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Posted: 6/23/2009 6:26:47 PM | First, I know I need better & more photos, but after that, am I just experiencing bad luck or have I put the wrong things in my profile. Constructive advice without sarcasm appreciated (please save it for the kids).  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:18:41 PM | Easy. You have so many blocks and MUST NOTs that an armored division of the Army's best could not get a message to you, let alone a date.
Maybe you don't understand the concept of "available" ....???
If you don't seem available, men won't even try to to contact you. Your profile is perfect -- all those blocks are working. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:36:17 PM | | I definitely agree. I would consider removing things like "must not be looking for hang out". Maybe you should consider changing what you're looking for to something more general and flexible. You never know. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 12:48:34 AM | | Yep. Of the four men within 75 miles of you that could send an email (according to your auto-blocks), 1 figures he's not smart, 1 figures he's not attractive, one takes himself too seriously, sand the last one doesn't see himself as compassionate. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 1:11:58 AM | In addition to the above, my advice would be to focus more on your qualities and less on what you want in a man. Unless you are being swamped with responses, you can decide on a case by case basis whether he meets your criteria.
I would also suggest leaving off the physical description. Since you have a picture, it's rather redundant.
Good luck  ! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:01:40 AM | Carol, I ran a couple sample searches to see how many men here would meet your email requirements. 20. Not even a pool, eh? Just one of those shallow puddles you get after a 5 minute cloud burst.
It may not be practical for you to lift the 75 mile restriction, but consider upping the age range and removing others that are not deal breakers for you.
It would appear that the area in which you live is not densely populated. | |
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