| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:16:06 PM | | Okay guys, I screwed up and now I want to fix it. I was dating (living with) this guy that I didn't appreicate at the time. We broke up over a month ago and he still won't even talk to me. I see what I had and I want him back, what should I do? This is really driving me crazy... | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:22:45 PM | I think the reason for the "break-up" is important here.
but if he won't talk to you after a month, then i'm guessing the reason for the break up might be pretty bad.
looks like the classic case of don't know what you got til it's gone. you may have to chalk this one up to experience.
my suggestion is to move on...........however, before you even have a chance of getting back with him, he needs to get over his anger for you. this may or may not ever happen.
I believe it's over and you need to move on.
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:51:01 PM | For one thing.. You could get off this site looking for men for intimate encounters.
I mean how are any of us supposed to take you seriously, never mind your dumpty dumped boy friend. Please.  | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:10:04 PM |
I see what I had and I want him back, what should I do? This is really driving me crazy...
Chill beat me to it. If I wanted smeone back, the first thing I'd do is make a profile seeking 'friends with benefits'...Not. | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:13:49 PM | Sweetheart, save your drama this is a public forum so please fid something else to do hun.
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:13:51 PM | Whatever it was that 'distracted' you from this guy clearly wasn't worth it, thats todays lesson. Don't try and get him back, you'll be clingy, annoying and he'll resent it as it'll be little more than a blatant manipulation of the feelings he had for you.
But can you explain to us why you are now seeking intimate encounters with guys 30-99?...and at the same time asking for advice on how to get your ex back? | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:15:55 PM |
I see what I had and I want him back, what should I do?
Live your life so that you are worth being taken back. | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:17:17 PM | Thanks gentlemen for your advice. I agree with you guys 100% I must move on..
Much Love
BrownBarbie | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 8:18:08 PM | I have to agree with Chill Pill and MsEclectic...it's going to be hard to try to repair a relationship between the booty calls.
No offense. I'm not judging you. You can go have all the sex you want but don't try to drag an ex into it and say you want him back when you're looking for sex with other people. Seems pretty pointless and insincere. | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:23:40 PM | It's hard to put Humpty Dumpty back together again Kitten, you know that.
It will take time and patience ~ have you got those two things?
Dance | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:31:44 PM | Brown Barbie~Please put some clothes on and act like a respectable woman. Maybe he got tired of having the milk and cow for free...so why should he come back?
Me thinks you are an attention troll! | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/27/2009 10:12:47 PM | | A classic lesson everyone gets to experience at some point in time. If you are lucky enough and your ex is patient/kind enough, just give "it" some time, and stay available. You can't change the past(yet) but as long as you realize what you did wrong, you'll be ready the next time. It still sucks though, been there and unfortunately done that.... | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 5:47:14 AM | Depends on what the break up is all about.
From what I'm gathering, you put him through some pyscho-drama crap and he had enough of it.
If you done that to me, best you keep moving. If I'm so pissed at you a month later, I'm not changing my mind, especially if it was your fault.
You need to move on. | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:19:49 AM | Well as the old saying goes..
You made you bed, now sleep in it..apparently alone for the time being or at least alone in between the gentleman callers you'll get from that profile.....lol
I wouldn't go back with you either, sounds harsh but you didn't want what you had and obviously you were't willing to work on it at the time..or discuss it and obviously something has gone down that makes him not even want to have contact with you and now your feeling your mistakes.
I would stop trying personally and move on..and as someone else said...maybe your search for "intimate encounters" in your profile would be the first thing to change if your going to make the attempt. Be kind of hard for someone to take you seriously that you want him back when your profile is geared toward getting laid.
FROM YOUR PROFILE
Hello gentlemen, I'm new to the Eastern,NC area from Atlanta. My friends would tell you that I'm classy, cute, and very charming, brown like sugar and sweet like honey, 5'5, 105LBS sweet, petite, and perky (hehe) So if your looking for the time of your life than look no futher, contact me....
sorry but that screams slutty, not relationship material and probably he's better off looking for someone else thats not looking to get her rocks off. Your profile and lack of the ability to commit to something and apparent unwillingness to want to try to commit to something tells me you have a lot of growing up to still do. Maybe you should try that first before hurting someone else. | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:28:41 AM |
Thanks gentlemen for your advice. I agree with you guys 100% I must move on..
Much Love - BrownBarbie
Well that settles it then. Case closed. Let's all move on to the next superficial crisis...  | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 7:16:44 AM | | Sometimes unfortunately you don't get the chance to fix things that you broke, no matter how sorry and sincere you might be. Sounds like this is one of those occasions. You can only learn and try to profit form your mistakes in that case | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 8:38:56 AM |
sorry but that screams slutty
No, that screams "working girl" and she looking for Johns on POF | |
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| I need some help gentemen...
Posted: 5/28/2009 8:40:05 AM | From the profile:
For Intimate Encounter...brown like sugar and sweet like honey, 5'5, 105LBS sweet, petite, and perky (hehe) So if your looking for the time of your life than look no futher, contact me....
And the problem is:
I was dating (living with) this guy that I didn't appreicate at the time. We broke up over a month ago and he still won't even talk to me
Perhaps you can deliver the more of the goods next time? | |
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