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 YoungnCourious
Joined: 8/31/2008
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I had a lady ask me if she could try milking my prostate, I wasent really sure what that meant...... ladies can anyone tell me what that is? give me some explination? thanks soo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Channybeans
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 2
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Posted: 6/24/2009 3:55:00 PM
Umm hehehe Well hunny its pretty simple, she wants to stick her fingers in your bum!! Its where you enter in through the anal cavity and stroke the prostate from within, this is highly effective and can create amazing orgasims almost instantly. However if done incorrectly can just be akward and uncomfortable, make sure she knows what she is doing, use a ton of lube, protection, and instruction. Looking it up online will help understand it more. Its will be easy to find!!

GOOD LUCK!!

PhEx
 MysticalM
Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 3
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Posted: 6/24/2009 3:55:14 PM
She wants to put her finger up your butt and give you the most mind-blowing orgasm a man can have! Don't knock it 'til ya try it hon'...

A man's prostate is comparable to a woman's gspot.... relax and enjoy!

 YoungnCourious
Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 4
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Posted: 6/24/2009 3:56:42 PM
is it best if I have not had an orgasm in a few days and let the cum build up?
 Channybeans
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 5
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Posted: 6/24/2009 4:19:30 PM
READ UP!!

The Prostate Gland:

The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system. It is not found in women. Its primary function is the production of seminal fluid, and it also stimulates orgasm in males. The prostate gland can be affected by disease, including infectious inflammation or prostatitis, and prostate cancer, the second most deadly cancer among American males. Many people recommend milking the prostate regularly as a preventative treatment against prostate cancer and prostatitis

Done internally either by lubricated finger(s), the penis during anal intercourse, a prostate massager or other medical instrument, prostate massage may result in expression of seminal fluids without any genital stimulation. The prostate can also be indirectly massaged externally through the perineum, although this may not be effective in the removal of fluid.

With exception of medical settings, no more pressure should be used than for rubbing an eyeball. The procedure is initially undertaken gently using the index finger and a latex glove by massaging the lobes on either side of the prostate, taking care not to rub vigorously on the nerves in the middle.

If the prostate is full and stimulated sexually in some cases it may consciously and voluntarily be contracted, thereby emptying itself in the same way as during ejaculation but with none of the surrounding organs stimulated, without actually squeezing it digitally.

Prostate milking is also encountered as part of sexual activities, particularly involving the use of sexual denial.

Prostate massage, in the sexual context, can refer firstly to the stimulation of the prostate as part of conventional sexual activity - for example, as part of autoeroticism/masturbation, or as performed by a sexual partner on a male as part of normal, non-fetishistic sexual intercourse, in which case the purpose is predominantly the enhancement of sexual pleasure in the male - stimulation of the prostate and anus in itself, tends to increase the intensity of male ejaculation and orgasm; additionally, massaging the prostate tends to increase the volume of fluid that is accumulated in the prostate prior to ejaculation, thus increasing the volume of ejaculation and the pleasure that is associated with ejaculation.

A second, alternative type of prostate massage, also referred to as "prostate milking", predominantly refers to the sexual practice, common within the BDSM community, of relieving the buildup of seminal fluids within the prostate, by discharging the fluid through massage, without the male experiencing orgasm. Prostate milking is commonly practised by/upon participants of a sexual fetish known as erotic sexual denial that involves abstention from orgasm and ejaculation for considerable periods of time (often many weeks or months). In such cases, the purpose of the massage is to temporarily reduce the level of sexual arousal in the male recipient by prompting the release of the prostatic fluid that was accumulated during the period of time in which the male had not ejaculated.

The term "milking the mouse" appears to carry a more specialized erotic meaning as compared to the general term of "prostate massage", because it specifically invokes a fetishism of the male seminal fluids (i.e. to "milk"); and as such, the term "prostate milking" is seldom used, if at all, outside of the communities which are involved in the sexual fetishes in question. When referring to stimulation of the prostate under more conventional circumstances (i.e., enhancement of the immediate orgasm as part of normal sex), the more general term "prostate massage" would probably be more appropriate. In the BDSM realm, the term "sissy milking" also refers specifically to prostate milking, as part of feminization, where 'feminized' males are popularly called "sissies" by others who share the fetish.

Risks
Even a non-invasive prostate massage may carry a risk, which is increased if the massage is "vigorous". Bacteria or cancer cells may be liberated and spread through the blood stream; prostatic calculi if present, may tear delicate membranes within the prostate, an internal massage may result in perforation of bowel and/or contamination; it may cause a hemorrhoid flare up.

