| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 4:15:25 PM | | i read her profile she looks beautifull , why cant i take the next step , im not backward at coming forward but she has me stunned into a silly silence , not even said hi , somethings stopping me and im clueless to what | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 4:19:42 PM |
why cant i take the next step
B/c you are afraid of rejection. It's normal but worth taking the risk, don't ya think?
Make sure your initial message is superb. Of course, with no pics, your chances are much lower from the start. | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 4:23:44 PM | | dont be shy, shy guys come last! mail her, and see if you get a reply! dont get your hopes up though, many people dont get replies!!! good luck to you! xx | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 5:56:53 PM | If you cant take the step on an internet, when you havent even got a picture up then I feel sorry for you. There is no risk involved, you could just come back on another profile and do it all again sheesh. Seen groundhog day???
Im sorry but shyness on the internet is particularly stupid | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 6:59:23 PM | Two choices:
1. Never e-mail her and therefore guarantee you don't get to know her (planned failure).
2. E-mail her and give yourself a half chance that she may respond (possible success).
Your choice. | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 7:00:34 PM | OP, Just do it already. It's the internet, no-one knows you or your address here.
You can be who you want to be. (But not good to do if your not that person in real life.)
The worse that can happen (and the normal is), you don't get a response and your
email gets deleted. You don't have to face the person. Now grow some balls and get
out there emailing! | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 7:20:14 PM | | If you do and say nothing , your answer is already NO! .. If you say something and give it a try then you have a 50/50 chance. You have to play if you want to win!!! | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/5/2009 7:27:48 PM | | This is probably the easiest setting to approach a woman, practical free of reprisal, if your having trouble now....................... | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 4:31:23 AM | You gotta play to win.
If you never buy the ticket you won't hit the lottery.
Faith without works is dead.
Just do it.
If you snooze you loooooooze.
When opportunity knocks, you gotta listen.
Ahhhhhh.. that's all I got for now, but I think you see what I'm saying. Dontcha????? | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 4:48:44 AM | It's a profile (words) and a few pictures.. save the *awe* until after you meet in person. Anything less.. you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Send out a "feeler" email to see if she's interested ... although, I recommend you post a picture. Most won't entertain communicating without a visual..... very reasonable. Cheers ~  | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 11:47:23 AM | | Without a picture, you're killing your chances of getting a response. Even with a great opener. Obviously you found her attractive from her photos. Let her at least get a look at you, or there will be zero chance she will have the same pleasure. | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 1:04:51 PM | Get a photo and a profile review. Proofread your e-mail before sending it; use good grammar and punctuation. And don't come on too strong. If you tell her right upfront what you told us, she'll probably find it creepy.
Most importantly, after you have sent the message, delete it from your "sent" file, and do your best to forget all about her. Good luck! | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 1:16:21 PM | | Cuz you're a pansy and you're blaming her for being too hot. If you think she's out of your league, leave it alone. If you're interested, give it a shot. You won't know until you try. | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 4:12:23 PM | | i take your point , motto bella . i know that what you say is right , most people on here have not grassped what im saying , i dont need to grow a set im ok off here , its on here im having the problem , despite my grammar i dont require insults off some , if it were that simple would 90% be on here ? i doubt it . i wont ask again , but id like to thank the ones who gave me advice , the forums are not for me as most wander off the subject, not all i stress and to you thanks . motto i will take what you said and thank you for that , good luck all | |
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| why the hell am i being shy .its her
Posted: 6/6/2009 6:35:49 PM | Maybe your reaching to high, Water finds it own level, Stop setting yourself up for failure. When all else fails!!! Picture her in her underwear. | |
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