| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:32:17 AM | I am thinking of Hosting a Sex toy party in the future with my friend we would like to invite males to it, cuz alot of our girlfriends are in Single or in couples .. but we were wondering would you men come to the party? or do you think that this is a women thing?.. and what if there were toys for men? Would you be interested if you were single (there will be single girls) or if in a couple or would you just send your girlfriend or wife? We are thinking of having this Toy Party when we are camping around a Bon Fire.(something different).
Please tell me what you think would you come if you were invited? | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:45:43 AM | | i, personally, would probably be too embarrassed to attend. However, I can imagine that any single guy that DID go would think he hit the freakin lottery lol. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:54:25 AM | Camping? Party? Bonfire? Marshmallows? French Ticklers? Ben Wah Balls? Drunk horny chicks?
Yes I'm pretty sure I would come, several times, if invited.  | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 6:35:56 AM | | In the interest of fairness, you should include Fleshlights and other male sex toys in your party. Trust me, even if a guy's not into sex toys, a Fleshlight makes an AWESOME desktop pencil holder. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 6:53:44 AM | | Quite honestly, I would not go for the sex toys. I'd go if I thought I'd have a fairly good chance of helping a woman or several women test one or more of the toys, but my guess is that wouldn't be the idea you had in mind. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:15:34 AM | You dont think the women (your friends) would be much more inhibited with males there? I think most would be WAY more embarressed with a mix of single males to ask questions or examine the toys etc...
If you had one for just men to buy toys for GF's and wives and had a couple cute gals there to demonstrate you could get a packed house and charge for admission. Although local legal authorities would not approve I am pretty sure as well as most of their wives and girlfriends... (wink)
Now you might do OK for one that included men only as a part of a "couple" that attended together... A "couples only" party with no singles might work great.
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:26:20 AM | I have been to several of these parties while men are in attendance.
Might I suggest, if it is singles and couples mix, unless you all have open marriages, make it no men. However, if you have men, make it a couples thing only. Usually, when men attend these parties, he is joining with his wife or g/f. I will tell you from experience, these parties get very uncomfortable for single women sitting alone, witnessing everyone making out with their spouse or lover... while she wants to learn about said vibrator. Like someone said, many times, these parties can turn into something very orgy-like. Especially uncomfortable if there happens to be a single man there and you sit the single people together. This isn't the type of place you fix someone on a blind date with. Like I said, if you all have open marriages or are poly and are fine with sharing with the single girls... and she is open to it too, that is different.
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:50:23 AM | *Checks my mail*
No invite? Awww. :p
Yeah, I'd show up if invited. I have in the past.
Just remember to check with your friends first. Not all the women there might be comfortable with a man being present.
I know some of those I've been to before, there were the odd woman who would quietly sit to the side, too embarassed to be open like she normally would.
Also somewhat depends on just what's being showed off at these parties. Is it mainly vibrators and dildos? Or are you showing off other things? Any kinky toys? Bondage gear? Floggers?
Sometimes having an experienced hand can come in handy. ;)
I've also found that if those attending are comfortable enough to be open with a guy, they can start asking a lot of questions. Asking for tips and advice on sexual (and sometimes just relationship) matters. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:59:11 AM | | most men would want to guy but you not out of embarrassment. me personally iwould go but probably just to hi on the horny woman that would be there. Lets face it a woman that has a healthy sexlife nirmally already has her toy. but i could be wrong. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:03:10 AM | No way sex toys are great for both men and women. I am a striaght male and often enjoy anal sex toys.
If as a women you have experiance anal and enjoyed it well its the exact same for a guy
Invite away who knows if your lucky it might turn from a sex toy party into a SEX PARTY | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:25:15 AM | Considering I've gone before, yes I would attend if invited. The one time I went, it was MOSTLY couples, I think there was 1 other single guy there and just 1 or 2 single girls. It was also a pretty broad age range, at the time I was 28 and either the youngest or second youngest, and I bet it went all the way up to 50. Just get everyone there an hour or so before so you can have a couple alcoholic beverages loosen everybody up a little.
There was no making out or "orgy-like" environment at the party I attended and everyone seemed comfortable with it. The ordering was done in a different room 1 person/couple at a time so no one knew what had been ordered unless they purchaser wanted to show everyone.
Having it outside doesn't sound like a good idea, just because of lighting. | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:51:25 AM |
No way sex toys are great for both men and women. I am a striaght male and often enjoy anal sex toys.
If as a women you have experiance anal and enjoyed it well its the exact same for a guy
Dude, sorry to break it to you but you are gay. No straight guy would talk about how they enjoy sticking things up their a.ss.
Also, I've never been to a sex party, I thought they were for women only, but I imagine it would be just as weird as going to a baby shower in that it would be all women, most are older, and I'd feel like everyone was wondering what I was doing there. But you should give it a shot! | |
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| Man's Opinion on coming to Sex Toy Parties..
Posted: 5/27/2009 11:48:13 AM |
Dude, sorry to break it to you but you are gay. No straight guy would talk about how they enjoy sticking things up their a.ss.
Actually, no, he's not gay. Taking it up the rear doesn't make someone gay.
That has to do with attraction to the opposite sex.
Personally, I don't want anything going up the poop shoot. But that's just me. LOL!
You do know that the male g-spot is tucked away up there, right? :p
It's always funny seeing someone say that anyone who enjoys anal must be gay. Considering it shows how far up their own ass their head is to have such antiquated thinking. :p
Sex parties aren't for women only. It's just that most women aren't comfortable discussing the same things when there's some man they're not used to around.
Meanwhile the "male" sex party is usually held over a round of drinks and dirty jokes. LOL!
But these parties can bring to light a lot of toys and devices. For use on both men and women. And various other tidbits.
I imagine it would be just as weird as going to a baby shower in that it would be all women
I've been invited to a number of baby showers. I've got plenty of lady friends. And being a close and trusted friend to them, they don't think twice of inviting me.
Admittedly, half the time I tend to be more for the entertainment of the ladies there. LOL! But it's all good. | |
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