Toys
The shape of a prostate massager is similar to a finger, since prostate massages are traditionally given digitally. They usually have a slightly curved head to effectively massage the prostate. Lubricant is usually inserted into the anus. A prostate massager should be used with care because of the sensitivity of the prostate. Correct use involves a medium to light repetitive massage, or circular motion—the tool is not intended for use in a thrusting manner.

Steps
Prostate milking is also referred to as prostate massage. It is a fairly simple procedure and you can do it yourself if you want to. Here are the steps to take in milking the prostate on your own:

1. Perform urination or a bowel movement in order to maximize the relaxation of the area.

2. Make sure that your fingernails are trimmed and have no jagged edges jutting out.

3. Clean your body and your hands thoroughly. Then put on a sterile latex glove on your hand. Dab a little water-based lubricant on your fingers.

4. Carefully insert your finger or fingers into your anus. Move them gradually upwards and to the back, along the area of the rectum towards the front of your body. Your fingers should be moving in roughly the direction of your navel.

5. You will feel the prostate gland, which is like a small, round bulb about the size of a large walnut. Gently massage it with a light waving motion along its sides, taking care not to press hard on the central area, where the sensitive nerves are located. Avoid touching the prostate gland with your fingernails.

6. You may experience a disconcerting sensation that makes you feel like going to the bathroom although you do not have to. Try not to let it affect you, and continue with the procedure.

7. After a few minutes, the prostate gland may be stimulated enough for ejaculation to occur. You are also likely to experience sexual pleasure or orgasm. However, the procedure does not always successfully bring about ejaculation.

Prostate milking when used as a preventative treatment may carry a few risks. It is a technique that is not recommended for men who have a disease of the prostate or acute prostatitis, an acute inflammation of the glandular tissue. The problem in such cases is that the act of milking the prostate may cause the infection to spread to other areas of the body.

Anymore questions????


PhEx
 TDahlia
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 6/24/2009 5:11:08 PM
watch the movie road trip...that will show you....lol...
 Fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 7
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Posted: 6/24/2009 7:09:44 PM
So umm..... would the milk be chocolate??

I am just asking
 Zebra Circle
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 8
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Posted: 6/24/2009 7:39:55 PM

She wants to put her finger up your butt and give you the most mind-blowing orgasm a man can have! Don't knock it 'til ya try it hon'...

A man's prostate is comparable to a woman's gspot.... relax and enjoy!

This woman is telling the absolute TRUTH!

Ideally, you should clean out your poop shoot a bit beforehand; otherwise, she's going to pull out some of your excrement on her finger(s). But often times, sex isn't always clean.

Seriously, though -- done properly, you will be blown away by the orgasm!
 miss_contemplative
Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2009 8:06:34 PM
A woman sticks her finger into your anus and massages the anterior wall in a certain spot. It produces intense orgasms in some men.

The original use of the term "milking the prostate" was a medical term they would perform during rectal examinations in men who had problems with their prostate glands. However, if a man has bacterial infection of the prostate, milking him can actually be dangerous.

So just make sure your plumbing is all good before you do that.
 Mustang065
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 6/24/2009 8:19:56 PM

I had a lady ask me if she could try milking my prostate, I wasent really sure what that meant...... ladies can anyone tell me what that is? give me some explination? thanks soo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Seems hard to believe that some lady asked you if she could "try milking" your prostate, and it was just left at that. I certainly didn't know what it meant until reading this POST, but I can not imagine, under any circumstance, where someone asked me if they could milk my prostrate, and I not learn then and there WTF they were talking about.
 Oceanview111
Joined: 5/5/2008
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/24/2009 8:23:47 PM
Mustang; you nailed it! LOL now i have to wonder OP; having second thoughts? Too Funny!
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2009 9:07:41 PM
The feeling for MOST guys is comparable to the last 5 to 10 seconds before an orgasm. It isn't quite as good as the actual orgasm but ya knowzitz RIGHT THERE and then the orgasm hits. OK THAT feeling right before you ejaculate is what it feels like and it is the closest thing to what a lover CAN do to or for a woman by stimulating her GSPOT.

Don't get confused though. The Prostate is a GLAND. The Gspot (and Aspot) is an area of vaso-congestive tissue that when stimulated properly (fairly roughly compared with how you touch a clit) will engorge and eventually trigger as many orgasms as she can handle. The prostate when rubbed GENTLY through the rectal wall will produce the pre-orgasm feeling for a long time. The prostate will s l o w l y eject rather copious amounts of seminal fluid but there is NO WAY it will produce the number or the intensity of a series of massive GSpot orgasms. We just ain't wired like that. It's as CLOSE to returning the favor but it's still a looooog way off what your body's are capable of when it comes to cuming.

