| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/9/2009 9:30:44 PM | I mean, not talking about cuteness, phisical atraction or in a sexual way, i would like to know about the skills, what could that be? why it is soo difficult for both parts to find the right one if it is pretty easy to go on a date.
tkx i would really aprreciate to get those answers. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:20:39 AM | Someone who is articulate and does not use txt spk.
Sense of humour, feistyness, self confidence is one of the most attractive factors. A great smile and someone who can compete with me in the banter stakes is a great turn on. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:24:06 AM | | Haha humpty.. my roomate is actually an excellent bow hunter. She owns a huge archery set (lol I don't even know the word for it)...so they are out there. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 4:23:13 AM | | well, fist off you have to be attracted to them... but if it's going to last, you got to keep the other person guessing... so, don't be boring or predictable... | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:18:45 AM | A best friend who will not lie to me or cheat on me.
An equal who will be responsible for her actions as well as her mouth. " can't stand a gal with a smart ass mouth."
A lover who cares about pleasing me and wants an intimate relationship with me ONLY.
Someone that is alive and wants to live life instead of sitting home watching TV.
A gal who is intelligent enough to hold a conversation about the Universe and all things within the universe.
Someone who can think outside of the box.
It would also help if she is a Nympho Maniac.
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:35:33 AM | | It depends on every guy. The main qualities I am looking for is a cute girl that has a good heart and that I can trust, everything else is a bonus. Skills like being able to cook, being independant, being fit, being able to earn a living, being intelligent, being understanding/open minded, being fun and being a good lover are all things that would want and look for but that I also consider rectifiable if it's missing. It's a lot easier to communicate with someone and help them complement your strenghts and weaknesses if they actually want to make the effort. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:10:17 AM | Just the things every guy wants-
She should be able to
Stick a triple toe loop;
Perform arthroscopic surgery and
navigate using a sextant.
We guys are pretty simple. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 10:31:40 AM | | Cooking skillz and maybe like video game skills or athletic skills but depends on the guy um, gee i'm not sure I look for many "skillz". I think women are much more rigid as far as skill sets go and what they looks for in a guy. We just want someone who looks nice in our eyes has a pleasant attitude and likes us back. Beyond that I just suppose someone who doesn't mind getting dirty and doesn't freak at everything, its nice if she can be useful in that standpoint. Besides that, low maintanance, flexible, honest, giving, fun and has a sense of humor. Seriously all guys care about is prolly my little list, we really don't ask for alot. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:59:36 AM | | Why worry about what all of us men want....You should have the confidence to know what YOU want....I mean why are you on a date? Its kind of like an interview. You know what you want and dont want in a mate dont you? Ask questions relevant to that. See where it goes. Every person is different. Just have fun with it and be yourself. My motto is, " Be the "rose" and the "rose" will come to you!" Sorry if this doesnt help. I just go into a first date scenario with probing questions to see if that woman fits my needs and I hope that she does too. Why spend more time with someone that doesn't fit your needs than you have to?? Life is too shot and there are plenty o' fish in the sea.... | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:01:32 PM | Guys look for Attraction. Attraction is a Feeling, NOT a physical thing.
When there is attraction, - this energy that pulls them towards her, - they make up this story in their minds about these “required” qualities: “fun, open minded, intelligent” etc. But in reality it’s all about attraction. There are girls who ARE open-minded, fun, intelligent and even beautiful. Yet, if there is no attraction, he doesn’t want her, no matter what she is.
What creates attraction in his eyes? Her high sex drive. Emotional stability and independence. Responsiveness to his advances. Optimism and positive attitude.
Turn off: Neediness. Insecurity.
Important, but not vital: must not be utterly stupid or ugly :) | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:47:41 PM | | Good cooking skill. The ability to balance her checkbook. Also a woman that can be strong in tough situations (far less common that we like to believe). | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:50:59 PM | I want a chick without kids who still has a mom's backbone and ability to be ****y on my behalf.
;)
Oh yeah - I won't date a girl who is not a geek, either. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:29:53 PM |
I mean, not talking about cuteness, phisical atraction or in a sexual way, i would like to know about the skills, what could that be?
I guess I don't understand the question. Skills? Well, a great massage is always nice. The ability to think is a plus, but without some innate prerequisites, it's not something one can acquire as a skill. | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 4:16:55 PM | | I like a female that can fight as well as be gentle. A bonus is if she can cook ;-) then she and I can always have competitions. I would like to meet a female that LOVES to play video games, I mean like sit back and play video game violence and laugh at people getting blitzed in video games. A woman that loves to be affectionate and that wants to be with me. Consistent | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:48:38 PM | For a while, I was so frustrated with the (ugh) "dating scene", which for me had to consist of internet dating since I'm a relatively new transplant to my area, that I confided in a friend that I would "forget about all that crap, I'm just going to be a superficial jerk, and try for the best sex I can get."
She laughed, and said I'd never be able to do it. Not in the way that that first sounds.
So, later on, when I was just having sex with nothing else, well, it sort of felt like nothing. Don't get me wrong, I like sex, but it was a little bit of a weird feeling because I didn't really know much about the person, and that's basically ALL we had going.
I mentioned this to my friend, who very smugly said "Told ya so!" Apparently she knew me better than I did.
I mention this in my profile - there has to be physical attraction, and mental attraction.
- Physical attraction is easy, though it's different from guy to guy. What one guy may define as hot, I might say "Meh, whatever." What I might say is not, another might say "Are you kidding?"
- Mental attraction... THIS is more difficult to find, I think. It's also far more difficult to even define. I really do prefer a woman that is intelligent. In fact, I find it to be a turn on rather than intimidating if she's MORE intelligent than I, be it well-read, a better thinker, or whatever. Also, there's the appeal of an intellectual connection, an intellectual and conversational "flow" of sorts. I'm grasping a bit to describe this, so I hope I'm conveying it clearly.
But it's dreadfully difficult to put a finger on, and since it'll probably be different from one man to the next, you really can't generalize.
(But, shhhh!! Don't tell anyone I said that! I'm still trying to make the "top 10 superficial jerks of the world" qualifiers!) | |
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| What u guys are really looking for in a girl?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:41:27 PM | | I look for women who dont ask me "what exaxctly are you looking for". The funny thing is the ones who ask this never have an answer themselves. Sorry but I think its one of the dumbest things to ask somebody, makes metting more like an interview. | |
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