| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:37:13 AM | | I skimmed through another thread, and I noticed a few people claiming that their mates wouldnt go down on them. No names mentioned, but I did notice a few people were slightly heavier than average. Is it at all possible that the weight or attraction issue denotes how far you are willing to go sexually with a person. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:47:19 AM | well my hub says he wouldnt cuz i was too fat... this was.. 20 years ago... when i wasnt.. so... i think its just lazyness and selfishness on the mans part... as.. ive had quite a few guys say theyve been with heavy women.. and its not an issue...i think if they man accepts a bbw.... you can make anything work...i do know that... being bbw.. you have to be more aware of hygine... and since im obsessive about it.. i know thats not it.. but.. it could be a worry with some men... if theyve had a bad experience... as for a man being heavy... since im sure your not talking about people being too thin.... as long as hes clean... theres no problem (diferent angles if tummy gets in the way  ) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:55:23 AM | | at the time.. i was 200 pounds... and very muscular... no he didnt say why it was.. i think he just didnt... well... lets just say hes not a very giving person... sex.. was.. no forplay... and... all of 2 min... so ive never had a guy go down on me... and ive been trying to lose... (we havent.... slept together in years) i got fed up with.. how he did things lol but ye.. i would lose weight if he said hed 'eat' me.. but.... im doing it for me right now | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:59:06 AM | | If a man actually likes large women, I can't imagine why they wouldn't go down... Unless there was a cleanliness issue or some kind of phobia about going down regardless of weight. However, not every man who dates big women prefers them. So maybe those guys are willing to have intercourse, but not go down. While everyone here seems to say they will never settle to be in a relationship (myself included), I think a large percentage of the population feels they don't have that luxury. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:10:08 AM | | well i know for me... since ive never had it.. i dont miss it.. so.. nothing to settle for... lol.. i think everyone has to settle a bit.. its rare you find your perfect mate.. where you dont wish at least one thing is different..i think as long as the man treats you with respect.. takes care of your 'needs' as you do for him... theres no problem.. looks dont come into play with it for me... (unless hes slobby) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:32:34 AM | If I care enough about a man to be in a relationship with him, I definitely am attracted to him and want to enjoy him sexually, in all aspects. Why on earth would you be with someone if you weren't attracted to them?? It makes no sense.
I've had partners/husbands gain weight throughout the course of the relationship and it didn't make any difference in my feelings or desire for them. If you love someone, you love them. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:51:04 AM |
I've found through personal experience bigger girls taste a lot worse than skinnier girls.
Then why did you keep eating?
Why on earth would you be with someone if you weren't attracted to them?? It makes no sense.
Who you are with and who you fuck are 2 different people.
I never spoke about attraction, that I recall.
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:00:22 AM | | Overweight women do need to take more care downstairs, but then, as someone who's been both trim and obese, it's the same for men. Basically, if you're over weight, you need to wash more often. It's not nice, but it is reality. However, if clean, it makes no difference what weight you are, except for one thing: it can be easier to give oral if someone is too overweight. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:04:36 AM | | i agree with above poster... the hygine thing... a freind of mine... showered every 2 days.... if its hot... i do 2 times a day... plus.. if im going to be with someone.... i make sure im clean! thats just common courtasy.. (sorry about spelling) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:13:45 AM |
Who you are with and who you **** are 2 different people.
I never spoke about attraction, that I recall. I used the term 'being with' as in 'physically being with someone', which you would have to do to f*ck them.
You may decide to f*ck someone you are not attracted to for whatever reasons, but for me, the attraction has to be there. Therefore, my previous post stands. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:37:04 AM | emruld said:
i agree with above poster... the hygine thing... a freind of mine... showered every 2 days.... if its hot... i do 2 times a day... plus.. if im going to be with someone.... i make sure im clean! thats just common courtasy
it is about good hygien an keeping things trimmed up an shaved,,this goes for both men an women,, an being in the bigger then average catagory or whatever catagory your put in we already catch a bad rap but it doesn't help the rep if somebody of heavy size is sloppy an smelly an takes no pride in thier grooming,appearance an hygien..
this also applies to the avergae an thinner build poeple too gotta take some pride in yourself also a hair cut or shave clean decent clothes an a shower never hurt anybody...
an i have smelled some funk in my days from both heavy an thin build folks.. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:30:05 PM | Answering your original question, of course attraction issues determine how far someone will go with a lover. As far as weight being a factor, it all depends on what you are attracted to, if you like your lovers on the chunky side and that's what you're attracted to then it should not deter you from going down; if you are simply doing a person to get off rather than due to attraction then I doubt you will be an attentive lover anyway.
There are definite hygiene issues with people of all sizes, it's not limited to fat folk. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:34:04 PM |
Is it at all possible that the weight or attraction issue denotes how far you are willing to go sexually with a person.
Weight has never been an issue for me... there are things I like and things I don't like. Attraction is not purely physical for me, it's more mental. The physical is just a bonus... hehe.. My current guy is sooo not my *typical preference* as far as physical goes, he's smart and makes me laugh and mentally stimulating.. damned good in bed...
And if your husband said loose weight and I will eat you!
HAHAHA!! My ex tried that with me.. but not "I will eat you" because he was doing it.. more like "I don't find you attractive"... and yet, he met me I was fat.. and only gained 20 lbs over the course of our relationship.. that lasted 10 yrs I might add. Whatever... he gained more like 50 or 60 and I never said anything about it because, again, it wasn't the physical appearance that was the major attraction for me.
You either like me for who/what I am to start with, or you don't. My current guy is almost the polar opposite from my ex... my guy is supportive in my efforts to get healthy, whereas my ex would sabotage me (and yet didn't find me attractive while fat??).
Hygiene is important, regardless of weight... and the worst offender I've ever known was a guy I was with for about 3.5 yrs... 6'4", was 140 lbs when we started dating (yeah, walking skeleton!!) and about 220-230 when we ended the relationship... but his hygiene sucked. I mean REALLY sucked!!! *shudder* | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:43:35 PM | | My first GF stank downstairs. Sorry to say so, but, it's true. Rather put me off approaching women for a while I guess. It wasn't due to just her natural scent (some women have strong scents, but, you live with that), but, it was hygiene. Even a clean woman can, after a few hours working, walking, etc be a little bit of a sweaty Betty. At least my next was a nurse, and, she smelt (and tasted) lovely. Actually, I've been with a few nurses, and they're all fantastic with hygiene! :) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:56:35 PM |
ok now im curious how bad was his hygien no_1_bby
Bad. Didn't shower for days on end.. wore the same clothes for like a week straight.. he was uncut, and yeah *gag*.. smelled like stale piss and grossness. BTW.. he's the ONLY uncut male I've been with that had THAT problem... | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:57:38 PM | Yes, If a girl doesn't attract me in a way that would make me want to perform oral on her, then I won't. If I am going down on a girl I want to be able to enjoy it, otherwise there is no reason doing it. Just like if a girl doesn't enjoy giving me oral, I dont want her to do it.
I've seen girls and thought.... "ID EAT HER FOR DAYS"
Not every girl is pretty down there.... | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 3:29:15 PM | lol no 1 bby
sounds like my hub.. whom im leaving in 2 months.. called his bluff when he said leave. :P
he said no lawyers ;) im not out for revenge.. just.. i did stay home for 18 years with the kids (babysat others the whole time) but ye hed go days without brushing his teeth.. or showering... longest was 5 days :S
sex only took 2 min so... hehe i learned to hold my breath | |
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