If you met a mom who had 6 children... Would you consider dating her? Or Would you stay away?

Just wondering why does having 6 children make you think her body is out of shape? cant mothers work out and take care of themselves?

After the whole process of pregnancy and childbirth, women tend to put a lot of weight. The reason for getting fat could range from genetics, hormone fluctuations to excess intake of calories than required for the baby and mother.

Soon after childbirth, women cannot hit the gym in any case. It takes 6-8 weeks to start simple exercises. Women's body takes about 2 months or probably more to completely heal after the birthing process.

An exercise regime after child birth has to be started mildly. Added to it, some women may have complications in pregnancy which would force them to take complete rest during pregnancy. Months of inactivity would contribute to weight gain in pregnancy.

Looking after the baby would keep new mothers occupied all the time that they would hardly have any time to care for themselves. Outdoor exercise would be something close to impossible if there is no one else to look after the baby. Looking after the baby the whole day would be extremely tiring that the mother would catch up sleep whenever she finds time. All of these contributes to gaining weight after being a mother.

For new mothers getting a good night's sleep would be difficult. Lack of proper sleep contributes to postpartum weight gain according to recent studies.. New mothers who slept less that five hours every night has a threefold higher risk for substantial weight retention. Lack of proper sleep has also been associated with weight gain even in general population.

Disorders of thyroid like hypothyroidism occurs in some women in pregnancy. Some medications for thyroid disorders are unsafe in pregnancy and hypothyroidism causes weight gain. Even with medications, there would be very slow weight loss later.

With children, more and more foods enter our shopping list. Children would force parents to buy a lot of food stuffs. After a while, they are tired of eating and the mother has to end up eating all of these foods with out wasting. This is a major contributing factor for weight gain among mothers. So the mother just starts eating to finish the left over foods after every meal. This causes more intake of calories than that required for the mother.

Reference: http://www.helium.com/items/39062-why-do-moms-get-fat

What makes up think they are lose down there? {so Not true}

and what Makes you think she cant find Time for a Man? She found time to have sex to have 6 children

..and what makes you think a Mom would want you as a Father Figure when they children have a father? I know a women wants a Positive Male Roll Model in their childrens life but wow if a man thinks like that who would want you as a Father Figure OR a Male Figure...I know I would pass..No Offense

The lose assumption come from the fact she has passed 6 children through her vagina. Each probably weighing around 7 pounds.......... I don't know of a man alive with a penis that could come close to comparing to that. If she isn't, it would take some sort of surgical procedure.

You are obviously very ignorant. Let me guess, you're 19-20? The woman's body is an amazing piece of work and has the ability to return to normal within a few weeks after birth. Do you have some idea in your head that there's a gaping hole left over after each child? Seriously, I work in obstetrics and you would be amazed at the transformation from immediately post birth to 6 weeks postpartum. You also probably think that if a woman can push a baby out in 2 minutes flat, then she had a large vagina to begin with? Wrong again, in fact the stronger you're vaginal muscles are, the faster you will deliver a child... Please stop making ridiculous comments on a subject you obviously know nothing about...

You are obviously very ignorant. Let me guess, you're 19-20? The woman's body is an amazing piece of work and has the ability to return to normal within a few weeks after birth. Do you have some idea in your head that there's a gaping hole left over after each child? Seriously, I work in obstetrics and you would be amazed at the transformation from immediately post birth to 6 weeks postpartum. You also probably think that if a woman can push a baby out in 2 minutes flat, then she had a large vagina to begin with? Wrong again, in fact the stronger you're vaginal muscles are, the faster you will deliver a child... Please stop making ridiculous comments on a subject you obviously know nothing about...

If she isn't, it would take some sort of surgical procedure.