| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:06:05 AM | ok i have met a number of men from this site now and although i am in no way a prude they all seem to want just a one night stand despite me explaining that that is n ot what i am looking for
i met a couple of nice blokes but its been so long since i dated and never at this age (38) that i havnt got a clue what men are looking for
so if there are any dood's out there that can give me a few clues then i would be very greatfull | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:10:46 AM | lol ahhhh but they are what makes me who i am
but i do understand they are not to everyones taste | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:13:49 AM | well that just put me in my place poster number 2 .....
blown me out before I even sent you a fecking message !!!
op ..some men and women just want a shag and this is of cousre is the perfect place to do it ..its just a case of rifting through the unsuitables to get your prize..
You are been honest , so your laying your cards on the table from the start ..so fair play..
Just make sure your not been to heavy about wanting a relationship ... you know, scare the little scaredy cats away
sorry ..you wanted a mans opinion ...I have bigger balls than most of this lot tbh anyway
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:16:09 AM | i value your opinion fudge buddy
i always state to meet as friends to take the pressure of trying to impress each other and i always state i am not looking for a full on relationship after a week of knowing someone
tbh poster number 2 you wouldnt stand a chance with me anyway  | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:30:27 AM | dont we all know the answer to this question
Men want what they have always wanted....
Just because 'they' want it does not mean women have to give it | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 6:48:46 AM | ^^^^ that's what my other half wanted and got. It seems that the less complicated it is the more likely they are to get what they want.
vvvvv Shelter, food, entertainment that involves little effort and sex - all sorted don't ask if they are OK, or alright or what they think of anything, if they have an opinion they will give it otherwise take it as read that they don't have one and couldn't give a monkey's arse about whatever it is we are babbling on about. | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:04:41 AM | | There are pleny of women on here (possibly the majority) who just want unconditional sex. Personally, I want something more regular and with a sense of permanence, although I don't necessarily expect to find it first time. Coincidentally, I'm going to be staying near Lincoln (for the time being, at least), as I've just turned down a job in Devon. | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:14:25 AM | ^^^^That's a bit of a hard one to follow!(dilleass)
What is it men really want? God knows..and i'm not sure they know half the time either but then again that could be the case for women too.. But despite all the big I am's you get from some men and all they think about is their co*k i'm sure there are some men who would like a good cuddle and someone to show a bit of affection and recieve some too..we aren't really all that different in that respect...are we???!! | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:19:21 AM | Ok Ash ^^^^^ as you stated there are plenty of woman on here who just offer unconditional sex nothing else then why is it that those who seriously are looking for relationships get picked on by those just want a leg over? Why not stick to their own type?
As for the questions - Gawd knows? I certainly don't. But have come to the conclusion if a guy asks you out where is the harm do not complain about him just wanting a leg over if it is what he ends up getting from you. I have made quite a few friends off here even men i have been on dates with, just go with the flow the one that is right for you will eventually appear just do not expect miracles. | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:49:40 AM |
Actually, what do you women want?
I'm sure they'll tell us when they've decided...
...and changed their minds a few times. | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:55:01 AM | | Companionship, a lover, someone to make us laugh and share the good times with the bad, someone with a sense of humour and can hold a conversation. Intelligent, have an opinion, doesn't just give us what we want, alluring, independent and not needy. someone you can take to meet your mum and your mates with equal pride, ambitious but homely. An equal who compliments you and adds to your life and wellbeing and above all makes us happy as we hope to make them. Hopefully not to different than what you want from us. | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:57:10 AM |
There are pleny of women on here (possibly the majority) who just want unconditional sex
really, where are they hiding? was that an option i missed when i setup me profile? | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:57:32 AM | what is it men really want?
sex
food
sex
someone to do the washing
sex
the remote control
and sex
Edit: sorry, forgot beer | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 8:00:43 AM | Tall, slender, wears stockings, keeps her mouth shut most of the time, takes phone calls, mows the lawn, does back rubs, makes good bloody marys, can drive my truck (see photos), and fights like fk...  | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 8:00:58 AM | but then again some ladys are the same and just want sex ??????
we all human at the end of the day i think its 2 ever ones taste but not all ladys and men are the same but for those who just want the fun as long as one ofyou dont get hurt and you both stairgth witheach over from the start | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 8:05:00 AM |
A woman without tattoos?
That's drifting out of the subject of what men want and pushing towards what you want. She clearly has tattoos and not hiding that fact. So if you read the context of the post, you will find this irrelevant.  | |
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| what is it men really want? Posted: 6/13/2009 8:05:48 AM | Look at it this way.
Every long and meaningful relationship starts with a single shag. | |
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