| | I wear my sunglasses at night...Page 1 of 1 | ... cause I can't seem to find a right guy.... lol nahh really though :)
I would like some feedback on how to attract the "right" kind of men that I would like to go on a second date with... I go on many first dates and rarely do I want to go on a second date.
Thanks and good luck :) | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:28:27 PM | the boring nice guys you would go on a second date with, are the ones you aren't attracted to. such is the odds in life.  | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:29:33 PM | | Can I suggest you expand your profile a bit? I would suggest 3 short paragraphs that tell about you, what you like to do and the kind of person you'd like to meet. I would also add some interests. You might want to also think about using a primary picture that's not, well, leaning. | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:32:55 PM | | yeah, you need some interests too in that section. Also, you need to say in your about me that you are moving to Chicago. then it will be perfect! | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:34:14 PM | | Hmmm....fill out your interests, give a guy a reason to contact you besides the obvious attractive photo's that you have up. If I wanted to send you a message, I would not know where to start or if we had anything in common or not. Once you find common ground with a guy, I think your chances for a second date will go up dramaticly. As for finding the right guy? I wish I knew, just takes time. | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:39:56 PM | I don't have a problem getting a date or a second or a third it's the part that I don't want to continue dating the guys that I have had that first date with. I will expand my interests section and put a less "sideways" pic up lol thanks for the comments :)
and yeahh I will get right on moving to Chicago lol | |
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| I wear my sunglasses at night... Posted: 6/25/2009 10:46:59 PM | Hey Desi
I agree you need to post a photo that is no leaning. I dont think anyone wants to tilt their head or in my case my laptop to see what you look like standing straight up.
As far as a "right guy" thats a very general term. Right means something different everyone.
More than anything I would focus on meeting men who share the same interests as you. You Mr.Right just might find you. | |
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