| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 12:42:23 AM | I feel like i've met my soul mate ,already but lost him
me and my boyriend of 1 year and 5 months just broke up , about 4 days now , i;ve had two other previous boyfriends and when we broke up i was sad , but i got over it in no time.
this time it seems so much harder, like im not going to be able to do it,
it seems like something just died in my heart , i feel so lonely, sad and depressed, right for the past two days i been going to work and its like im not even their , when im walking my mind is usually somewhere else . and im always in a rush to come home so i can sleep, sleeping is the only thing that makes me feel good because it gives me a chance to rest my mind and not think about nothing.
i never felt this way before, and i dont know why i just can shake it off and get over it .
i dont like feeling this way but its easier said than done .
me and him were exactly alike, we both have if not everyting in common, like all the same things ,we both are left handed, have almost the same personality. i just found it so rare to find someone who was almost exactly like me just a male version .
like i said i had two boyriends before but it got me like this , i think this one was also my true first love because i did things i never thought i would do in a million years .
so could he have been my soul- mate
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 3:03:43 AM | love blues are no fun at all......................but its only been 4 days so far. maybe you two will unite again and the flame that burned may just burn even stronger. but if that is not the case then try not to be to hard on yourself. there are so many people out there. trust me, there are plentyoffish in the sea. you will find another that suits you well, or even better.  | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 3:40:03 AM | Its been almost six months now since i lost my soul-mate. And i honestly hope in your case its was just a deep love or first major love. Those hurt but over time it gets better and eventually it becomes a faint memory with no emotions attached to it.
Finding and losing your soul-mate is devastating. It stays with you for a long time. Memories trigger sudden emotions and physical pain. You freeze in your place as whatever memory of your soul-mate flutters in your head. Then as the memory is either pushed away or leaves as quickly as it came, can you return to normal.
I have a great friend that found and lost his soul-mate two years ago. He is in a nice and happy relationship now with his current girlfriend of quite a few months. I asked him. shortly after my heart expired, how he got over her. His reply was, he never did. He said he couldn't, no matter how hard he tried. He has had to just live with it.
So, i hope you feel better. I hope this wasn't a soul-mate case, if it is though. Then i hope you find the solace that eludes me. This a good time as any to rely on close friends and family. They can really help. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 3:48:27 AM | Dear Sexytanish,
We have more than one soul mate. I believe a soul is something that never dies. We have lived past lives and in those lives we have loved a million times. When we meet someone we share a special bond with it is because we have done so in past lives. With the millions of sould out there there is more then just one for us. Every person offers you something different. Your next soul mate could be someone who is your total opposite. you could find that having someone who challenges you more humbling to your soul.
Do not get me wrong losing a best friend is very pain full. My ex husband and I were together for 6 1/2 years , two of those years married. He cheated on me and there was no way for us to work past it so I left him. Even though I left I still felt desroyed inside and as much as i wanted to be with him, myself esteam and self worth was worth more. I would have good days and bad days, my heart ached for him and i never thought I would get past it........but then I met a wonder ful person who showed me love never stops and love will come again when you are not looking. It has been 5 months and i am just getting back into a small groove. Take time to mend that broken heart and know that love is out there for you. In time it gets a little easier | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 5:11:12 AM | | shugakain - I've alot of respect for you girls keep strong i think she's rite a sole is something that never dies and there are lots of sole mates out there never give up hope of finding him/her. if its ment too be well then it is ment' too be and nothing or no body will be able too change that. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 7:24:53 AM | | op: I was with a man for over two years.He was the first man I was with after I was divorced from my husband.I was alone a long time then I went back out to the dating world amd met my boyfriend.It is so hard and it hurts.But you just have to keep your self busy.This empty feeling.Now I am looking and it is so hard to find what you are looking for.You do not want to be with just any one and settle.A family member feels that you can not find any one on line and they say only crazy people are on here.I was told to look off the computer so there is a single dance I may go to it is So hard on here it is like a job.I think of him and want to contact him and settle because I am not finding what I want and it is taking a long time but I know I can not go back to him.I have to be strong and hang in there and leave it in gods hands. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 8:45:47 AM | Listen
When you think about "soul mate"....you're thinking about someone you might meet in the future, or if they might exist....or even.......you've met him already and he's gone.