Strict hygiene protocols should be used. WASH WASH WASH afterward. Some women will want to use rubber gloves. The adventuresses will not but make sure that finger doesn't go anywhere afterward but under soap and water. Clip or file finger nails. I shouldn't have to explain what a ripped rectal wall will do to a dudes' guts and lifespan. She should be GENTLE. Get feed-back. The guy will be able to tell her EXACTLY when she is pushing against it through the rectal wall and it is simple to find. It feels like a squishy walnut on the other side of the rectal wall so your partner in sticking a finger all the way up your butt and pushing or rubbing GENTLY toward your erection ... so push back TO front - toward his front.

Once the prostate knows it is being rubbed the sensation of pre cum will build. It's a great feeling. It can happen quickly with a BJ or HJ and even with intercourse if she is riding REVERSE cowgirl and reaching down between your legs. She can trigger a HUGE orgasm ... OR ... she can play in there and take her time with an agonizingly SLOW blowjob. You will produce a TON (hard to believe how much sometimes) of seminal fluid and pre-cum (clear) and when you do reach orgasm or when she figures she's tortured you long enough and increases the intensity so you do begin to have a regular orgasm the sensation will blow your socks off. If she keeps sucking it will feel like she's sucking your SPINE out too. Awesome. This will likely be a HUGE turn on for her but she has to remember that just like post G-Spot orgasm with HER it will take you several minutes to return to breathing , thinking or being able to talk normally. Yup. It CAN be THAT good. Again ... heaven only knows why more people don't know about this. GSPOT stimulation and Prostate massage SHOULD be taught in schools. As it is only a few know about it and even fewer are willing to give it a try - men because they're scared of turning gay or some such nonsense and women due to hygiene concerns. If the couple is up for a FUN time and willing to explore this "procedure" cums HIGHLY recommended.

This is a GREAT link to more info.

Milking Thread
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
For HIM.

GSPOT THREAD
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
for HER
 jeanette30
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/24/2009 8:20:11 AM
when i did massage it was asked a lot of times to do it you not to have lots of lube and be slow can be very sexy
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 7/24/2009 8:27:12 AM
If a woman knows what she's doing it can be incredible! I had one gal massage my prostate,and I'm pretty sure people in the next province heard my scream when I came.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/24/2009 11:18:15 AM
Think i'd rather have her churning my butter...



 NerdStatus
Joined: 1/9/2007
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Posted: 7/24/2009 11:25:52 AM
Why are you so uncomfortable with your partner that you couldn't just ask her what it meant?
 titaniumbrella
Joined: 3/2/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2009 6:12:55 PM
Oh hell no...

messages this short CAN TOO be posted! =P
 Connor-19
Joined: 1/27/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2009 6:17:03 PM
Seems hard to believe that some lady asked you if she could "try milking" your prostate, and it was just left at that. I certainly didn't know what it meant until reading this POST, but I can not imagine, under any circumstance, where someone asked me if they could milk my prostrate, and I not learn then and there WTF they were talking about.


Obviously he said he would think about it and then "went down to make a cup of coffee" and instead he's here asking us quickly...

instead of googling it...

edit: And fyi: I don't care HOW good it might possible feel no one is putting anything up there.

Well ok if a gay guy rapes me I might not have a choice...
 SteveBCali
Joined: 8/8/2005
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Posted: 7/24/2009 7:21:25 PM
I am laughing so hard i am crying. Milking the Prostate would be great if i didn't read the posted explanation. Jesus, you might get off, but you might also release cancer cells into your body. WTF.. Clamp down boy shes trying to kill you.
 big22blue
Joined: 1/13/2007
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Posted: 7/24/2009 7:40:50 PM
mystical you're right, done properly in the right setting, there is nothing stronger than a girl giving you head with her finger in your ass rubbing that spot in side . there is no way to lay still and not scream. and once you've cum with a little more action, she can have you hard as a rock in moments.
 jus chris
Joined: 3/20/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2009 7:50:27 PM
that aint the best!
 Fred Bauder
Joined: 7/18/2009
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Posted: 7/25/2009 7:17:10 PM

is it best if I have not had an orgasm in a few days and let the cum build up?


Always best, no matter how you are being stimulated.
 nakhia
Joined: 7/13/2009
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Posted: 7/25/2009 7:47:48 PM
Too funny, clamp down she is trying to kill you.
 *MisKa*
Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 7/25/2009 7:51:09 PM

when i did massage it was asked a lot of times to do it you not to have lots of lube and be slow can be very sexy


jeanette, just what kinda massage were you doing? Because I will never by a massage package for a b/f again if that is an all inclusive part of it.
 mezza-luna
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/25/2009 8:38:34 PM

So umm..... would the milk be chocolate??

I am just asking


^^^ OMG... I can't stop laughing...good question
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