| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:26:06 PM | | So is Sex all that anyone ever thinks about now a days? I just recently had a guy pretty much want to sleep with one girl and then he thought that he was going to sleep with me tomorrow. i have never felt so small and so degraded before and this was coming from the mouth of a guy who so called "liked" me...which i think all he had in mind was sex. So i was just wondering if this is all that anyone thinks about now a days and their life revolves around it. i sure know that mine doesn't but that is just me. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:43:19 PM | Well to answer your question for me it would depend on the time of day, whether or not I have eaten, where the moon was aligned with the earth and what my hororscope may say for the day. All these things will depend on whether or not I am thinking about sex at any given time. 
If a relationship is what you are looking for then obviously the dude is not the boy for you. There are a lot of people whose primary instinct is to get laid, yes. Every now and then you will run across the elusive needle in a hay stack and find that special someone that clicks with you. Patience grasshopper patience is all that I can tell you.  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:49:39 PM | I was going to put something really insiteful here but suddenly I thought of blow jobs and my mind wandered....
Sorry!
To the OP, consider this - young men especially will treat you in a manner in which you instruct them to. No, I'm not blaming you for presenting that you should be considered only for what you were worth sexually. But much of the discussion leading up to the date indicates to the young man what it is you're interested in. If you're speaking sexually, dressing scantily then ta da 2+2 = getting laid.
If all the men you date arrive at the same conclusion it could be you and what you're presenting.
If was only this ONE man? Then consider him the loser and move on.
This is what is meant by being choosy about the men you show interest in.
Hold yourself with high respect and do not allow someone else to degrade you.
Good luck sweetie! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:49:45 PM | There are two different types of guys
1) guys who want a woman just for sex
2) guys who want a woman for a multitude of reasons, including sex
Either way, guys want sex. You just need to figure out if that is ALL he wants, or if there is more. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:49:57 PM | | It does seem that sex is all anyone is worried about. Whatever happened to deep and meaningful relationships. Sure I agree that sex is important in a relationship, but to what extreme should it be? And it seems to be so hard to find a decent guy that is willing to wait for it!!! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:52:11 PM | So is Sex all that anyone ever thinks about now a days?
I think there might be room for a bit of greyscaling.
Sex is something that some people think of frequently.
It also sells a lot of merchandise. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 6:55:52 PM | Well no, I also think about world hunger and peace int the middle east!
But, seeing how I can't mail my leftovers or find Osama, I'll focus on fecking and sucking!  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:01:08 PM | | well for some guys its all they think about and for the rest its only most of the time. heres the thing though LADIES, you control sex, if you make a guy wait more than a day youll quickly discover his intentions. if a guy will hang out with you all the time for 3 months or more without sex he really really likes you. if he constantly is trying to turn things sexual and acting impatient sex is probably all he wants. seems like back in the day before all this womens lib stuff women were alot more slow to give sex so as to see if a guy was really interested in her, but now women are as doggish with sex as some men and the balance nature had intended is disrupted. like dave chappelle said, "women are flooding the market with p#$$#" and the value is plummeting. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:02:16 PM |
Either way, guys want sex. You just need to figure out if that is ALL he wants, or if there is more.
Go back to GSB's post and she will be the wise Sage.
It's all in how YOU present yourself.
Men are very astute when it comes to how they instantly catagorize a woman. Three columns form in the head (big). The headings of each column are:
Will She? Won't She? Hmmm...I wonder...?
It's where you desire to be. Raise the bar. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:02:17 PM | Sex is often on the minds of guys and an essential part of any love relationship. I think that real men know that the truest sexual pleasure come when 2 people are committed in their love. At this point I don’t refer to it as sex but love making. Sex in itself can be destructive so be careful who you share that part of yourself with.
You are young and many guys at that age treat sex like a new toy to play with in their sandbox. If he wants to grow into a man insist that he act like one. He has to show you the respect you deserve. Demand it.
Your day for real love will come. God will send you the right man when you both are ready. Just remember when he finally shows up he may not be packaged the way you expect. He may not fit your list of physical traits and so on. Trust your gut feelings. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:22:38 PM | "There are two different types of guys
1) guys who want a woman just for sex
2) guys who want a woman for a multitude of reasons, including sex
Either way, guys want sex. You just need to figure out if that is ALL he wants, or if there is more."
Basically, the guy who said this is my hero. If I was 900 pounds I'd get it tattooed on my body, but alas I'm not so I don't have enough skin.
Face it, dudes are going to want to bang you, and the ones that don't are either secretly gay or don't have a penis. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:37:04 PM |
So is Sex all that anyone ever thinks about now a days?
You are basing this question on the behavior of one guy? At least according to the OP.
i have never felt so small and so degraded before
Why? Were you going to sleep with him?
Otherwise his behavior tells you about him. It doesn't set your self worth.
If a guy calls you a whore does that mean you are one? IMO it doesn't, it just means that is what he is hoping to see...or as an attempt to hurt you...so it defines him...not you...and he wins if you let it hurt you....
Does this really need to be explained to you?
So i was just wondering if this is all that anyone thinks about now a days and their life revolves around it.
I think all mammalian life revolves around it. Without it no one would be here to answer your question.
As for thinking about it...I think nutrition, entertainment, and health maintenance enters in there once in a while. Although sperm has a lot of protein and food play can be erotic, sex is fun, and having sex is good exercise...OMG you've cracked men! We ARE ravening torpid sex fiends that solely exist as coital demons wandering the earth to suck the very essence of life from hapless victimized women!
i sure know that mine doesn't but that is just me.
That's because you're better than everybody. At least all men. Go Powerpuff girls go! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:37:24 PM | I know OP, it's sad isn't it?
Men are starting to act like sex-starved teenage boys. Maybe the younger men are looking more for an LTR? I know the 40+ year olds I've dated from POF seem to be looking for FWB only. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:05:54 PM | This may sound weird, coming from a guy that is hyper-virile for his age  , Sex is NOT all every guy thinks about, unless he is extremely insecure with himself (big time). I admit that when I see a lady (note they are ALL ladies, not chicks, broads, etc - remember your mother...) I look at her physical attributes, and if she is "sexual" (best way I can put it) but then I wonder what her mind is like, does she have hobbies, what are her interests, could she be a FRIEND...
Guys that have had a good relationship with their mother are the ones you need to seek...
p.s. Love you mom! | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:08:14 PM | I think all human beings think about sex all the time.Most of our life is spent trying to figure out how to manage it in a civilized way since civilization is fairly new in our evolution.
Maybe this guy is devolving. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:11:33 PM | Nope, that's not what I meant...
I was never a mamas boy, but I love my mother.
Guys that have issue with their mothers (it shows...) are the ones to avoid, simply put | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:21:45 PM | | When it comes to women? Yes, it's mostly what I think about. Oh, sure, if she's warm, friendly and funny too, I think about those things too and how much I enjoy them. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:29:17 PM | So, women that had issues with their father, or were abandonned should be avoided also?
Way to paint everyone with one brush.
OP, this will sound critical, but just trying to be helpful.....get rid of the scowling photos! Focus more on horses, etc, things you like, rather than criticizing men in general in your profile......the bitterness comes through a bit and could intimidate the kind of guy you are looking for. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:31:46 PM | | You're only 23. The best answer is yes. If you want someone that is different, you have to seek outside the box. Meaning, take a closer look at the guy you'd normally not look at. Even then, it's pretty important to men, but just more important to some men, than others. | |
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