| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/26/2009 4:09:56 PM | I got out of a really bad relationship about 8 months ago, I went out to da club with a girlfriend n got really tipsy....Called a guy i had be chatthing on line. end up at his place for wat I thought was gonna be a one night stand to make me feel better about my break up. Da sex was sooooo good I kept going back for more, but remining him not to fall in love or catch feeling cuz im hurting from my break up n just need a rebound to help me cope with my loss.
Well.... we became great friends to my suprise, he end up being a really cool guy that i can talk to about anything and everything, plus he keeps me laughing all da time. And, holds his cool even when i get mad at him at time n fuss him out. Its been 8 months now n da sex is still da best I ever had. But now its diffrent he takes his time n kisses me n makes love to me. No I think im ready to date again, so i been out on a few dates, we are very open with each other so I would tell him about da other guys n even if I had sex with them and everything n he would do da same about other women he deals with. We both agreed that was were each others favorite lovers. Well, we got in trouble and was arrested for 2 weeks, I thought he got to busy to answer my calls and I became very upset when I didnt hear from him, so I just stop by his place one night after I left da club, thinging I was gonna go n get sum from him. That's when his friend informed me that he been in jail lock up. I was so mad because I knew it had to be sumthing real stupid he did to get arrested plus I know he is a good kid. But, at da same time i missed him so much I couldn't even sleep thing about how much I just missed him and wanted to see him so bad. Then, it hit me so hard I lost my breath for a min.......I think Im in love with him OMG! when did this happen wat should I do.
Any 2 days later he called me n told me he just got back home, I drop everything I was doing n drove to his house breaking every speed limit cuz I just couldn't wait to c him. When I got to his place we made out so hard he had me up hold da wall n had his tongue all down my mouth (lol... so was minds in his). After about ten mins of our passinate kiss we stop n he told me wat happen as he smoke a blunt. After he updated me on all da drama i had missed from da last time we saw each other. We when to da bed room n got it on n poppin I put it on his ass (LMOA....)
I want to be with him, I want him all to my self. He is my bestfriend, and best lover. But I treated like a rebound all dis time dont know if he can take me on 4 real.
I tried to talk to him about it, and he said his flattered but since we so cool he dont know if we can make da trasition...... I was like WAT...... R U KIDDING ME DAMN!
Wat should I do now, when we together we have a great time da sex is now really passinate but y is he not jumpin ready 2 be my man I need sum good n real advice ppl help out.....   | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/26/2009 4:57:32 PM | You need to make a decision. How badly do you want to be his gf? Enough to leave him for it? He has no reason to make you his gf - he has everything he wants! He's getting sex, you care about him, he has no strings. Why would he want to change that?? If you want him to take you seriously, you have to BE serious. You have to stop sleeping with him and MEAN it. No one night stands, no "drunken mistakes", just go.
But... are you sure you want to be with this guy? He has been to jail... he does drugs... he is clearly not treating you like his one and only...
Be careful what you wish for.  | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 12:27:53 AM | | Here is my suggestion. Keep yourself protected and hump his brains out while looking for Mr. Right not Mr. Right now. He will keep your self esteem up, but dont do anything that will last. Like have a kid with this guy. Have fun, enjoy the self esteem boost that the sex will bring and come to terms that...lol...yup Im gonna say it. He's just not that into you passed ear poppin whoopee. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 12:28:17 AM | Lemme see here,
Its been 8 months now n da sex is still da best I ever had
I would tell him about da other guys n even if I had sex with them and everything n he would do da same
one night after I left da club, thinging I was gonna go n get sum from him. That's when his friend informed me that he been in jail lock up.
So I see in your profile you're 23 and supposed to be a nurse, so would I be correct in assuming you have spent some time in school, maybe even college? If so you still talk like dis? OK, this isn't your cell phone and you don't need to talk in text speak, but to respond to your question I'd venture to say if it wasn't your lame talking, assuming you talk like you write, then I'd have to say you were a booty call and he got his wick wet and has moved on, sorry, but dat iz how it goz.  | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:44:26 AM | it is not impossible - I spent 4 years with a man who was supposed to have just been a 1 night stand.
However - I would question the intelegence of persuing a real relationship with someone allready known to have trouble with the law. what happens if one day you're living together, perhaps pregnant or with a young child with you depending on him financially and he gets locked up longer?
I'm not going to pick on your grammar/spelling becuase it's allready been done, but MAN does that make it hard to read! | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:31:32 AM | Soulmate? Sure if you really believe your soulmate is meant to be a drug taking jail bird player that uses you for a booty call.
You KNOW you deserve better than this man, but hell enjoy the sex while it lasts. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 7:55:03 AM | wow...OP...your post was difficult to read. I looked at your profile...you're a nurse with a graduate degree?
As for the guy...if you're into this guy that does drugs and goes to jail ...well why not?
I'm wondering how many baby's mommas he has. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 7:59:41 AM | | misscutie 85 i dont believe he your soulmate if he was you all would be on the same page to me it sound like you are just a booty call to him so why he want to change things it the best sex you had so keep getting it while you look for the right man for you good luck | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:20:37 AM | You should ask yourself if the reason you are atracted to him is because of his bad side. You stated that when you found out he was in jail you felt as if you was in love with him. If that is the case you need to really take sometime out and evaluate your thinking process(If I was you)..Just say no to bad men!
You list that you have children in your profile if he is irresponsible and getting himself in trouble for something stupid. That should definitely be a person that you dont want around your children. I would also look at the fact that maybe he was not in jail all that glitters is not gold. He could of spent 2 weeks with another woman and told you that knowing you would buy it and give sympathy. Which you did and that is something else you might want to think about.
I mean wouldnt you rather marry or date a cleaning man or even a store clerk! Sure they might not have all that hot sex going on or smoke weed, but maybe it would be a hell lot more stable for you and your children. 
I think you need to really ask yourself do you want to end up on Maury, or what adding a man like this in my life might do to complicate it. DO not just always consider the immediate satisfaction. If you really are a nurse and have done that well for yourself to have a Graduate degree with children. I think you are a person of great drive but please use that same kind of drive to select a stable mate!
However, if you still feel that he is the right man for you. I would call him and tell him that you would like to speak with him. When you meet up I would say everything that you have said here. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:48:08 AM | i forgot dis is not a black site u white people cant understand me. my bad next time i will write u a nice research paper with perfect grammer  | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:36:55 PM |
It's not a "black" thing. It's a uneducated thing. Which you seem to be! Congrats. 
Hahaha.. Davie is a little hood. But im sure she went to the local community collage. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:01:12 PM | | He's right...why bring race into something as simple as she is speaking in gibberish and not in plain English. Take it from me I am studying to be a teacher after all it is simply uneducated XD | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:47:04 PM | If good sex + a criminal makes you happy ....
Good for you. Sounds completely insane, but if you're into drama, it sounds like you'll be happy. | |
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| my one night stand might be my soulmate???
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:13:19 AM | | It's a black thing? Do you think us white girls don't know the description of a douchebag when we see one? You can say it in English, Spanish, Ebonics or Cantonese he sounds like a loser in any language or dialect. | |
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