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 ftrewa20

Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 1
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 4:50:08 PM
I have been dating this girl and with previous experience with females some really like a lubed pinky in ass as they say it increases intensity. Some females may be shy to bring that up so how do you ask such a thing to a girl you recently met and are trying to get a feel for.
 brooklynro

Joined: 4/17/2009
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 5:06:46 PM
if you just met her and are already introducing the hand puppet then i guess it's on...just try it, if she stops you then she doesnt like it and respect that...good luck with the probe.
 lustfulllion

Joined: 4/23/2007
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 5:09:24 PM
It's called foreplay. Pay attention to the way she reacts. When giving her oral, send your tongue in the general area. If her legs widen slightly or is you hear a soft murmur she might just enjoy it. When fondling and caressing her, playing with her ass float your hand close to there, again soft murmur or buttocks flexing... Chances are she's open to at least exploring the possibility that it is an errogenous zone. Whatever type that would be to be determined. Explore, that's the most fun. lol
 namrael

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 5:12:04 PM
Why not ask her? If she hasn't tried it, ask her if she'd like to.
 Abitmore

Joined: 11/25/2007
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 5:50:13 PM
^^^^ pretty much what she said.


What a concept

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 CaRo31

Joined: 2/22/2009
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 5:52:34 PM
forget about a finger in the azz, get it in the front and massage the g spot at the same time, that does the trick without having to ask your new date if you can stick your pinky up her bum! if in doubt, drop the tongue action further south, and that'll tell you if shes into anal games!
 Reveal1K

Joined: 6/30/2007
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:01:07 PM
Pfft listen to these women and "asking"
I remember talking to my ex one time and she told me something she didn't do was anal. Fair enough. I just assumed nothing goes in there.
But one time we were going at it missionary, and I had my hand on her ass. As my hand got closer, she didn't slap my hand away so I stuck a finger inside. Surprise, she loved it and wanted me to play with her ass every time. Obviously a finger is a lot smaller than a penis, but you get the point. No pun intended.
 kim247365

Joined: 1/8/2009
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:02:14 PM
Well how would you want a woman to ask you about a lubed finger or two in your ass during oral?
 CaRo31

Joined: 2/22/2009
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:03:19 PM
you hit the nail on the head, dont ask us, just get down in the region and guage the reaction................. if someone came out and asked me straight 'do you do anal' of course im gonna say no!!! (which of course i dont, in case youre asking!!!!)
 Tonyrocks

Joined: 6/13/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:04:18 PM
bless you guys you got laughing for 30 minutes straight, if a women asks for the pinky the man must provide otherwise what else is he there for.
 4everFrusciante

Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 11
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:06:16 PM
How does one go about asking such questions in the heat of the moment?

"Um, excuse me, may I insert my KY-covered pinkie finger into your a$$?"

Why do people find it necessary to have to ask someone if they can do something?
You ask if she'd like a drink, you don't ask if you can slip yer finger up her bootie!
 P.R.Handgrenade69

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 12
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:07:42 PM
@OP:

If she just prefers just a tiny little finger in her butt, then you might as well keep your hands to yourself.

Just please don't ask if it is okay to butt munch, there was a topic thread on this and everybody started calling bullshit on each other and a 'rumble' ensued.
 TruthinessIncorporate

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 13
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:15:22 PM
"Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral"

Try going in dry...should answer the question..if not, try lubing up a lamp and ask her if she'd rather have that shoved up her....you get the point...




Truth, I can't believe I ate the whole thing-TruthinessInc
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:24:22 PM

Why not ask her? If she hasn't tried it, ask her if she'd like to.


Yeah, what a concept!! Lol! But I have another to offer, as well. Why not dab the KY on yourself, then ask her to search for your prostate, with her finger in your butt while she's got you in her mouth. Thrash around a little more than you otherwise might, add appropriate sound effects, kinda like Tom Sawyer whitewashing that picket fence. Lol. Pretty soon, she'll want to try it, too.
 4everFrusciante

Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 15
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:27:21 PM

try lubing up a lamp and ask her if she'd rather have that shoved up her
 P.R.Handgrenade69

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 16
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:49:00 PM
@whytwater:

You are truly awesome! What a great idea for OP.......lends new meaning to the words "go **** yourself".
 Keiper

Joined: 11/22/2008
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 6:51:09 PM
As said, asking is not always the best approach, and will often net a NO response 'just because', or maybe the timing of the question just wasnt right.

I agree with the poster who said to slide your tongue down there first and gauge the response. I also start with a little finger pressure before just sliding it in, thats often enough to get the variety going anyway.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 7:01:14 PM

you hit the nail on the head, dont ask us, just get down in the region and guage the reaction................. if someone came out and asked me straight 'do you do anal' of course im gonna say no!!! (which of course i dont, in case youre asking!!!!)

So, does that mean you would also rather have a guy not ask if you swallow - just unload and wait for your reaction because you're going to say you don't if he asks?
 CaRo31

Joined: 2/22/2009
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 7:04:00 PM
a woman knows when thats gonna happen, never had one i wasnt expecting!
 Shell225

Joined: 1/23/2008
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 7:33:01 PM
Some girls do... some girls dont .... as the Racey song goes.

Just explore each other, Im sure you'll tell her what you dont like and she'll tell you what she doesnt like.
 farceur

Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 21
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 7:43:10 PM
Prefer it to no finger, or to fisting? The shy ones can surprise you. Dangle a latex glove in front of her and watch her eyebrows.
 daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 22
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 7:53:16 PM
You really have no life!....DELETE!
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:18:05 PM
You are 29 years old.
You create a thread to ask if you should ask if you can stick your finger up someone's a$$.
Which part of "you're a grown man" are you having difficulty understanding?
It isn't our a$$hole you'll be sticking it in, it's hers! So ask HER.

And to those who suggest to not even ask, ummm, YES, you freaking ask. Just because you're in bed with someone and even if you are close, doesn't entitle you to potentially violate their wishes. It's THEIR body and their a$$hole, not yours to decide with.

::walks away mumbling:: ' and I still don't understand what this obsession with a$$holes is about"
 juzlookin35

Joined: 2/7/2006
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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:22:24 PM

Obviously a finger is a lot smaller than a penis


one would hope !
 bipolarintense

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 25
Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:41:03 PM
Why did you even bother to ask such a stupid question on the forums.

Put it on your profile and you'll get your answer.
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