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Posted: 6/3/2009 5:28:27 AM | | I was with a man for a little over a year. We met when I moved south to Alabama and in November we moved to Tallahassee. About 3 weeks ago, he was being very loving and sweet, lots of cuddling, and definately more than usual. The next morning he woke me up by packing all of my stuff and driving me to Dothan AL and dropping me on the side of the road with no cash, phone, money, family or friends in the area and all of my bags in the pouring rain and drove back to Tallahassee. I was utterly stunned and in shock and heartbroken, then mad, but now Im just confused. There were no fights before this, although we did have our problems just like any other couple. I had started having panic attacks from the amount of stress 2 months earlier, and there were other stresses on our relationship, but nothing major. I know he still cares very much for me and I still care very much for him, and a few weeks later he called me telling me he missed me and wondered if he did the right thing. He's completely torn up about it. What I cant understand is what in the WORLD possessed him to drop me in Alabama like that. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:09:04 AM | What I can't understand is what in the world makes you obtuse enough to even talk to someone like this again !
LOL...man, takes all kinds. Sometimes I think this place is just pretend. I don't understand how some can be so clueless? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:15:43 AM | | I hate to tell you but it doesnt seem he cared much for you at all. He dumped you on the side of the road like garbage with no explanation. He feels torn up from GUILT not because he cares for you. Run, Run as fast as you can, I would suggest no contact what so ever, ever! Yes, you're in pain and iam sorry for you, take some time to get your life together and heal your soul and first and foremost, forget him! If he could do that to you just imagine what else he might do. Let him sit and stew forever with himself about how horrible he is. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:50:56 AM | | I can't understand why you think he still cares for you and misses you, and that he's really torn up about it. I think that's just what you want to believe because you still have feelings for him. But for someone to ever do that to another person, he obviously doesn't care, crazy, and should be avoided in way so many levels. So, my advice, don't try to understand his actions, just understand that you should stay away from him, and what he's telling you is BS. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:12:47 AM | Actions speak MUCH louder than words.
Someone who cares about you does NOT dump you on the side of the road! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:20:11 AM | Uuuhhhhhhhmmm. SOMEthing is being left out of THIS story! The fact that you are actually considering taking him back is indicating to me that perhaps YOU DID do something that put him over the edge and you know what it is. I don't even care what it is, just trying to get you to look at this more objectively.
A "few panic attacks"???? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:20:26 AM | | If anyone dumped me on the side f the road, I would NEVER take a call, email or other message from that person EVER again. Give your damn head a shake! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 11:15:44 AM | | Go and find your self respect, as you've obviously lost it somewhere along the way!!! How can you even think this man, cares about you? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 11:25:41 AM | If you have a cell phone...perhaps he did some digging and found your texts on your phone...your here online..
Figure it out....don't scratch your head...there is a reason..you just have to retrace your conversations with him...and delete those texts on your phone. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 2:11:01 PM | | There's more to this story than is posted......... | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:07:31 PM | I'll bite.
You've been here ofr well over a year, looking to date. If you loved this guy so much, why are you looking? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 4:08:55 PM |
The next morning he woke me up by packing all of my stuff and driving me to Dothan AL and dropping me on the side of the road with no cash, phone, money, family or friends in the area and all of my bags in the pouring rain and drove back to Tallahassee.
HOLY SH*T! Are you for real?
Please God...tell me she's really not THAT stupid to even second guess or wonder if she's THAT confused!!!
HE literally dumped you with NOTHING on the side of the road like a some freakin' hooker. Oh hell, even most hookers these days get treated better and YOU were with him for a YEAR!
I'm not even gonna waste my breath by telling you NOT to go back to him or even think of him. You seem to be the type that will never "get it."
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Posted: 6/3/2009 5:57:28 PM | this guy obviously cares nothing like he claims he does,if he cared for you one little bit,he would have at least said things were not working out and call it a day and give you time to get your things together and make arrangements.
Ant decent guy would,and i think the guys on here would back me up with that,you need to get your self respect and self esteem in check,and forget the guy,its guilt not love he is feeling,you can do better,much better,dont give up you will find love but not with this guy. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:09:00 PM | Yeah, tha'ts pretty strange.
