| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:11:56 PM | Just wondering as i experienced this last night, why would a bloke arrange to meet me if he had no real intention of actually meeting me? I have been speaking to him for a short while and have seen him twice in passing but not on an actual date. He seemed very interested, kept ringing and textin me, but last night just didnt turn up for our date? I tried ringing him and texted him, but heared nothing.What was the point in all this, anyone have any ideas?  | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:30:55 PM | He is most likely just a player. For creatures of habit its really about the thrill & addiction of the imaginative, as long as reality dosnt come into it. And, who they hurt/time waste along their way wont even register, even a flicker with this ilk.
There give away signals is sporadic but sudden full on contact and telling you, disproportionately (fek me wicked thats a big word even for you) in relationship to you them, how hot sexy special you are and constantly manoeuvring the convo to a sex based or innuendo one quickly whilst telling you you may be the one.
This lot are often attached/married have a plethora of options ...so in my opinion no second chances.
And the vanishing act types reinforces what I said. However, in all likelihood this lot, as there creatures of habit, reappear with some form of incredible excuse sooner or later. | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:04:56 PM |
He is most likely just a player. For creatures of habit its really about the thrill & addiction of the imaginative, as long as reality dosnt come into it. And, who they hurt/time waste along their way wont even register, even a flicker with this ilk.
There give away signals is sporadic but sudden full on contact and telling you, disproportionately (fek me wicked thats a big word even for you) in relationship to you them, how hot sexy special you are and constantly manoeuvring the convo to a sex based or innuendo one quickly whilst telling you you may be the one.
This lot are often attached/married have a plethora of options ...so in my opinion no second chances.
And the vanishing act types reinforces what I said. However, in all likelihood this lot, as there creatures of habit, reappear with some form of incredible excuse sooner or later.
So true you have defo hit the nail on the head hun, can you read minds too??  | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 3:38:26 PM |
He prolly remembered it was his Wife's birthday!
That was my very first thought.
Was thinkin' about it....got the boost that someone else would be interested...but his conscience kicked in and couldn't go through with it.
Either that...or he couldn't sneek out when it was time for the date. | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:03:07 PM | For some "blokes" it is called game playing. Somehow they get off on the fact that they have asked you to meet them, you show up and they don't. It happened quite a bit when I started dating a few years ago. I guess Im either getting luckier or I am choicing who I am going to meet better. Let the "bloke" (I really luv this word) go. He isn't worth your time.  | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:37:57 PM | msg1.
To answer the question.
No idea, other than a sudden and complete case of fast acting Stupid-u-enza. Cronic sufferers behave quite unpredictably stupid. It strikes without warning. Theres no cure. Isolation from Stupid-u-enza, doesn't help either as it's a global human condition. (blows nose, sniff, snuffle) Oh dear, this is bad.;)
There is no sense to be found, when your senses tell you none is present.
Move on!
Good luck.
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:39:30 PM | There have been many threads about this topic. I will repeat what I mentioned in other threads. There could be many different reasons for it.
1. They are flakes.
2. They are married or have a significant other.
3. Not ready for a relationship.
4. Went out with another person that they liked better. | |
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| Why arrange to meet if you have no intention on actually going through with it?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:59:53 PM | Hi snoops,
It could be a number of things. It may be for the same reason married or guys who are already in relationships try to get a girl's number at a club - they just want to see if a girl digs them. Or it may be a mind game, it could also possibly be them lying about who they are and not wanting to be figured out. There is always a slight chance they get scared and back out but either way it is rude, and inconsiderate and you should pursue someone who actually shows up, makes effort and puts time into you and values you. | |
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