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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:18:42 PM | ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked? you would think that a woman would no clothes on would do it more for a guy but in my experience, having sex in lingerie is hotter to them, any reason why? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:25:27 PM | Not all men are that horny. Women are just made to think that from society and the countless # of dudes who message you asking "when's the last time you had a good lickin?"
I masturbate maybe every 4-5 days. I don't really need to have sex on a regular basis either, a lot of my friends are like this as well. I could go probably 3 months without sex before I start to get antsy.
I don't know what you're talking about when it comes to lingerie. I'd rather see a girl naked and the lingerie wouldn't do much for me. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:36:49 PM | Yes, men are that horny, when young and healthy. You gals bring one paltry egg to the event. We act on behalf of millions of spermazoids. There is strength in numbers, a veritable tidal wave of life crashing on your passive shore.
Lingerie is sexy only because it signals sexual interest. It's like a green light means go. Without that meaning it just looks like really silly clothing. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:50:11 PM | ^
Doesn't nudity imply.. (not a strong enough word though) that you have a green light?
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked?
Uses imagination in this scenario. What he can't see (but knows is there) is hot.
you would think that a woman would no clothes on would do it more for a guy
No imagination required... not boring, not un-sexy, but requires no effort.
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
I'm not sure why I know this about some of my male friends, but I do.. regardless...
Masturbating is pretty much every day. Porn is sometimes involved. And all this even if he's getting some often. I don't really know why, but I do know that I am kind of the same way except that I find porn a bit dull, so I skip it mostly.
My guess is that it's a libido thing. Even getting it often sometimes isn't enough for some people who've got crazy high libidos.. so they handle it.
Some guys are like the guy in the second reply.. once or twice a week tops. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:57:14 PM |
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
Ummm Isn't that normal?????? Oh dear................
I feel odd if I go a day without sex or the equivalent... and often more than just once during the day...
why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked?
Because men are about the chase... even visually.... I've been to strip clubs, naked girl spread as if for her Gynecologist, but all of us at the table are trying to peek down the waitresses top as bends to put the drinks down... Same reason a girl has sex too soon, we've lost interest.... Next....
you would think that a woman would no clothes on would do it more for a guy
Now, a chick, in lingerie who also brought beer.... Can we say the ultimate....????  | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 3:58:14 PM |
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
Um yea...this witty banter compliments of the species that does it just as often, if not more, but the only reason MEN get targeted for it is because it's talked about in open circles a Hell of a lot more. Who are you trying to kid with a statement like that?
You think YOUR kind doesn't do exactly the same? Sure they do, they just hide it better than men do.
Eesh...
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked? you would think that a woman would no clothes on would do it more for a guy but in my experience, having sex in lingerie is hotter to them, any reason why?
From a male perspective there are 2 notable reasons for this...
1. She really does look quite awful fully naked with her rolls and jiggles exposed, so lingerie keeps all that under wraps for the most part
2. It's like a gift...we know what lays beneath it all, but the way she wears it or the way it looks on her is far more appealing than the full body nudity
It can go either way. Me? I prefer it if she is just full on nude, but if she wants to wear lingerie on occasion, I won't make a fuss. If she wears it all the time, I'd have to wonder just how body conscious she was and I'd probably get pretty turned off at that point.
The "lights off only" kinda gal. FAIL.  | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 4:33:12 PM | | Lingerie is wrapping paper. Pretty wrapping paper that you get to take off and find out what's underneath. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 4:35:46 PM |
Doesn't nudity imply.. (not a strong enough word though) that you have a green light? Not the same. The point is that she is taking an active role inviting your admiration. She's being sexy. A woman being naked could just mean her clothes are all in the washer. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 4:37:37 PM | Agree with elmariachi's remarks. My first BF did it several times a day and really enjoyed his porn. It took me a while to learn that not all men were like him LOL.
Both men and women assume that each other are all alike when it comes to sex, but we all eventually learn that this is not so.
Many women love wearing lingerie/costumes too. Try it, you'll like it ;) | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 5:18:47 PM | hi,i read your profile and was VERY impressed.
to answer the undergarment question,its a little bit like looking at the painting the mona lisa,its the intrigue that is more attractive than the nudity.
is she smiling or not-that is what you have to ask.
i have no knowledge about mens sexual aberrations but it seems like you are being taken advantage of if you have to sexually gratify a man in that way
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Posted: 6/3/2009 5:48:14 PM |
You think YOUR kind doesn't do exactly the same? Sure they do, they just hide it better than men do.
Eesh...
I had the same reaction as BDJ at the title of this thread, and the OP. I can understand, I suppose, that a heterosexual woman would be primarily interested in what drives men, and the keys to understanding what attracts a man to a woman. But the OP slips into accusation, as if we are to focus on men behaving somehow badly (Again!! FFS!).
It can go either way. Me? I prefer it if she is just full on nude, but if she wants to wear lingerie on occasion, I won't make a fuss. If she wears it all the time, I'd have to wonder just how body conscious she was and I'd probably get pretty turned off at that point.
And I feel the same way. Pushing any sort of material aside to access her working parts holds no appeal for me, so pretty as the frills may be, they are just that, frills, and not even the best kind of frills, imo. At the first appearance of the racy dressage, I'd work around it, smile pleasantly, pleased at the green light, but a little disappointed that it's gonna slow things down, because some amount of time will need to be expended for the expression of appreciation while she flaunts, and then additional time is required to remove in some way as erotic as the clothing itself.
I just really like, and appreciate, nudity, mine, hers, lol. If she's a lacy/frilly model, at the first opportunity, I'm going to urge her to hold off on putting on the frilly things til the sex is done! Lol. When she's used me up is when she might need to resort to secondary means to arouse me yet again.