I mean....why Dothan?
that must mean something.....
Well, the comforting part to this unique love story , is that you 'know' he still cares for you.
Hey, I wonder where He'll drop you off next.?
Always somethin, huh?
Kimbo*********************************** | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:40:41 PM | Not buying this for a second.
From her profile she seems like a drama queen.
As Tryin Hard pointed out, she's been on here for over a year. If she was so "in love" she wouldn't be here.
I smell a troll. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:59:40 PM | "Wondering if he did the right thing"? I am on my 3 really tasty beer and that statement is so incredibly illogical. How in the world can anyone even ask that question? What compels a human to do that to another human? Yet he calls you and asks you that wingnut question?
Was he expecting a "yes"? with a follow up like, "and I think you should of emptied all of money out of my account, sold my possessions on Craigslist and stolen my identity".
If he dropped you off in New York, would that of been better? I know I'm being an a#@ but seriously, you are a human female, you desrve much better treatment than that, you also really need to boost your self confidence because no other person should ever do that to you or anyone else-ever. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 11:14:51 PM | Your need to be " VERY FAR AWAY " from this man. Change the cell phone numbers,house numbers and make sure the family knows that you are not going to be with him. Seek counseling if you can't get over this mam. He sounds like he's a few degrees off the center line. And it will get worst if you stay with him. He sounds like "he's more concern with his welfare than yours ". Also have everything you share with him replaced...house keys,vehicle, ect.. ! Consult your family for advise...and you have recieved some sound advise here on PoF.
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:01:56 AM | | Let me get this straight. This man went from loving to hateful overnight so much so that he dumped you on the side of a road? Why have you even created this thread?! I don't know you but I do know you can do much much much better than this jerk! What even made you answer the phone to him and listen to his crap? Everyone is right, he doesn't care, he feels guilty and so he should! Ignore his calls. delete his number and never waste your time or energy thinking about him again. Sheesh! | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 7:53:36 AM | After reading your profile, I DO understand. I don't think I've ever read so many deterrents mixed into a profile supposedly made to ATTRACT men.
I doubt very much that he just changed overnight. He probably planned this for months, and just wanted to get in one last time, before dumping your twitchy, ever-shifting @$$ by the roadside.
"eclectic but stable"? Probably not the whole truth. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:41:22 PM | | The man is mentally disturbed. What loving partner would do that? I don't think you'll find out why he did it because it won't make sense anyway. No wonder you were having panic attacks. What stress were you under? Was it anything to do with him? It seems very likely that it would be. This is not normal. If you think this behaviour is forgivable somehow, then you have no idea what a normal relationship is. I think you should seek counselling as you are obviously vulnerable to abuse by the wrong people. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2009 11:37:50 PM | | Yah, sounds like he is realy mean! "It tares him up." I think he probablly wanted to bring you down a notch. You are a model and ..what does he do? It sounds to me like he is mean and wanted to hurt you. Stay away from him because he is no good. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2009 11:42:53 PM | | And yah, panic attacks. I have had those and if he is bringing those on then that is realy bad. But you mentioned you fight with eachother. I don't think people who realy are good for eachother fight, at least not to where panic attacks are the effect and someone gets dumped on the side of the road. Regardless if you are telling the whole story or not, it sounds like a dead end. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 7:57:35 PM | | Sounds like you two are made for each other...Please...Please go find this guy and be with him for the rest of your lives. If you are that type of an emotional cripple, you two should live a drama filled life. You seem like you deserve it. Where did all of the good people go? Peace out! | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 10:23:48 PM | Man, I just lurve me these grate, suthern, Jerry Springer posts. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 10:46:42 PM | Sounds like you get what you give. Your profile says you run hot and cold. I say this guys a keeper!! The fact he called you back is HUGE. Screw what everyone else says and keep hangin' on. You two can probably learn a lot . . . Ok, something will be better than nothing, cuz I'm thinkin' you aren't really much into figuring your own shit out. In which case, you should take whatever you can get until you do. | |
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