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 whenwillthiswork26
Joined: 11/13/2008
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If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

(And don't tell me they don't!)
 michaelalfox
Joined: 4/4/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 10:59:09 AM
Maybe it's knowing that you're providing some good pleasure for someone else. That can be a massive turn on.
 yourpleasure33
Joined: 4/28/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:03:20 AM
Probably for the same reason, I find it so stimulating to go down on a woman. Seeing the reaction that my tongue brings to a woman is exciting. Love it!!!
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:08:18 AM
Pleasing someone to the point of release, can and does, turn on others, and sexually stimulates them.......

Nothing right or wrong about it, but it is only fair that if you do not like to give head, let the poor man know that you will not be doing that often if ever, and think about how you would feel if a man told you that he would never go down on you either.......

The human body is a very sexy thing, and if with another that turns you on, there should be little or no limits to what you would do to please them, enjoy them, and have them enjoy you.

Just my opinion.......
 Closer2U
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 5
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:29:37 PM

any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.


HAHA....Small sausage is just as good! UM....POWER AND CONTROL over someone else's BODY CUMS to mind.Nothing like pleasing a man you love...listening to thier pleasure....feeling them reaching deep with need....and swallowing thier seed! YUM YUM YUM>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

I get more wet knowing I am going to make someone I care about come...than I do when I am being pleased.I don't even CARE if I get off...I get so hot and bothered when I hear him groan and it feels so amazing when it's being shoved down my throat..I can't begin to top that joy in any other way sexually speaking..OH.......and love to hear that snoring afterwards! Hell yeah.....HUMMERS do it for me!

But then again....I love eggs and sausage too!

Chalk it up to being a "people pleaser" and there ya go....question answered.
 e*Musing
Joined: 10/23/2008
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:34:17 PM
For a period of time they get the pleasure of knowing they are in control of his pleasure...and for some strange reason, many people like helping a partner achieve the heights of ectasy.

Blowjobs are an incredibly intimate and erotic way to accomplish this...whether it be between his legs (only he is getting satisfied), T-boned off to the side (gotta love the ability to caress and play with her erogenous zones, or 69 (where we get to be fully involved with reciprocating at the exact same moment).

Whether you consider it pleasuring, being in control, or simply fulfilling his need to be adored, it's good. When isn't it good?

But when through your timing, reactions, reluctance, etc., that you communicate that you're not having fun...I'll lose a hard-on and a bedmate in an instant if I feel she's faking enjoying herself.

 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 7
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 12:50:42 PM
The same reason that guys get stimulated performing oral sex on a woman. It's arousing psychologically. Not all arousal comes from physical stimulation. Why do people get aroused when just thinking about sex?
 badmember
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 8
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:00:22 PM
it's just another way of expressing one's sexuality and giving pleasure weather you're a man or a woman? you make it sound like giving oral pleasure is a bad thing?.............johnny.
 Evzey
Joined: 5/17/2009
Msg: 9
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:03:53 PM
u sound like the perfect gf!!
 ImAHotMess
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 10
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:17:26 PM
Sometimes it is more stimulating for me. Hell, it is better than sex sometimes if you know what you are doing. Why do I like it? Hard to explain it 100%, but I just do. I don't need an explanation. Just something about it that makes me say Hmmmmm :)
 Gigglemepink
Joined: 5/11/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:49:20 PM
I get turned on knowing it's pleasing him. Hearing his breath change. the quiet grunts/groans.
 allthatglittersisnotgold
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 12
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:19:12 PM
I am so attracted to a man and the man body part is not like ours, soooo it is a huge turn on. The more excited I get ...the more excited he gets and vice versa. C@ck sucking is a turnon no matter what, I don't have to figure out why, it is the way I was born...to be attracted to a man and being turned on by him and his manhood part! I know I am a sexual being and being with a man is so desirable for me...natural. I can't seem to fathem out if a woman was not excited bout c@ck.
 woobytoodsday
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:20:31 PM
Don't think it's odd at all. Porn is a no-touch situation, and it's stimulating, no? How much *more* so giving head, lol!? More than a few times in my life I've nearly come just giving. . . . Sometimes, can nearly do so across the room (from the right guy. . . )(and no hands on anywhere. . . .). Heck I got turned on watching the penguins in The March of the Penguins making love. In fact, I 'spect I got more fun from it than they did.

Whoever said that the brain is our biggest (and best) sexual organ got *that* right.

 isntafraid
Joined: 4/9/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 2:53:26 PM
they like to being submissive.
/thread.
 NoQuarterGiven
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:11:23 PM
Why do breasts turn men on? Why does a nice butt turn women on? It's just what makes us men and women. No rhyme or reason, just instinct.
 BBW2Love
Joined: 5/2/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:16:02 PM
^^^^I didn't know there was a blow job instinct.

Thanks for the heads up.

I said HEADS UP! Tee hee!

I think I'll run along now.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:18:50 PM

So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?

(And don't tell me they don't!)

Not all women do. Tsk tsk.. shouldn't generalize like that.


they like to being submissive.
/thread.

Not all women (or men for that matter) view giving head to be an act of submission. I certainly don't.

As for why I find it stimulating.. I'm not sure. It's definitely a power trip for me. Knowing that what I'm doing it pleasing him... knowing that (in most cases) he will be orgasming because of it... oh yeah... it's a highly arousing thing.
 Shell225
Joined: 1/23/2008
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:28:57 PM
Its just arousing ...

I guess because I'm giving someone so much pleasure. Not everyone is good at it, and when he's writhing around and voicing his enjoyment, I get a buzz out of it. I think its an incredibly intimate act.
 massgal75
Joined: 5/25/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:30:38 PM
I simply enjoy pleasing a man. Having a nice and hard c0ck in my mouth also turns me on.
 *Respited*Heart*
Joined: 9/19/2007
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:39:04 PM
OP - you're starting off with invalid thinking.

Sexual arousal begins in the mind, not the body.
 MsMicki
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:43:03 PM
Yep, it's all about having the power and control of your partners pleasure!
and personally, I just love penises!!
and it brings me immense pleasure to make love to a penis with my mouth
 meatandpotatoguy
Joined: 3/31/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:45:01 PM
Only one thought is comming to my mind right now. Why the hell do none of these women that post on here live closer to me
 Leeanne
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:59:03 PM
Anyone pleasing their partner in such an exciting way should feel turned on as far as I'm concerned! There is nothing finer than knowing you are making them feel 'spectacular'! Makes me hot!
 Gigglemepink
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 24
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:40:03 PM
how is it submissive? Wouldn't it be more dominating? Having him in her mouth, knowing she could bite if she needed.
 blusher321
Joined: 2/12/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 7:02:20 PM
Well for me it's the joy of and thrill of turning him on. There is something about me being down on my knees..in front of him...looking up into his eyes and knowing how he must feel at that exact moment. I feel submissive to him but yet in charge at the same time and yessssss that is a huge turn on to me as well.
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