Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Dominatrix      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 farscapeprincess
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 1
view profile
History
DominatrixPage 1 of 2    (1, 2)
I was watching something on TV and wanted to know your opinion of someone who worked as a dominatrix. Although, it's in the "sex" industry, supposedly there is no actual sex involved. Would you date or have a relationship with that person knowing what she does for a living? From what I saw, the people on the show more or less didn't like what that woman did for a living and said she should do something else to support her kids. Now, if we were talking about prostitution in the sense that we know it or being an escort, I can see the attitude because it's the selling of one's body.

A long time ago, I met someone who asked if I would think about doing a dominatrix video. (And here I thought the guy had a mainstream video company
). He tried to convince me by promoting it that I wouldn't have to take my clothes off. Needless to say, that's not my scene.
Dominatrix
Posted: 6/25/2009 2:08:16 PM
I would be a dominatrix. *grins*
 Severin78
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 3
Dominatrix
Posted: 6/25/2009 2:12:30 PM
Doesn't bother me in the slightest, but in fact turns me on a great deal. While I'm not at all in BD/SM, I am into vice in general, hehe.

The real question is- how would you meet someone like that without visiting their work? I highly doubt a professional dominatrix would have use for a dating site- I'm sure she would have zero issue meeting people at work.
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 4
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 1:25:12 AM
i have been in a relationship with a woman that was a professional dominatrix.she was open and honest about what she did with me and i had no problem with it.we even incorporated some of these things in our relationship.under the same circumstances i would not have a problem being in a relationship like this in the future.our finances were in good condition because of her profession.we had an exciting sex life as well.
 whatevs_meh
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 5
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 4:51:06 AM
"I'm not a dominatrix, but I play one on tv"
It sounds like it may have been a gig for this woman to make a living, it's just a role she's playing. I don't think I'd have a problem with it if that was the case.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 6
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 7:01:33 AM
I would have no problem with it....as long as she doesn't bring her work home with her!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 7
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 10:38:23 AM

Now, if we were talking about prostitution in the sense that we know it or being an escort, I can see the attitude because it's the selling of one's body.


ok let me ask you this ..what is it about any respectable work is not selling your body ...
just saying ...I have worked in the maintainance industry for years ...and worked under the harshest conditions ...I knot only have rented my body I have sold my health as well as risk my life

at least with a prostitute they provided they don't catch any disease... are none worse for the wear after turning a trick AKA selling their body

so to answer your question ..a professional Dominatrix is just as respectable profession if not more so that the rest of us who sell ourselves every day ...and that includes a prostitute ...In My oppinion

why not trust someone in this position ? I work every day with co workers and clients alike that would shag me at the drop of a hat ..pretty much anyone who wants to can get laid ..morals have little to do with our profession ... actually Me would think there are more taboos about becoming involved with a client in that profession than there are in most business offices ..just saying
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 8
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 1:42:41 PM
~OT~ I think the Pro-Domme movement is laughable. But then again, I take that side of life much more seriously than many do. Much like Pro-Doms. But many find value in it, so kudos to them. I'd not want anything to do with either "type" of person. That doesn't devalue what others find value in. JMO
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 9
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/21/2011 2:32:49 PM
Shoot.. To get to dress up, not have to have sex, get paid AND punish men..... SIGN ME UP
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 10
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/22/2011 8:56:58 AM

Shoot.. To get to dress up, not have to have sex, get paid AND punish men..... SIGN ME UP


Heck it’s a public service! There ought to be tax breaks.

Is there a market for Dominatrixors?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 11
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/22/2011 9:55:11 AM

Shoot.. To get to dress up, not have to have sex, get paid AND punish men....



Is there a market for Dominatrixors?


Well, from some of the responses here, it seems there is a "market", but it's more oversupplied than the current bank inventory of foreclosed houses. There's always room for one more, I suppose, but you want paid? Lol. Lotsa luck making yourself out to be uniquely qualified and different from all the others.




J/k!!! Lol
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 12
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/22/2011 7:09:12 PM

Although, it's in the "sex" industry, supposedly there is no actual sex involved. Would you date or have a relationship with that person knowing what she does for a living?

I used to hang out with a woman who was a Dominatrix... To see her outside of her role, you would never know what she did... She looked like the classic girl next door...
The other side of her was all leather, whips dildos etc... and yes, she did have sex with her clients....
 ALMOSTABLONDE
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 13
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/23/2011 9:38:03 AM
there are fewer female dommes out there than male doms & I imagine a good female domme could rake in $$ w/o sex...after all she is in control if she is a true domme

DID I SAY YOU COULD LOOK AT ME?!!!!! NOW HOLD YOUR BREATH TILL I SAY YOU CAN BREATHE...AND DON'T TRY TO TOP FROM THE BOTTOM
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 14
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/23/2011 10:54:42 AM
LMAO..

this thread is freaken hilarious!!!

as if we have nothing better to do then judge others lifestyles

 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 15
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/23/2011 11:22:33 AM
^^^^ Some judge and others judge the judges!


