He was open and honest with me about it from the start, something I admire greatly in him.
There would be a difference between walking in on him if I didn't know he liked other men, and walking in on him knowing that he does like other men. I can't tell you what I would do because I'm in one of those situations, but not the other.
If I walked in on him now.. I'd probably curl up in his lap and.. well.. see what happened next. | |
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| Girlfriends/wives catching your man viewing or having gay porn
Posted: 5/27/2009 11:24:51 AM | "For once, a bunch of open-minded individuals. How refreshing!/"
i suppose "open minded" is one way to put it .... but probably wouldn't be the term i would have used. But to each their own. As a guy i can say i have never had the desire to watch gay porn. | |
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