| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 10:16:57 PM | hey everyone
I have a question for every body role play is it a turn on or no?..for instance i went on this date and the man wanted to role play and he wanted to be a baby and have me be the care giving "nanny" i was so turn off by it and it gave me a red flag the next day when he called me i didnt answer the phone because i wasnt sure how to go about this hole role playing i saw him here on pof on monday and i told him that i wasnt interested and that i wasnt the type of person he's looking for its just not in me lol
so my question would you be turn on by a grown man dressed up powerder and all in a Adult Diaper's? | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 10:22:06 PM | so my question would you be turn on by a grown man dressed up powerder and all in a Adult Diaper's
Me, personally, no. But there are those out there who enjoy being babies and those who enjoy changing the diapers. It's personal preference. I think you should have told him, politely, that wasn't your thing.
Was it the first date? If so...he's being a bit forward | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 10:26:50 PM | I think things like this should be addressed before a date if you're meeting online, possibly even in your profile. Now if youre talking about the not so out there roleplaying like dressing up as different occupations that's less severe.
What you're refering to is a fetish... baby, shoe/foot, sploshing, etc. | |
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| Absolutely.... Posted: 6/2/2009 10:30:47 PM |
so my question would you be turn on by a grown man dressed up powerder and all in a Adult Diaper's?
...positively not. Even if I were gay.
That said, to each their own. Some people would be. It is not an unheard of fetish...
I've got a couple of my own....and have more often than not had someone to indulge them with... | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 10:33:45 PM | | well i didnt know what to say when he called at first but then when he saw me on here i told him as politely as i could and i told him it wasnt for me...i had no idea he was into this im not sure if it was a fetish or he just likes to be treated like a baby the hole deal of putting on the baby powder and so on and so forth. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 11:06:00 PM | I LOVE IT!!!
I send in my wizard to do battle with her stupid gnome...druid..princess...THING...all it does is heal..GIRLS *SNORT*... and then my wizard comes in and just fireballs the whole place and...
*whispering*
wha... why would...
People are sick..why would you want to dress up like a student and get spanked by their teacher..I just don't..
*whispering*
OHHHhhhhh..... Bunch of dirties!!
Truth, they killed my elf-TruthinessInc | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 11:06:12 PM | OP what you are describing is not role playing.
Role playing is like.... my girl dressing up as a french maid and cleaning the house before I come home so I walk in on it, and her playing the part. . .calling me Sir.. ect. . Instant turn on. That's role playing.
What you are describing is a fetish. There's even a name for the baby fetish.
Fetishes go beyond normal kink.
In my opinion, fetishes like this should be talked about before ever getting serious or sexual.
Honesty is the best policy. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 11:19:27 PM | | I like it when a girl pretends to be the librarian and I'm returning a late book and there's a huge fine but I don't have any money to pay it so she accepts payment in other ways than money... | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 11:46:10 PM |
role playing..is it a turn on or no?
To answer the question, butterflykisses, YES--IF you have the right partner, with the right imagination (sorry about your "experience").
It can completely turn me on, when for instance, me and a SO might play boss/secretary (I know because I did this once). A previous girlfriend and I agreed to do this together one night after work.
I was already dressed for this (as I was just getting home from work), and she dressed in her own business attire. Thigh highs, f**k me pumps and all....she was ready for me. This was just so erotic because she left no detail out; neither on her person, our setting, or our course. She teased with her legs; bent and spread and caught my eye; rubbed and caressed...perfectly. And I was bossy and chauvanistic as she was looking for me to be. It brought the entire scene into motion, when our creativity boosted our intimacy.
And I found out my table (desk) was strong enough for the both of us for three hours. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/2/2009 11:50:21 PM | dont get me wrong role playing or a fetish its all good i was just wondering if the baby thing would turn most people off? thanks for all the reponses guys  | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 12:41:36 AM | The baby thing is totally repellant. There is nothing sexual to me about being a mother or raising a baby or a child.
The thing I dislike about role playing is when it's all about one party's fetish or kink and the partner just tolerates it or goes along with it. I tried that a couple of times and began to feel as if I should be getting paid -- he was loving it and getting off and I was so bored and felt stupid.
