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 chili68

Joined: 4/23/2009
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:35:40 AM
What about if you came across an ex here.?

If you were just browsing around & you saw a profile and it happened to be one of your exes, what would you do.?
Would you be tempted to contact them, or would you just ignore them, or would you at least take a sneaky peek at their profile..?

I haven't yet seen any exes here yet...but you never know..!

And I would definitely take a peek at their profile if I did see one, as I am a bit nosey like that.
 Paulinemab

Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 2
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:39:18 AM
Wouldn't bother me one way or another. Wouldn't contact them, sometimes things are better left in the past.
 shabbawanks

Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 3
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:39:35 AM
I've got two ex's on here, i can't believe they got parole so soon.
 Pud78

Joined: 4/23/2009
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:40:51 AM
I know of a couple of exes on here, and have looked at both their profiles and wish them well, they are exes for a reason and of course I am intrigued by what they are doing but that is normal curiosity.
 alan0866

Joined: 9/1/2007
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:41:38 AM
If you met on here in the first place it wouldnt be a suprise to see them here again, but if you or the ex had any sence you would block that person.

As for if it was my ex wife i asw on here i think i would laugh, laugh and then laugh some more !!!!!

as the saying goes what goes around comes around !!!
 FunkyMonkee

Joined: 4/7/2009
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:42:09 AM
Write a testimonial...

It would be in my interests for them to meet someone of quality.
 - Hula Moo -

Joined: 1/30/2009
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 9:50:36 AM
If I found an ex on here,of course I'd look at the profile out of morbid curiosity.
Wouldn't contact them though.
 alan0866

Joined: 9/1/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2009 9:54:54 AM

Write a testimonial..


Now there is an idea!, didnt think of that.

if i was to write a testimonial would i tell the truth or would i make her out to be a saint then let another fooker find out what she is like.
 gemini_lady_uk

Joined: 7/16/2008
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:02:13 AM
When I joined I knew my ex would be on here cos he was the one that told me about the site lol. Yes I did check his profile and thought, some poor bugger is going to believe what they read - his profile was laughable, full of lies. Said he was a businessman running two businesses, said he was divorced when he wasn't (he had been seperated for umpteen years tho), mentioned his two or three holidays a year.

Truth was he was in debt up to his eyeballs, his business's (one was fixing computers on the side and the other consisted of him and a labourer - neither 'business' making money) and in reality he couldn't afford an overnight stay in Skegness). Oh and he had been single since splitting with his wife (I obviously imagined our 8 year relationship haha)

He did have the gift of the gab though so would have sounded totally plausible.

Funnily enough we were still friends so I told him in msn what I thought of his profile and how unfair and misleading it was and eventually he did tone it down.

What some people will do to get attention is so sad.......
 The_Pheonix

Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 10
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:06:41 AM
Im always coming accross my ex and she loves it when we get back together
 derevkofan

Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:16:35 AM
An ex tracked me down on here and sent me a message. I thought he had a nerve to try to come across as someone really nice after the way he treated me! Needless to say, I didn't maintain contact with him on here.
 A_Cornucopia

Joined: 5/21/2007
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:30:40 AM
with the exception of one (whom I wouldn't communicate with in any circumstances), I'd say 'hello' and wouldn't be surprised if they did the same if they saw my profile before I saw theirs. I am on good terms with all but one.
 kallais

Joined: 5/19/2009
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:35:59 AM
I met my ex on here and we split up in January - part of the reason why we split up was because he couldn't keep it in his pants and ended up getting someone pregnant. He has a profile on here he doesn't use but Im sure he will be back. C'est La Vie not much I can do about it really
 FunkyMonkee

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:36:10 AM

if i was to write a testimonial would i tell the truth or would i make her out to be a saint then let another fooker find out what she is like


LOL indeed. If I think the guy is decent I would tell him where I had left off and give him some pointers.

If I didnt like the guy (this would start with - refusing to shake my hand when we first met etc etc) I wouldn't say a thing...
 Urban Flower

Joined: 5/29/2009
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:54:31 AM
A guy i dated from here albeit very briefly lol would often come and find me on here whenever he came back on PoF.We would exchange a few messages each time and that would be that!I used to take a peek at his profile.Another guy i dated from here ,i went and peeked at his profile (ages after we stopped dating)and laughed my head off to see he had changed what he was looking for to Intimate Encounter!
 katonahottinroof

Joined: 4/1/2009
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:58:16 AM
For all but one I couldn't really give a toss.
The one in question BLOCK and set a few forumites on him it's the least he deserves
 Labdien!

Joined: 10/14/2007
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What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:05:35 AM
I know this is in bad taste so I apologise in advance..........

I'd be terrified, she's been dead for 9 years!

Oh come on! You have to laugh sometimes!!
 -chopper-

Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 18
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Posted: 6/12/2009 11:15:28 AM
i ask her to give me back the feckin big giant dildo i bought her as a birthday present..it cost me 36 pounds plus 4 pounds pp..id try sell it on e bay for 15...its hard times..gotta make ends meet somehow..
 Gazra_

Joined: 5/21/2009
Msg: 19
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:20:10 AM
Already have come across her on here,but she has probably been on here since we were together anyway as we split after 9 years when i found out she had cheated on me 3 times since xmas,which also makes her profile a lie as she is going on about how honest she is and wears her heart on her sleeve
 tm1971

Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/12/2009 11:41:07 AM
I have two my daughters father and my last ex, nothing. Theire in my past for a reason good luck to the next poor mug that meets up with them.
 alan0866

Joined: 9/1/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2009 11:52:53 AM

good luck to the next poor mug that meets up with them


iv been thinking about this wouldnt you want to warn others what they are really like so they doont get Shat upon themselves,
sort of all men and women watching each others backs type thing !!!
 Alf Hucker

Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/12/2009 11:54:05 AM

What about if you came across an ex here.?


^^^ Hump
 Hanneke

Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 23
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:55:29 AM
I've only had 3 exes, one of them is now married, another one has a girlfriend and I have no idea what the third is doing these days.

If I did come across their profile, I would take a sneaky peek but wouldn't contact two of them.

I just wish all three the best.
 Hanneke

Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 24
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 12:05:12 PM
That is so funny, went back to my inbox and from a pic above stared back the spitting image of the ex I don't know what he's up to these days!

I had to look and check, but it wasn't him.
 SelfLoader

Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 25
What about if you came across an ex here.?
Posted: 6/12/2009 12:30:41 PM
I would just laugh then hope they dont eyeball me...apart from the mother of my children i dont want any contact whatsoever with any ex...

They are ex's for a reason
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