FWIW I see no judging going on...YET! The morality and STD police don't usually show up until page 3!
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 16
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/23/2011 6:40:53 PM
STD police? well what can they say here, this area is where the most rubber is used! haha.

The Morality police?.... well the first question from me is what are they doin' noodling around these forums.....double haha.

for male doms - actually there are plenty of opportunities if
1. you are well connected
2. are willing to take on male clients
3. can stand being in the room with a republican.....Hell! I'd beat his livin daylights for free, It wont take long.....a swift kick in the goolies.

( last point I think is a joke)


the gay community has a strong SMBD scene.

I met a true real-life gimp once!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 17
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/24/2011 2:38:42 AM
^^^^ Your Republican is right here!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 18
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/24/2011 6:08:14 AM
^^^^^^^ Then, given your party's enthusiasm for decreeing what women can and cannot do with their own bodies, we should all defer to your positions on this thread subject. I just hope your Party's efforts to use the same SM techniques in fiscal policies to bind, master and ultimately undo the middle and lower ecomonic classes is not so appealing to the vast majority of voters, who actually do have the power to "judge the judges".
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 19
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/24/2011 5:47:05 PM
Hey now Im a Dom Republican what do you have to say to that?
Im dying to hear this...

(Im only Dom in the bedroom with a partner I enjoy)
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 20
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/24/2011 6:49:08 PM
Well whytwater....the party doesn't care what a woman does with her body....only that taxpayers shouldn't be footing the bill for her choices.

Of course there are some that want to poke their noses into peoples lived...which I'm against.
The other party primarily believes in Socialism....so....

And look at how YOUR guy has given even mire money to his big banking buddies, INCREASED troop levels in IRAQ and is picking a fight with Libya...
 diamoi
Joined: 10/5/2010
Msg: 21
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/25/2011 2:58:41 AM
Can't say I would want someone to be calling me a piece of sh1t while being kicked in the balls with size 9 stillettos but some of it is appealing also. I suppose it is the dominatrix discression if she has sex or not.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 22
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/25/2011 4:36:31 AM
There are many types of Doms on the planet~ not all are into pain unless their partners are~ its more of a control thing; obedience at its finest.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 23
view profile
History
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/25/2011 7:28:24 AM
I still think republicans are funny

when it comes to dirt digging theres a lot on the republicans shoes.

Republicans also tend to "shelter" the far right and the christian extremists that blow up abortion clinics and kill their staff.

But I'm sure they make up for it by visiting a good dominatrix who offers cathartic salvation by infliction of discipline and pain. Its good for them, they like it, so ok why not?

Finding "professional" dominatrix is not that difficult.

Finding one for a 24/7 relationship maybe a different "kettle of fish".
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 24
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/25/2011 7:47:59 AM

the party doesn't care what a woman does with her body....only that taxpayers shouldn't be footing the bill for her choices.
Of course there are some that want to poke their noses into peoples lived...which I'm against.
The other party primarily believes in Socialism....so....
And look at how YOUR guy has given even mire money to his big banking buddies, INCREASED troop levels in IRAQ and is picking a fight with Libya...


Awwwww, you watch what Fox calls "News", dontchya? It's just a launch pad for repub wannabe presidents, taking that Sharon Angle approach to news, where she composes the questions that "investigative" reporters can ask her, and then, of course, she gives her pre-formed answer, a script, and "reality" never gets to the viewers. Socialism? sheeesh! Big banking buddies? Bush and the repubs started TARP before Obama was president- it was the right thing to do til Obama was in charge. How come all the repubs voted in unison against Obama's sweeping legislation to impose some controls on big banks, and create a consumer protection committee, headed by Liz Warren, after McConnell spent the ten days immediately preceding the Congressional vote shacked up with the targeted big banks and Wall Street, and then could only stammer a non-response when Obama called him out on that publicly?


I still think republicans are funny


Ludicrous, fer shur. Laughable in that way, def'ly. But I can only be entertained for about 1 minute by watching all the angelfish in the tank point in one direction, and even turn in unison. Lol
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 25
Dominatrix
Posted: 4/25/2011 3:22:58 PM

Bush and the repubs started TARP before Obama was president- it was the right thing to do til Obama was in charge.


It was very much the WRONG thing to do....unlike your ilk "WE" don't all just follow the heard! ...pun intended!

Turn it around: You all wanted US out of Iraq....now the troop levels are increased but that's okay right? Oh and he's getting us into another entanglement!


He wants to take even more of our money and then tell us how we spent what little we have left....Mandatory Health Scare!


As far as news goes....If I do watch the news, yes, FOX is the closest thing there is to balanced.... has any other station shown the hypocrisy of Al Gore or your false god Michael Moore?


But if you want to get nailed on this subjuct you should start a thread instead of throwing out barbs in a hijacked thread!

As for the OP's OT..... Giggity!
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Dominatrix