Now if the role-playing was something both people explored that they clicked into -- that would be different. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 1:10:13 AM | diapers, then what, soil them? Then go for the stinky change?
No freakin' way! To think some stuck snob biotch I may have said Hi too, look down her nose at me, then go home and do the stinky with some flake.
Life is too wierd sometimes. I see sometimes, willing to try anything once. Really?
I guess I need to see that to realize how normal I am. I am into the nylons and short skirts.
Had a GF that wanted to do the rape scene with a biker. Bikers don't have to rape. Anyway, I was pretty good at it, she got scared ruined the whole thing.
Now, Catch me in a diaper, get a photo of it. I would shoot myself.lol | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 2:45:43 AM | Ummm
Was this a FIRST date? What on earth did you all talk about before meeting...cause that's something you get out of the way early on!!!
That's not role play--that's a fetish as others have said. Role play...me being the domme and him being the sub for a Halloween party (yes...I did...with a whip!!!) is role play. Damsel in distress, knight in armor, boss and secretary (male or female secretary), Ross and Rachel on Friends--he loved Princess Leia from Star Wars so she dressed up for him...THAT'S role play.
Diapers is another realm. And believe me...by asking if a guy would like that and POSTING it will only get you mail from men who do. Or at least realize that the first guy's approach didn't work so they'll wait a bit before asking about it.
AFL makes a note: ask about diapers EARLY on... | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 2:59:05 AM | | Haha as to the question? No...Theres i feel a scale of roleplay and a line on it where most people would find it goes from fun to weird. Its each to his own i guess but ive always found anything that requires additional preperation like costumes or props, thats when it gets weird. However the use of roleplay as foreplay can be quite fun, the best example would be those couples that go out to bars and pretend to "meet for the first time" again. Like i said, each to there own. | |
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| Absolutely.... Posted: 6/3/2009 5:00:45 AM | | Depends on the partner you have and how much effort you both put into the situation. Some people are good at making fantasies come true - some are NOT! | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:29:08 AM | I agree that this isn't conventional role play OP. Sounds more like fetishism to me. Fetishes can take on some pretty ugly extremes. While some present minor discomfort, others can just make you want to forget you're part of the human race.
If a man wanted to dress up as a baby...I'd send him back to the stork. Then I'd dial 1-800-you'rewacked so he can see a shrink because...you know...babies don't know how to dial phone numbers. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:31:09 AM | Age play. Infantilism. This is one of those very specific things that people react very strongly to. They are either into it.. or they aren't.
Because there are many other ideas for role playing, you have to take them on a case by case basis. This one is a big no thank you for me. Something else might not be. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:38:00 AM | Me, turned off.
In general Im not into rol playing.... love making the traditional way is pretty good already. I can enjoy immensely without any of that. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 6:13:59 AM | | the only thing that this guy had mentioned that he was going to go to an over the hill party and he had to dress up as a baby i didnt think of any thing at that time but on the second date when i ended up at his house he came out with all the baby necessitites. i guess when he told me on the first date that he had an over the hill party to go to that should of been my heads up Lol | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 6/3/2009 8:29:45 AM | Baby fetish? You've got to be kidding.
I like roll playing, that is different. My gf and I would call each other while still in the same house and set up a date. Sometimes we go as far as her dressing in the part and either go out and have sex in a public place, or find a new place around the house and enjoy each other. | |
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| That's..... Posted: 6/3/2009 10:30:44 AM |
my last girlfriend liked the out of control teen and the strict daddy role play.
...wtf I'm talking about boooooyyyyyyyy  | |
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| That's..... Posted: 6/3/2009 10:43:21 AM | I love Roleplaying...
~Puts on his robe and wizard hat~
Now let's roll the dice to see if I get a blowjob.
You roll a 20!
Critical Hit! | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 8/2/2009 7:12:05 PM | I think its fun when your with one partner and trying to have a blast with each other but a man in diapers is not my idea of fun!!!!!! | |
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