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 Pete_Paranoid

Joined: 5/9/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 10:28:58 AM
I feel like I'm dying inside. After a long while of not writing emails I've found a few ladies I would like to be friends with. However if I write to them my profile will be excluded due to email restrictions. How do I contact them and keep my options open?

Thanks in advance!
 Lukiano

Joined: 3/7/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 6:35:26 PM
u can't...
find other ladies to message :)
 actualizing

Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 6:46:54 PM
you can't contact them bub.....you have to accept that. If they contact you first then the restrictions don't count. Try posting something brilliant on the fora that they will read and want to contact you about! Yeah, that should do it!
 Notsureboutyou!

Joined: 4/17/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 8:22:58 PM
I'm not brilliant with this but can you not add them as a favorite? If they are interested they could email? What are the restrictions?
 fortygeek

Joined: 2/15/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 8:33:37 PM
OP,
The correct answer is you DON'T contact them if you fit any of the restrictions they have posted. You're not showing these women much respect if you're looking for ways to circumvent their restrictions, and it's probably a good way to get yourself blocked, reported, and potentially banned.

Just my two cents (well, maybe three)

Paul ;)
 Pete_Paranoid

Joined: 5/9/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 10:53:55 PM
Thanks for your comments, I think it is sad that I can't be friends only with a woman simply because she has "intimate encounter" on her profile. Why can't people just mind their own business?

my 2c
 *Butterfly_Girl*

Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:30:15 PM
Thats because most women dont WANT to be friends with someone who is on here looking for intimate encounters, thats why there is the option to block.
 Pete_Paranoid

Joined: 5/9/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:42:35 PM

OP,
The correct answer is you DON'T contact them if you fit any of the restrictions they have posted. You're not showing these women much respect if you're looking for ways to circumvent their restrictions, and it's probably a good way to get yourself blocked, reported, and potentially banned.

Just my two cents (well, maybe three)

Paul ;)


You may have a point there!

My profile is long term, I think I should just write to them anyway as women with "intimate encounter" sound more in touch with who they want to be and alot more fun than a woman that has a stuffy "Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex" message on her page.

CAN WE MOVE ON ALREADY?
 Pete_Paranoid

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Posted: 6/15/2009 10:52:41 PM
^ Thanks for sharing!
 miska1

Joined: 9/16/2008
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Posted: 6/16/2009 1:06:36 AM
Add them to your favorites,and maybe they will contact you 1st
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