| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:18:08 PM | Am having a sexual relationship with my boss, it fun but i've tried coming
off it as my job is important to me. All she keeps telling me is we can still meet up
and have sex with no strings attached.
Is this really possible? | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:26:56 PM | I dunno. Never had that kind of sex. But then, I like the strings, and tie bows in them. Not too fond of loose ends.
Sounds like your boss is (1) trying to preserve the connection, and ease your mind, and (2) willing to forfeit the nobler strings to save the sex. I'd never spank a woman for that, but I wouldn't put her in that position, having to forfeit something good, either.
You, on the other hand, are probably gonna get spanked here for workplace sex. Lol Can't help you there. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:32:36 PM | When sex is involved......there are always strings.........I dont care what anyone says.........there are expectations............which is the number one string.....+ | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:34:57 PM | Not in the OP's situation no, he's your boss, he'll obviously show you favoritism and has authority over you if you displease him.
The only no strings attached sex I know ( for my age ) is when a girl uses a man for sex for whatever reason, be it to get back at her past boyfriend, or she just needs a lay, etc.
However continuous no strings attached is impossible.
It's either a one time deal, or it's serious. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 5:33:20 PM | | I agree with Chidan. For the short term maybe you can keep it strictly physical. As time goes on it is very hard for us NOT to associate sex with or wanting more emotionalism. It's just our nature. Believe it or not I think an older woman has a better chance of staying the course when it comes to "just sex" and won't get all goooie later and want a *gasp*shudder* a ... a ... a ... relationship. As long as you're enjoying yourself. maybe learning a few things and NOT endangering your job and or your future doing this with her then what's your problem?? | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 5:49:27 PM | | Believe me it will not work. I just got out of a relationship like that. One of you and it sounds like you..will develope feelings and the other will not..they will want just the sex..in other words..someone always gets hurt in these types of relationships. I have learned my lesson. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:12:27 PM | | Sex with no strings is possible but not in your situation. You are the worker, and she is the boss. There is a disadvantage in the job hierarchy -- so right there, you got strings! | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:27:55 PM | | You have made one of the worst mistakes in the dating world - dating your boss! The string is already there - she has you as her little sex toy! If you don't mind that continue! | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 7:50:29 PM | As long as you understand you aren't being paid for your services . LOL
I think it's a huge mistake to fvck the boss. On so many levels it can work against you . I don't see many advantages to it. When or if it gets too uncomfortable for her, she can let you go at the drop of a hat...or find a way to make that happen.
I do hope she's a single woman. If not, you're in even deeper trouble. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:21:36 PM | seems like if your job was that important to you an you wanted to keep it professional an act like you had some kind of common sense,,you wouldn't have let your d ick do all the thinking for you an you would never have had sex with her in the first place..
major NO NO never get involed with people you work with or for..
dude the hole is already dug...
an i agree with a couple of the posters no matter how you try to flip it around or look at it everything has strings attached to it..an people have feelings regardless, an if not they will soon get a case of them,if the guilty conscience doesn't kick in first...
sucks to be you. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/26/2009 10:53:31 PM | | Aw, man! Are you serious? NSA?? YOU'RE BANGING THE BOSS!! You're worrying about strings and you got a f***in' NOOSE on you!! Cut this off before someone/something kicks away the chair, cause you WILL be left hanging. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:27:38 AM | Of course sex with no strings attached is possible.......just not at your place of employment  I have to agree with the other posters; getting involved with someone at work, ESPECIALLY your boss, isn't a good idea. But hey, you're already bangin' her, no point in stopping now. Just start looking for another job so if things with your boss goes south you'll still have an income 
In the meantime.....keep f*ckin' around on the job  | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:40:06 AM | No strings sex is possible between two that are aware of what the both expect...but not in the work place....I work in a cruel work envornment and see people make that mistake all the time....there are plenty out there looking for that very deal...and def not ur boss....good luck! | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 6:27:36 AM | | Sure,there can be sex without strings. Two consenting adults meet up,have some good sex,and never see each other again. However in your situation I don't thing it can remain that way,sleeping with your boss. Sooner or later there will be consequences. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:10:21 AM | It's certainly possible, unless you're a puppet. However, seeing as how you work with this person, there is most certainly a string involved.
On the bright side, either things will continue to go well and have no impact on your job, or things will not go well, but if your employment is affected you have good grounds for a wrongful dismissal suit! If that's a real concern, document your encounters and be able to prove it. | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:22:38 AM | I'm thinking Austin Powers-Spy Who Shagged Me, after Dr. Evil shagged Frow Farbisima, and he said "it got weird, didn't it?".
As long as the boss has been the one to initiate things (and you obviously enjoy it), there's no risk of sexual harrassment charges, and I'd say go for it. Unless things happen to not go to her liking...then she can make up any story she likes and get you fired. I dunno, you're walking a tightrope there. It's a form of sexual slavery. But she might get mad and fire you if you DON'T continue, so I'd say, do whatever it takes to make her happy, as long as it doesn't interfere with your job-! | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:33:22 AM | If she is willing to use you as a sex toy. Damn does she have a sister? I can't believe the men in here. Talk to anyone saying its a "no no" after a couple of beers and its like, "where do I sign up?" Yes its possible!!! I know someone that has been doing it for 8 yrs. Both married, both with kids, all 4 have jobs and theres no strings attached. Its not impossible!!! The guy even told me that sometimes they meet at hotels for a couple of hours and then they may not see each other for a few months. They stay in contact online. And yes they met online.
If you really want to cut her off, just do it and if she doesn't, and becomes overly possesive then it becomes harrasment and you as a male can sue her and the business. But if the sex is good, enjoy the ride while its there.  | |
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| Sex with no strings attached, is this possible?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:43:27 AM | NO!
There is always going to be someone catching feelings. You can't control it. It's going to start out like a game then it becomes real. You start looking at that person in a whole new light. If he/she has a great personality, it's going to be easy for feelings to develop. | |
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