| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:05:03 PM | | I love to cuddle after sex . I feel that cuddling afterward is actually part of making love. I would feel like I was just used if the other person rolled over went to sleep or got up and left ? LOL Whats your opinion ladies ? | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:39:41 PM | | I'm big on cuddling after being intimate with my man. I want to touch him and have him touch me. The closeness and bonding that this signifies is very important to our relationship. Doesn't have to last for long, but it something that finishes the experience on a loving and caring note. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:42:01 PM | Actually, for me it depends. If I feel emotionally connected during the act, many times I will roll over and go to sleep.
BUT... I am always touching him in bed, even if it's just my feet touching his. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:47:06 PM | it varies....
if we're both hot and sweaty and trying to catch our breath...the cuddling can wait a minute.... | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:48:00 PM | | Only until I fall asleep (if I am not hungry or don't have to be anywhere) - usually 10 to 15 mins. If I am home that means you can go once I fall asleep. If I am at your place, then obviously falling asleep is not a good thing and I wouldn't end up going home, so I'd have to pass. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:58:12 PM | Cuddling is good--as long as it doesn't interfer with the good sleep one has after making love.   | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 1:59:00 PM | After being “Intimate” with my significant other. I want our bodies to relax and our beating hearts to slow back down….with her in my arms and then just let the world pass “US” by..
Touch is a very important primal non verbal sign of affection and acceptance in my relationships.. It’s reestablishing our caring for each other softly as lovers. After driving each other to our limits physically … | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 2:20:30 PM | | I'm not a cuddler. I'm a 'kick you out of my bed and make you leave my place so I can get some sleep' kind of gal | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 2:31:36 PM |
if we're both hot and sweaty and trying to catch our breath...the cuddling can wait a minute....
Yeah.. this. Once we cool down and can breathe again, I like cuddling.. but that means him spooning me normally until I fall asleep then he goes and raids the fridge. It's all good.. ;) | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 3:00:31 PM | The problem with cuddling is that in no time she wants to do it again.
And the problem with this is...... what again?
Cuddling is probably the best thing in the world as far as my own opinion goes. Nothing beats cuddling! | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 3:03:10 PM |
I'm not a cuddler. I'm a 'kick you out of my bed and make you leave my place so I can get some sleep' kind of gal
I'm starting to think we were separated at birth...sorta... | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:03:19 PM | As much skin to skin contact DURING sex and even more AFTER sex. IMHO, if you don't want to be THAT close to your lover before, during and especially AFTER making love you should save it for when you're with somebody you do feel that way about. Being with anybody you don't feel that way about just cheapens the feelings when you spooon later.
For the "kick 'em out" ladies, thanks for the headsup. Why bother with a HUMAN if that's all the emotion you feel during or after THE greatest thing two people can share. What you should concentrate on is fresh batteries and an OFF switch.
SAD! | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:12:00 PM | All that cuddling is gross! It's like, well didn't we just share enough germs already? Yuck, I hate when girls make ya do that slippery stuff and the touching of all the...parts.
And there's so many that make me do it all the time!
Ugh, I feel dirty!
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:38:07 PM | I don't cuddle anyone I'm not in love and in a relationship with. But I do love to cuddle and I'm very affectionate when I'm emotionally content.
But the whole cuddling after sex thing with just anyone? Not. I don't really care much about a guy who is just into banging me. Cuddling denotes true affection to me. While I know some people just like to cuddle a lot...I don't die without it. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 4:49:12 PM | "But the whole cuddling after sex thing with just anyone? Not. I don't really care much about a guy who is just into banging me. "
What, you get that a lot? LOL!
No really, I understand, but you just walked right into that one, LOL! | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:00:17 PM | I like cuddling all the time - I could cuddle 24/7 - but that's not realistic or reality - I take what I can get and savour every moment! I am not really hard to please - I love unconditionally! | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:04:27 PM |
For the "kick 'em out" ladies, thanks for the headsup. Why bother with a HUMAN if that's all the emotion you feel during or after THE greatest thing two people can share. What you should concentrate on is fresh batteries and an OFF switch.
SAD!
Not all people need to do sleepovers in relationships. If you only sleep well in your bed with no one else in it, then it doesn't make you sad. It makes you someone who likes to sleep undisturbed and without being smothered.
To each his own.
P.S. I like my dildos to be human, thanks. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:05:17 PM |
As much skin to skin contact DURING sex and even more AFTER sex. IMHO, if you don't want to be THAT close to your lover before, during and especially AFTER making love you should save it for when you're with somebody you do feel that way about.
I so agree Dave, maximum skin contact during all stages. To me the cuddling and pillow talk is equally important to th emain event. I don't "do" casual sex anymore.
Since I only make love in a committed relationship I place equal emphasis on foreplay, intercourse and afterplay.
I laugh in the morning when we wake up sleeping on about one third of a King sized bed cuddled up with each other, legs entwined. I feel cheated on nights when he can't stay over. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:06:36 PM | I CAN'T CUDDLE!!
After sex I get energized and want to clean the house or bake cookies or ..OR...SOMETHING...
Takes me a good hour to wind down enough to be able to just sit still...
I've never understood these guys who do the deed, roll off, roll over and then fall asleep...just doesnt' compute...
Truth, while you're up, can you go home?-TruthinessInc | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:09:05 PM | i was in a relationship for 4 years and he wasnt much of a cuddler so i got use of not cuddling after sex. but befor i met him i was big into cuddling i would like to fine someone thats into it again | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:20:46 PM | | I so agree with feeling robbed if I'm with someone that isn't sleeping next to me and cuddling with me all night long. I have been with someone that was such an awesome cuddler and if he rolled over while he was sleeping he would nudge me and tell me that it was my turn and to roll over. That is what i would call a major cuddler. In fact, I always ask someone when I'm talking to them and getting to know likes and dislikes if he is a cuddler, because I think that if someone is not a cuddler then I don't think I would be happy in the relationship. And if both individuals aren't going to be happy in the relationship then it probably wouldn't work anyway, the way I look at it. | |
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| Cuddling and touching after sex
Posted: 6/19/2009 6:14:10 PM |
For the "kick 'em out" ladies, thanks for the headsup. Why bother with a HUMAN if that's all the emotion you feel during or after THE greatest thing two people can share. What you should concentrate on is fresh batteries and an OFF switch.
SAD
Said the troll. | |
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