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Posted: 6/6/2009 10:51:42 PM | i know there is one male on here from wichita ks hes 40 that is on the sex registery
ive met him and he wont tell you he is i just happened to find his pic there on the site.
ive reported his name to pof many times and hes still there doing his thing finding single girls with kids that dont know what he is. so it bothers me that if ones on here and wont be deleted then many more could be be so girls be weary of men from wichta . i wont put his name here but will be happy to tell you in a email
just ask me ...
swtnfancy@yahoo.com
i know that i would do anything in my power not to date those guys and have my kids be sexually abused and i just thought all you women on here would do the same thing
i would feel terrible if he got to one of your kids because i didnt do anything to warm you ladys of him and any more out there
this is a dating site but because they wont delete his account all you women could be affected by this because he could be talking to you right now without you knowing anything about it
SO BE LEARY PLS
it could be your kids that pay ... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 10:53:54 PM | THIS is one of the main reasons I gripe about people posting pics of themselves with their children in the photographs.
On a dating site? Come on, people. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 11:33:09 PM | Anyone on a sex offenders registry is not acceptable for PoF or to have any relationship with anyone. The PoF administrator should be notified and the person should be deleted ASAP........ If the person ever resolves the reason they are on the registry and is removed then it's another matter. But as long as they are actively on the registry, they shouldn't be in any kind of relationship. Well, that's what I think anyway... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 11:35:24 PM | | yes my thoughts exactly but they wont delete him if tried to email them many times hes still here | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 11:54:37 PM | While my sentiments are with you, I need remind you that not all on the sex offender registry are 'sex offenders'. If you're stupid, you can get there by urinating in a public place.
All that technicalities aside.
ALL parents should take caution when dating ANYONE.
For every one ligit pedophile caught, more go free or are never caught.
I make it a policy to NOT have my kids or the kids of others involved in my 'dating' life unless it becomes serious. I also do and encourage others to do their homework with simple background checks and to never rush anything.
Any parent worth their salt looks at the offender registry in their area from time to time...because you don't have to be dating some dude for your child to be at risk. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 11:58:45 PM | well the site didnt say he peed in public it was for fondling
thats a like more serious . | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:55:07 AM | | If POF hasnt deleted him yet you could try calling the local law enforcement in wichita. His being on this site might be a violation of his parole as it gives him potential access to minors. Just a thought. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:09:08 AM | And a good thought too.
His being on this site might be a violation of his parole as it gives him potential access to minors. Just a thought.
Responding to the other comment ... When I was in Phoenix not too long ago there was a case before the courts where a guy made basically a citizens arrest when he caught a boy (under 16) breaking car windows. The dude called the police, grabbed the kid and HELD HIM until police arrived and immediately turned him over to the cops when they arrived. There was NEVER any allegation of abuse, sexual fondling - NOTHING like that. HELD until the cops got there a few minutes later.
Because he held this youth against his will - no matter the circumstances - according to the definition he was forced to be registered as a kiddie diddler and sexual predator. Even the judge said it was ludicrous but he was constrained by the LAW and the law was simple. "Held against his will" even when being arrested by a citizen was "held against his will" defined by the law as a child molester. There was a huge outcry from the community and when I left it was still raging whether this man should be removed from the registry or not.
It just illustrates that way too often the Laws an A$$. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 3:41:41 AM |
Anyone on a sex offenders registry is not acceptable for PoF or to have any relationship with anyone. The PoF administrator should be notified and the person should be deleted ASAP........ If the person ever resolves the reason they are on the registry and is removed then it's another matter. But as long as they are actively on the registry, they shouldn't be in any kind of relationship. Well, that's what I think anyway...
That's a broad statement. Not all sex offenders have actually offended anyone. One would end up on a sex offender registry for picking up a pro. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 5:53:43 AM | You should be contacting law enforcement - at this point it's he said/ she said!
I certainly would NEVER condone allowing someone to prey on others here - but only law enforcement can make decisions about where/how this man continues to participate in public. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:00:36 AM | | I know a kid that is now 18 years old and has spent his last 6 years in prison for having sex with a minor. When he get out of prison, he will be considered a registered sex offender and all he did was have sex with his 12 year old girlfriend, when he himself was only 12 years old. I'm sure the judicial system in Wichita isn't as corrupt as the system here in South Florida and that you have a valid point, but not all sex offenders, are really sex offenders. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:18:25 AM | | wait.. if they were both 12... how come she wasnt put in jail for the same thing???? god the system is so screwy.... | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:24:38 AM | I'm a firm believer that all registered sex offenders (who have sexual intercourse with a CHILD) should be put in prison for a minimum of 10 years depending on the severity and age of the child.
0-5 years - 30 years to life
6-10 years - 15 to 30 years
11-15 years - 5 to 15 years
16-17 years - 0 to 5 years | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:39:10 AM | to the OP
You did the right thing.
Regarding more generalised views on what constitutes being a "sex offender", it is not always a clear situation, like the one posted on this thread concerning the citizen's arrest; there are also an increasing number of teachers in the UK, for example (but not exclusively), who fall foul of vindictive students who play the legal game and ruin people's lives with false allegations. Also, there are still sexual practices that are seen as an offence in different contexts; even sodomy between consenting adult males, for instance, was only legalised in 1967 in the UK. I think that we need to be careful in how we protect children: there are tales of social services and the police getting involved because of vindictive neighbours. This could turn into a witch hunt, and yet the real crimes (like the ones of Baby P. and Victoria Climbié) could still go unnoticed.
I think legislation and a watchful community need to be in place, but even they can only go so far in protecting minors or vulnerable adults from harm; creating a climate of suspicion is not the way to go for adults, as it harms the children's trust in adults too.