A soul mate is someone everyone wants in life because we tend to think they will make us happy. I'm going to school you, so pay attention.
What I just told you has to do with time. Past, present, and future. Which one of those really exists? Present. The other two are only illusions that people create for themselves in the PRESENT moment.
What we don't realize is that whatever happened in the past or what might happen in the future is preventing us from actually EXISTING as human beings in the present moment. The present is all that there is.
Focus on your surroundings and enjoy your breath as it goes in and out. The more you practice and understand this concept, the more you'll realize that you don't need anyone and whatever happens, happens. let life unfold right before your eyes without effort. that is what true happiness and self love is all about. Everyone is unique and has their own path in life. It's all one big adventure.
hope this makes you feel better | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:43:31 AM | ^^^^^Our soul came into this world alone and it leaves this world alone. You can have people touch your soul, but they aren't bound to it in any manner. You can love and be loved by more than one person in a life time. You are young. It is hard to see that you can love again, but you can. Your heart can love more than one.
As someone else said, treasure your memories of the past, but don't live there. Live for the present and plan for the future. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:51:56 AM | We are in "luck for finding another" soulmate. The odds of you are in your favor in getting another ....you have youth,fine looks,and you are in "tune " with your heart.As an old saying goes.. " you'll find your heart,at the least time you are willing to see. There will be another. And may not be as "special as "the one that was lost. Yes! Your heart will heal !
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 1:38:45 PM | I don't really believe in soulmate so I cant really say but I haven't had that lightning struck back at me or experience that intense love affair. lol. My last 2 relationships were settling ok and no chemistry exploding..
They say you'll know within a glance, unexplainable feeling that he/she is the one... You don't have to look for it or search for it, it just comes to you when it's supposed too. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:54:44 PM | You know, one time after a bad breakup, I was wandering down the street and thinking about the girl I lost and I was sort of praying, and out of nowhere this Rabbi popped out and he was carrying a huge stack of tiny booklets and he was trying to sell them for a quarter a piece. I bought a bunch of them, and then later that week he popped out again and I bought more of them because I had never read anything like them. They are Jewish instructional booklets -- I just tried to find the one that applies to your situation so I'm looking at them now: they are called "The Teachings of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov."
These books have very specific instructions about all sorts of topics, from how to overcome impossible odds in "Everything is Possible: Good Advice on How To Make Everything That Seems Impossible - Possible," to how to get rich, to how to simply have a nice day. They are filled with examples and they tell you exactly what to do and how to do it. Have you seen those peppermint soap bottles covered with religious instructions about how to use the soap? They remind me of those bottles a little bit, except that Rabbi Nachman is actually brilliant and all of his advice is pretty good.
Anyway, the best one was about soul mates. In this pamphlet, the tone was different: Rabbi Nachman says that you can relax, because there is definitely another person that is your true match, and that you will definitely meet them, but that there's nothing you can do about who they are or when you'll meet. He says that when you do meet them, you'll be powerless then, too - that you will not be able to escape even if you try. The Rabbi goes so far as to say that if your wife or husband were to die, that you can take at least a little solace in the fact that now you will be single when you meet your match. He reminds you that your match might not even be born yet, or they may be having difficulty entering the country to meet you, so looking for them is useless.
So I couldn't find the pamphlet but that was the message. At the time I thought it was pretty hysterical and great. | |
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| What are the signs to know when you've met your soul-mate
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:12:47 AM | | All I can say is keep yourself busy. You cannot get caught up thinking about him, tempting yourself to call him or reach out. I don't think those feelings always mean its your soulmate. Sometime it is hard to get out of a comfort zone. You may be apprehensive about starting over, but obviously it wasn't working out or you would still be together | |
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