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Posted: 6/3/2009 5:59:00 PM | | uhhhh maybe you should create two threads because these two questions have nothing to do with one another, | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:10:13 PM |
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
Yes, no, yes.
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked? you would think that a woman would no clothes on would do it more for a guy but in my experience, having sex in lingerie is hotter to them, any reason why?]/quote]
For me, lingerie is irrelevant. I'd just as soon underss a woman all the way. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:15:58 PM | | Lingerie is ok. For me though? A fully dress woman in sexy attire can turn me on faster than lingerie can. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 6:23:04 PM | Not the same. The point is that she is taking an active role inviting your admiration.
Ok, but if I tear off all my clothes in front of you and you ARE NOT my doctor.. what would you think I wanted? I mean I get what you're saying, but stripping in front of you sounds fairly active too.
To me.. at least.. lingerie is like an unmistakable hint, but getting butt-naked in front of you is like me slapping you with a brick (metaphorically).
I can't explain why, but I think I'd be more curious or perhaps even worried if my BF didn't masturbate much. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:03:05 PM | Men are very, very similar to women, except that their triggers can be a little different. I don't see anything wrong with a person wanting to have sex or masturbate every day. Nor is this limited to younger men, or even just MEN for that matter. A man is a visually-triggered creature, so he may look at porn and think about sex. What do YOU think about when YOU masturbate, laundry soap?
Lingerie creates mystery. This means that a (visually-triggered) man's imagination will fill in what he doesn't see. When imagination and reality are in conflict, imagination wins, every time. Therefore, his imagination will make whatever is under that seductive lingerie (or clothing) even hotter than what is actually there. YAY! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:05:43 PM | | What is wrong is a strong sex drive? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:08:09 PM | My boyfriend doesn't care too much about lingre. I buy new bras that I'm excited to show him and he's more concerned with taking it off.
I love lingre though and totally get why someone would think it's hotter than being just naked. It takes a little more effort than just taking off your clothes. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:11:04 PM | Ok, but if I tear off all my clothes in front of you and you ARE NOT my doctor.. what would you think I wanted?
A pelvic exam by an unlicensed practitioner?
I mean I get what you're saying, but stripping in front of you sounds fairly active too.
Women who just drop their clothes are not nearly as much of a turn on as women I undress, one piece at a time.
My boyfriend doesn't care too much about lingre. I buy new bras that I'm excited to show him and he's more concerned with taking it off.
That's completely understandable.
]quote]I love lingre though and totally get why someone would think it's hotter than being just naked. It takes a little more effort than just taking off your clothes.
You are missing the point entirely. The turn on is taking off a woman's clothes, one piece at a time. The clothing I'm taking off is irrelevant. You lift your hips the same way regardless of whether the panties are La Perla or Victoria's Secret.
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:18:25 PM | The "lights off only" kinda gal. FAIL. - BigDaddyJinx
Guys come in all different varieties, OP. Some guys have posted they prefer full nudity, some prefer the mystery. BigDaddyJinx doesn't like women who have any degree of body modesty
/or shyness. Lots of men don't have a problem with women wanting the lights out. I've even met a few (very few LOL) men, who prefer the lights out.
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ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis? - rockergal214
I don't think it's just a matter of sex drive, because I have met some men who aren't into porn or masturbating, with AMAZING sex drives. I think it's all a part of how they think about sex,
women & relationships. Another factor might also be how old they were when they first started having sex. I have noticed that affects a number of sexual attitudes in both men & women. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 7:38:39 PM | When I'm not having sex I masturbate once a week.
Hand to God truth.
When I am having sex I don't want to have sex more than a few times a week.
It should be noted sex for me is a lot of foreplay followed by generally slow love making that takes 1-2 hours and I'm exhausted afterward, while I play sports so I can't always be that tired every day. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:13:14 PM | | Men are as different as women on this. I haven't had sex in 8 years and don't get around to the substitute sport that much either. However I know women and men that can't go without either a day. With men it is just talked about much more. A women openly saying that she needs sex every day or else takes care of herself is easyly called a tramp or worse. A guy with the same statement is just a typical guy or Stud. That is what society does for you. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:18:05 PM | Lingerie... because it's the thrill of getting it off.. once it's off, well, it's off. It's not that the result was disappointing - but some guys(myself) think of it more of a game - even though we wouldn't admit it. It's all about getting to that point.. but then once you're there, the challenge is gone.
As for your first question.. I've met plenty of women who are open enough to admit they were the same way. Companies wouldn't manufacture dildos if no women never bought 'em. Don't fool yourself into thinking only guys are the only ones ever horny. But yes, the average guy is a horny demon. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:23:45 PM | Well, if I don't get some or jack off in say 3 days I find that I can sometimes wake up to powerful morning wood... almost painful, and my dreams become more erotic and the chance of a mishap in the middle of the night goes up... so yeah I vent my tension at least a couple times a week. But since I get it regularly on the weekends when I stay with my GF... I don't really look at as much porn or jack off as much as I used to when I was single.
About lingere: there is something to be said that it visually signals that the hunt is on, and it is fun to take clothing off of a pretty girl. But the other angle is that it makes things less boring on a nightly basis. Sure I enjoy seeing my girl naked and all, but lingere just changes the visuals a little bit, instead of seeing the same exact thing every night (which is the case when you're just seeing her naked) you have some pretty wrapping paper to look at for a while. I also sometimes like it when she keeps the top on when we participate in said activities... Variety is the spice of life as they say. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 2:14:53 AM |
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis?
Yes, really. 2-5 times a day in fact. The same way that hormones can make you really cranky, they can make us men really horny.
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked?
Doesn't for me. All a matter of individual preference, as with everything. | |
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