| just not that into me?
Posted: 6/20/2009 7:12:59 PM | | So I went on a date tonight with a guy I had talked to for a while! We watched The Hangover together then afterwards talked about getting coffee! During the movie we held hands and cuddled up but at the end of the movie he said he was going to go home because he wasnt feeling well & gave me a hug and left... So do you guys think he really didnt feel well or just wasnt that into me!? | |
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| just not that into me?
Posted: 6/20/2009 7:17:42 PM | | Ouch, yeah. Not a good sign sweets. I wouldn't be surprised if you don;t hear from him. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 7:27:29 PM | Hmm, yep, I'm gonna say he wasn't into you. What man just takes off when he's into a chick ... unless, maybe he really didn't feel well ... or he had another date planned for the night ... it is kind early after all.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for ya though :) | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 7:46:11 PM |
We don't know.
We have no bloody idea.
This is a discussion forum. Not "dial a psychic".
Yes but Im sure several people have been in the same position before which is why I am asking for advice!
& one guy even admitted saying the same thing to another girl as a way to back out! Just asking for opinions based on experience | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 7:47:13 PM | If he calls you again within the next 3 days, he really didn't feel well.
If he doesn't call you within the next 3 days, he just wasn't that into you.
If you want to call him and ask him how he's feeling, do it. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 8:08:06 PM | afterwards talked about getting coffee...then he said he wasn't feeling well.
i'm guessing it was you who suggested getting coffee, and he who backed out.
so, yeah, i'm thinking he just wasn't into you.
then again, i don't get why anyone would plan a first date to go to a movie. you can't talk in a movie, thus, can't get to know one another. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 9:39:33 PM | | Sounds like he was bowing out as graciously as possible. I wouldn't hold my breath waiting to hear from him. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 9:46:00 PM | ... then afterwards talked about getting coffee!
Maybe he read the coffee thread? 
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Posted: 6/20/2009 9:46:10 PM | | Failed connection here folks. It's good that you are dating again though. I saw your thread on the broken hearts forum. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 5:52:44 AM |
i'm guessing it was you who suggested getting coffee, and he who backed out.
so, yeah, i'm thinking he just wasn't into you.
then again, i don't get why anyone would plan a first date to go to a movie. you can't talk in a movie, thus, can't get to know one another.
Well the original plan was coffee first then the movie but he got lost on the way and so there wasnt time for the coffee before! But on the phone we decided to do movie then coffee! | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 6:10:09 AM | | Njet. He wasn't into you I'm afraid. If you don't feel well you stay home and you certainly don't set up a date. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 6:14:05 AM | | First of all, I don't know how you cuddled up during that movie. I was laughing my ass off. That was a great time. I can't wait to see it again!!! Sorry about your bum luck, I'd say he wasn't that into you, especially if he was laughing during the movie and didn't seem uncomfortable during. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 6:27:29 AM | | or maybe he had just made his car payment and was broke, spent the last of his money on the movies, cut the guy a little sluck,haha. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 6:48:27 AM | Nah.
He's totally into you, just headed home to his baby momma and the brood ..
He'll be back for some honey. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 7:58:32 AM | He made his escape.
Quite possibly he was looking for more than "hand-holding", realized that he was not going to get what he wanted with you and took-off.
I'm guessing you don't want that kind of guy anyway.
Cease all contact with him. Let him resume contact with you if he likes. He will if he's interested. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 9:15:37 AM | | First date a movie? Are u guys avoiding to know eachother choosing to see other people on scream? Who had this brilhant idea for first date? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 11:25:04 AM | | Maybe it is that movie. I went to see "The Hangover" with a guy I was seeing for several months. We left the movie. He said let's go to dinner. I said fine and took him to this Sportsbar/Restaurant in my Neighborhood where the food his pretty good. We just some small appetizers and something to drink. Before we even got our drinks he told me "he wasn't feeling it". And that he wasn't driving to my city..we lived 45 minutes away...for any more dates. So, I picked up my purse and walked outside just to cool off. I waited 15 minutes for him to come outside and walked home five miles in the rain. At least you got a good movie and hug out of it. My clothes were ruined. He is not "in" to you and just prevented you from wasting a lot of time. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 11:59:47 AM | | ^^ He wouldn't even drive you home?? Or was that your choice? I once walked out on a date and walked 2 miles home in the pouring rain, but this was my choice. I definitely was not into him anymore and even one more second of being around him was too much to bear. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 12:42:24 PM | | I waited awhile. I think he actually sat there and ate the food. So, I just got tired of waiting. Really , my choice. But thought he was rude. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 12:51:08 PM |
Maybe it is that movie. I went to see "The Hangover" with a guy I was seeing for several months. We left the movie. He said let's go to dinner. I said fine and took him to this Sportsbar/Restaurant in my Neighborhood where the food his pretty good. We just some small appetizers and something to drink. Before we even got our drinks he told me "he wasn't feeling it". And that he wasn't driving to my city..we lived 45 minutes away...for any more dates. So, I picked up my purse and walked outside just to cool off. I waited 15 minutes for him to come outside and walked home five miles in the rain. At least you got a good movie and hug out of it. My clothes were ruined. He is not "in" to you and just prevented you from wasting a lot of time.
Omg thats horrible! Im sorry to hear that! | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 12:57:46 PM | I think there's about a 90% chance he isn't into you.
I think there's a 10% chance he had something going on that he didn't want to explain, maybe the diarrhea??? 
The problem is, you never know. Give him a bit of time without emailing or calling him. Within the next few days you'll know if he's interested or not. Because if he is, he won't want to risk being without contact for more than a few days. If he doesn't call you, just move on. In fact, I would just be busy now and in the move on stage, as you should be this early on anyway. Don't ever get your hopes up too soon.
You always need to give the benefit of the doubt in a case like this, but I wouldn't give it a high chance of success. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 1:13:51 PM | I would not assume that he was lying. Give him the benefit of the doubt.. If he does not contact you again you will have your answer.
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