| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:33:59 PM | | IYup, if there would be more to it do you want? But guessing what she said is all you need to know. Some of us wish that their kid gets to have relationshi[p with both parents. And would hate to seen that ruined. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:38:43 PM | | It seems odd that she thinks that paying a bill is somehow saving you. The doctors already did that during your three day stay. Some people would take advantage of a gift like that, others may be insulted. I would be insulted myself. She is judging you based on your history together as not being able to afford to pay the bill yourself. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:42:11 PM | She knows how concerned your son is...she is doing it for him and not for you.
Perhaps trying to show some good-faith on her part... I remember your other posts about how NASTY she is to you and the problems she tries to cause with your son. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:49:51 PM |
Is that really the only reason she offered? Or, might there still be concern there ?
Of course there's concern there.
She's concerned you may have passed on your Bill Clinton infatuation to the boy. And maybe she thought of this as a nice gesture to convince you to change your evil, borderline psychotic ways. 
That, Or Bill Clinton got to her!
Damn Liberals and their welfare-state mentality! | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:09:47 PM | | She loved you once and that care doesn't just disappear entirely. She probably does still care about you. It doesn't mean she's in love with you or wants to get back together again. She just wants to make sure you're safe. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:13:54 PM | None of us could possibly know what her intentions truly are. All you will get here are *guesses* on our part regarding her state of mind.
I wont even attempt to guess. I do not know her.
The fact she paid your bill tho...unbelievably kind!
I wish you the best of health  | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:32:50 PM | | Obviously, you were a part of her life and are a huge part of your son's, so there is concern there. I wouldn't read more into it than that. She sounds like a good person to have helped you out when you were in a bind. Hopefully, you two can go on being good to each other as you go on with your separate lives while continuing to be parents to your boy. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:49:09 PM | | Rick, my parents have been divorced for 27 years now. My dad still loves my mom and my mom would probably slit her own throat to avoid ever living with my dad again. Yet, my mom visits my dad in the nursing home (my dad had a stroke and is paralyzed) and she tries to be there for his new wife and daughter. These are the benefits of an acrimony free divorce. Enjoy them. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:42:44 AM | Not knowing her, and based on what you've said, it sounds like she made a very kind gesture for both you and her son. I wouldn't read any more into it than that.
I hope you're spending your time thinking of an appropiate way to show her your heartfelt thanks for her generous gift. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:44:33 AM | Damn dude feel greatful she is so giving and concerned, and don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
I'm betting some exs would contemplate the alternative to helping pay a bill............such as sneaking in and slipping a micky | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 5:35:11 AM | | I am glad to hear you didnt smooch money from a women, now can you talk to that bumb in brisbane who is not sure if he should stick around for his 2 year old | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 7:45:06 AM | I would have to agree, she is being a good Mom, and making sure her son's fears are alleviated.
Unless she actually tells you she has had a change of heart, you should try not to read anything into nice gestures.
I dont really like my sons Dad, but I would not stand by and watch him come to ruins, as that would hurt my son. I would offer to help if I could too, and it would have nothing to do with him, it would be about my son. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:51:32 PM | Ah, okay, you didn't accept her offer. Well, that's a little different.
I was wondering if there might still be a chance at something (which is why i asked you ladies) I want to do "the right thing" I just don't know what that is.
I wouldn't assume that her offer was based on anything but altruism, until she says something or makes a move to indicate otherwise.
I'd send a nice card and some flowers to thank her for the offer, but try not to read too much into it. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 2:04:58 PM | Whatever the history the two of you had, it sounds like she's a good person and wanted to help you out--regardless of the past.
I, too, wouldn't read too much into it. If she were interested in anything more, she wouldn't have waited for a crisis to do so--she would have already initiated something.
Best of luck to you, OP. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 6/14/2009 2:07:50 PM | | I'd say you lost a good woman and now you are wanting her back, not the other way around. You're not over her apparently. Just because you are not romantically involved with someone, doesn't mean you don't care for them or their well being. You were married a long time and have a child together. You will always have that bond. The gesture to pay your bill in your time of need, was just that. Don't go confusing her generosity with wanting to get you back. | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 9/28/2009 11:20:12 PM | Of course they both want each other back, but the only difference, the lady would not accept the same bad treatment again.
She wants him to apologize for all his bad behaviors toward her, the lack of respect he had of their union.
And what made her calling names every time she sees him..... it s just a way to say "Let's be a family again" but in a different way this time, with love and understanding, with trust not betrayal . And she still cares about him, even loves him.... otherwise she would not waste her time calling him names... Remember the opposite of Love is not hate but..... "Indifference" | |
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| Why would she offer ?
Posted: 9/29/2009 2:18:31 AM | Why do I have a feeling I've seen this post about 2 months ago?
Anyway, what PB said is good. | |
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