| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 7:25:04 PM | I'm single cause i can't seem to find the one every guy i been with just want to play mind games with me! I just want to settle down and have a long term relationship is that to hard to ask?!?! I guess so =/...Ugh SOME men so why are u single explain here if u want =]  | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 7:30:33 PM | I'm single because..I know what I want and wont settle for less. * is a bit of a dream and still believe in the prince on the white horse, I want it all connection, passion, friendship, love, the feeling of butterflies in my tummy, not being able to get the other person off your mind and until if find that i'm quit content being single..  | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 7:40:51 PM | | I'm with u on that one i wont settle for anything less till i get what i want my MR RIGHT! I'm putting my foot down now if u dont treat me the way i should be treated then bye bye cause im not takeing the bullshit anymore! Thats how i see it but i know i have alot of waiting to do till my mr right comes into my life cause now and days nobody wants to just settle down =/ | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 7:46:15 PM | you are young and pretty, take some advise from a uggh more mature women LOL take you time, live you life, enjoy your life. Something someone once told that has stuck in my head for years me a man should not a need it, he is a want the dessert after a great well balanced meal!
so enjoy being young ... you have plenty of time to meet the "right one" | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 7:47:00 PM | In 1995...eleven years after they tryed to kill my mother, I at only ten years old and living in Los Angeles with my foster parents. My mother Sarah Connor had been preparing me for my future role as the leader of the human Resistance against Skynet until she was arrested attempting to bomb a computer factory and remanded to a hospital for the criminally insane under the supervision of Dr. Silberman....
....Skynet sent a new Terminator, a T-1000. A more advanced prototype than the Terminator that was sent after my mother, the T-1000 is composed of "a mimetic polyalloy", a liquid metal that allows it to take the shape and appearance of anything it touches. ..Though it cannot mimic complex machines such as guns or bombs, it can shape parts of itself into knives and stabbing weapons and can mimic the voice and appearance of humans. ....
...The T-1000 assumed the identity of a police officer and went in pursuit of me. Meanwhile, the future me has sent back a reprogrammed Terminator identical to the one that attacked my mother, to protect my younger self....
...I live off the grid, the unknown future rolls toward us. I face it, for the first time, with a sense of hope. Because if a machine..if a Terminator, can learn the value of human life...maybe then, I can finally have a realtionship, and allow myself to love once again...
Truth, You tried to kill my mother...you killed my father... You WILL NOT kill me!-TruthinessInc | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 8:23:43 PM | I seen you lookin!!!
I'm taken now.
But there's plenty of great guys out there that are genuine.
Usually you have to look around the guys in your face.
Sometimes you may even have to make the first move in saying "hi."
But wouldn't it be nice to make the first move and say hi to your last first date?
Edit: Not all grilled cheese are created equal. Some have real butter and lots more cheese! | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 8:24:59 PM | Becuase you're on internet dating, and so are they. It's the ones that have several profiles all over different dating sites. No one can commit anymore, it's a virtual candystore. They just move onto the next one, tell me you haven't seen it, I have. Mindgames are cheap and simple to these moron guys. No one can commit, repeat this 10 times over. It is a VERY rare thing that happens nowadays. I personally can and have (committed), I come here to browse the forum talk and that's it. As time goes by and these guys get older, the chances of a commitment grow mega slim. I can be committed and not be married again, a ltr is just fine. | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 8:30:39 PM | You really are quite pretty, OP.
But your profile is very negative and you type like a 6 year old.
:P
I would highly suggest you get off the computer and go to a club.
You won't have to work very hard for guys to approach you, and your atrocious grammar would not count against you there.
Just my .02 | |
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| So why are u single we all have our storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 8:42:55 PM |
How are you so cool? Please teach me. I am serious. Most likely, it's my unlimited amount of indifference. Not caring if you're cool tends to have a reverse effect. That always seems to draw the crowds. Either that or the fact that I can sport a bikini, change a tire and write a thesis? I dunno.
Some people are single because they post pics with their crotch hounds. I don't care who you are, that ish is funny! LMAO | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 8:59:25 PM | Does your statement <div class="quote">I guess so =/...Ugh SOME men so why are u single explain here if u want =] refer to guys who may be here only looking for casual relationships? Of course there are lots of that. But most aren't. I started a long term relationship at 20. That was great, but it didn't head towards marriage. We might not have figured out enough about where we were going first. And as I've heard so much lately, very good luck with your fishing. <edit>: just noticed you have a daughter. That's completely different. Forget what I said above. | |
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| So why are u single we all have are storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 9:20:59 PM | I think the "mind games" they play is just them not being that interested in you. Honestly. Guys & girls BOTH do this... even if they want to settle down, they're not wanting to settle down for you (at least not in the moment) and have other options they're feeling out (not necessarily literally).
It's the dating game itself, when two people don't "click" or aren't in the same "gear" when it comes to how they tackle the dating circuit. The want-relationship-with-you-now person gets frustrated and calls the other person "playing games".
Most women who complain about it do the same thing the opposite way. They just say "well, I was interested... but I don't want to be mean... I'm not playing games," but the guy will, in the same regard, call her out for "playing games".
A "game" is usually just someone else not being really interested and not handling things in the way the other person (who does have keen interest) would like.
PS: OP, you are looking for 'friends'. Hence, a guy is not obligated whatsoever to be as available to you as you thought he would be, because you're looking to be on a non-dating level. What's up with that?
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| So why are u single we all have our storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 11:06:20 PM | i'm single because...the girl i fell in love with was just a friend and is getting married this summer. i'm single because the last girl i really liked and who really liked me had intimacy issues due to abusive ex-b/f's. on my end of things, i'm not a patient person. i have no tolerance for games and that doesn't help myself when it comes to relationships. i also don't want kids- it's hard to find women who don't want kids. | |
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| So why are u single we all have our storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 11:16:11 PM | | I'm single because....I'm Straight Edge, Vegan..and I have standards..not high standards..just reasonable ones when it comes to dating. Guys feel like I can't be fun or exciting because I don't drink, smoke or roll on drugs. I also don't eat meat or dairy but it doesn't mean I wont be around it or not accept someone because of their lifestyle choice, they assume I'll try to change them or preach to them...not the case at all. I'm also 5'9..a bit tall..and I"m curvy...so...yeah..I dunno..being single at 21.....woopty doo..no fun. I think I'm single because I have alot going on with my interests..and it's hard to find a guy that's willing to ..well...keep up? | |
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