In the OP's case, however, it is pretty clear that this adult should not have the trust of children or of adults with children, and I hope POF will take action. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:40:54 AM | And just for the record.....
Be sure...BE ABSOLUTELY SURE your identification is correct before you do anything.As much as I wouldn't want someone as such as a neighbor....I also wouldn't want to be the one mistakenly identified and have the whole neighborhood wondering either.There is no room to screw up in whatever action you take and should be considered carefully! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 8:10:41 AM | OP, it's good of you to report this guy to the administrators; however, he could get his profile shut down and just open a new one. Unfortunate, yes.
I just hope that anyone who is seriously considering someone does a background check on these people (like you did), especially if there's kids involved. Date smart. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 8:48:24 AM | People should always be aware of who they are with and what their surroundings are. Not just online dating, or real life dating...anywhere, anytime. This especially holds true for those with children, as it is a parents responsibility to protect them.
As far as 'sex offenders' go, that term is overused and abused. Too often you can not determine what the exact 'crime' was, and as a result people are placed in this category who shouldnt be, and less attention is focused on those who are a REAL threat. A thirty something year old man who had sex with a 17 year old (when he was 18) is not necessarily a sex offender, but in many states would be listed as one. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:01:50 PM | Actually, you can determine what the exact 'crime' was.
That is (well, sort of) what judges are for.
A thirty-something year old man who had sex with a 17 year old (when he was 18) probably would not be "listed" as a sex offender, given as most states (well, all of the states that I've checked, specifically, but I'm not claiming to be an authority here) have what's called a 'close in age' exception, which is, well, exactly what it sounds like it is.
And if you think laws against people who sexually abuse children are too severe or 'heavy handed', feel free to lobby your state legislature. I'm sure giving the kiddy diddlers a helping hand is a real vote-getter. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:02:55 PM | (quote)well the site didnt say he peed in public it was for fondling
thats a like more serious (/quote)
Most sex offender registry sites I've seen don't list what they 'did'. Just the classification of what they were charged with or plead guilty to.
I also need to remind some that you must be careful in how you go about dealing with and reporting a sex offender. If you cross the boundaries, it is harrassment and punishable by law...and you could face a civil lawsuit...which, IMO would be worse.
Just be careful who you associate with and know who the people are in your community. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:37:31 PM | The oldest trick in the book with custody cases is for the ex to have a charge placed against the male for child abuse just so she gets sole custody. Even the accusation, even IF not true, follows the male. they can be placed on a sex offenders list. They would have to put their own kids through h*ll to get off that list...many fathers refuse to do that to their children. So...they get stuck on some list that haunts them for a long time.
As far as this particular thread is concerned....an alarmist rattling her cage. "OMG...a child sexual predator! Help, help!" Try getting the FACTS first....instead of crying "wolf".
Sheesh...and to think a lot of people who responded actually agreed with this mindset. How would YOU react to false allegations or people thinking it is far worse than it actually is? Grow up people. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:46:47 PM | | your so wrong on every level so what happens when one of these perverts get to one of your kids | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:00:22 PM | | I agree with zardoz451. sex offender or not. they still have rights. here's the bad thing. they did a study here about 10 years ago. they used people on death row. and some sex offenders. they came out with a medication to treat them with.. and the whole program died. and I haven't heard a word about it since. they were also using the medication on homosexuals.. and what ever the mental illness was. the medication would stop it cold.. and the people that were in the program. were confessing they had no idea that they had a mental problem.. it was just normal to them.. after the program ended. many sex offenders wanted to be castrated. and the autorities won't grant that. so in a way it's the autorities fault along with the us govornments fault that they allow pedifiles and sex offenders live like they do..... | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:09:13 PM | "Try getting the FACTS first....instead of crying "wolf"."
Truer words were never spoken by man. And on that subject matter, yna6, if you can explain to me how you can get placed on a sex offender list without being convicted of a crime.
Because inquiring minds want to know. Last I checked, to be a "sex offender" required, well, as a prerequisite, being an "offender" (you know, "sex" + "offender" = "sex offender"). | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:21:28 PM | another trick is. if a woman doesn't want the guy she is dating around any more. she would use her kids as a weapon to get rid of him. rather then being mature about it. and saying hey this isn't working and i don't want to see you any more.. they call the police making false accusations. this is why many single guys will not touch a single mother..
I had to team with another driver all the way out to la grande,oregon to pick up a company truck under a load. because the driver was arrested over a sex crime.. I got to talk to the driver becuase i was the senior driver for that campany and he told me. he would never do anything like that. and it was a false charge from indiana. the thing with alot of conviction of sex crimes. is done with out d.n.a. proof. the simply find the sperm through the rape kit. and think the nearest guy to that person did it... instead of getting a lab to test the samples to be for certian...... | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:44:45 PM | ok I know im gonna catch it now but here goes.
Many are charged and convicted when they do stupid things such as skinny dipping or public urinating. Or mooning while driving down the road
being a registered sex offender is a tricky thing. So many things fall into that catagory many dont relate to sex at all.
Now , dont these guys deserve to date ?Find a true love? Id much rather see em in a happy healthy mature relationship than out looking for who knows.
As far as yer kids are conserned dont shove the responsibilityof parenting and guidense or the blame onto pof or others. You laid down and made em stand up and raise em.If you know where your kids are then this shouldnt happen. They shouldnt be out there exposed to potential dangers.Im not just talking about sex crimes .People freak over sex crimes because they are uneducated .
There are more kids getting hit by cars ,falling from trees,In home accidents etc.Because parents are too busy doin their thing.(Probly cyber sexlol)People nowadays just arent responsible .BTW Pof dont say put ya kids photos up we will protect em. There is danger around every corner.Use some common sense. | |
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