| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:04:44 PM | I started emailing this guy on pof. He sent an email saying he is better at talking than emailing. I gave him my cell, he called the first day and we talked for the first time for over 2 hrs. Then we talked later that night which all together it was over 6 hrs that first day. We began talking about every night and the conversations just flowed.
Then he disappearing no calls or texts for about a wek after two weeks of talking. I suddenly get a text a week later saying he fried the charger and cell and could not get a hold of me because he did not have my number anywhere but stored in the phone.
Then we talked regularly again for a week and then for 3 days and he stated he had decided to go to south carolina sponantaneously for business. This was all supposed to be part of him making the money and time to come and meet me. after a month and a half of talking .
We talked for like 4 nights ( keep in mind our chats usually lasted 3 to 4 hrs a night if not more). Then he disappears again and says a few days later his dad , mom and brother all had health problems . That night he does not call like he is supposed to and i hear from him the next night. By this time i was getting frustrated and about to give up when he says i must be talking to other guys and says he wants a serious relationship with someone. We talk for hours. Two days later i sent a text and supposedly his mom answers and states he went out of town and wont be back for week and forgot his phone. | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:11:16 PM | | It sounds really fishy like he is dodging you to see how long you'll follow his game...try dodging him for a while show him he's not the only clever one! If all goes well and he comes around then he is for real otherwise it is just a game to him and you should cut him loose. | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:38:12 PM | | My opinion is if you want a relationship it only takes 5 mins to send a text or say you are ok or how are you.......as a way of saying hey i thought of you and that is why i am having doubts . Am i wrong?? | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:46:38 PM | His Mom answered his phone? Wow.
I wouldn't take him seriously. But I don't spend hours on the phone with someone I haven't met yet. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2009 7:14:40 PM | | Interesting how he accuses you of talking to other men when he is the one playing the dodging game. Projecting much? he sounds like a joker who's more than happy to waste your time. | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:25:45 PM | | he accused me of being a game player. Said he was busy and because i was not the center of attention i could not handle it | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 7:29:26 PM | I started emailing this guy on pof.
I suddenly get a text a week later saying he fried the charger and cell and could not get a hold of me because he did not have my number anywhere but stored in the phone.
So he obviously had access to email - he couldn't email you, tell you that his phone charger died and ask for your number to call from a different phone?
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Posted: 6/28/2009 9:22:24 PM | I believe his phone died.. He had no access to your number.
Lets say he ONLY emails through his phone. Hes poor and lives
at home with his parents! They have no computer. So that all
makes since..
Do he live in the same town? Or outdistance deal?
Im a honest blunt guy. Im a hang jury. But im not
seeing lies. Until you give me something better,
im going to go with... undecided.
dad , mom and brother all had health problems
I take it this is his whole family and hes the ONLY one thats good?
Only thing i dont like about it..
Two days later i sent a text and supposedly his mom answers and states he went out of town and wont be back for week and forgot his phone.
Hold up.. Mom texted you back telling you this? lol
I never knew a mom that would do that... But ya never know.. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2009 10:41:27 PM | | No he lives 6 hrs away. He is supposed to be a self employed type guy who always throws it in their that he has money but has a very small house and no internet......goes to his buddies. He claims to be cheap. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2009 10:49:56 PM | I had a friend who had a guy who did this; she found out from his cousin he, well, to say the guy was a few fishes short of a loaf was not an understatement.
When you start having radar go off in your gut, and when it continues to go off; when rational explanations start to get stretched, when you have someone blow hot then disappear, explain, blow hot, disappear,
well, please be very careful.. but then I'm guessing from your post that you already kind of know that.
Best of luck | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/28/2009 10:59:14 PM | If he really Truly wants to be with you.....seriously...as you say he puts it. He'll MAKE time to get in contact with you. Any way possible. Even a quick jotted down email.
Man's cell phone is like his arm or soul. It's attatched to him. Unless he's in the pool, or pumping gas, he's got it on, attached or very near by him.
Truthfully speaking, only You two know how wonderful and truthful it is. You seem like a smart, beautiful and successful person.
Who needs reminded of it, Him or You?
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:11:41 AM | Then he disappearing no calls or texts for about a wek after two weeks of talking. I suddenly get a text a week later saying he fried the charger and cell and could not get a hold of me because he did not have my number anywhere but stored in the phone.
As someone else clearly pointed out, you originally got in contact via email/POF. Just because his battery "got fried," he'd like you to believe that it was IMPOSSIBLE for him to contact you? Surely, if he REALLY wanted to, he could have looked at his cell phone bill and FOUND your number on it. Or he could have contacted you again via email/POF.
This guy is such a blatant liar that he wouldn't know honesty if it were shoved up his ass with a shoe horn. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:36:54 AM | op lets do the math...
(1) he lives at home
(2) he has started to make accusations already
(3) he disappears for weeks and comes back with half backed excuses
(4) he claims to be cheep
now i ask you if you look at the facts you gave us to play with.... how would you vote..
(a) run lady run....this does not sound like fun
(b) stay lady stay....he may be lame but you gots nothing else | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 4:48:53 AM | HOLY REPEAT BATMAN!
Dump him AND his stupid cell phone. There's a woman above you who asked if she were crazy cause some asshat stood her up 4 damn times. HIS excuses were the ex and kids, a fire, and some other BS. SHE'S considering going out with this loser again!!!
THIS guy's family is all sick, his charger is fried (you can get a freaking charger the same/next day), then his MOTHER responds to his text message?
What do you need to decide that this guy is a dead d**k?
Ladies--please--don't accept crap. If a man cannot respect you and do what he says he's going to do or communicate to you timely/properly why are you bothering/???
If a man knows that you'll accept excuse after excuse after excuse he'll keep making them until he's ready to deal with you or he finds the one he does want to deal with.
Do ya really need a hammer on the head to know he is NOT worth your time????? | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:41:38 AM | | Oh no. No no no no no. Please don't be dumb about this, what a FAKE. There isn't a snowball's chance in hell that this guy is who he says he is. Please run away from this idiot!!! | |
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Posted: 6/29/2009 6:15:09 AM | I agree with the post directly b 4 mine! his was playing a game & that's bull. call your cell provider and block his number, if & when he e-mails you hit the SPAM button, actually thinking about it that is what he is, Something resembling meet and needs to be put in a can! don't forget there's "PLENTY OF FISH" out there just cast another line  | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 2:37:38 PM | | I see persistent phone problems as a bad sign. Not contacting you via another method to let you know is another bad sign. Various excuses springing up, unpredictable behaviour and then accusing you of being demanding or messing him about are more bad signs. I think you should be able to expect some consistency and care and not a steady stream of excuses. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 4:43:48 PM | | cmon honey he is clearly a loser, u dont want a future with him, show him u dont need him n cut ties, dont answer his calls n give him the same lame excuse, see what he will do. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 7:33:37 PM | | I would kick him to the curb. Way too many guys who are serious and don't play this game to stay with someone like this. Sounds like he is going all over meeting women to me just as a guess. Who needs that kind of aggravation? He is unreliable and that's my number one two and three requirements for a man--being reliable and available. | |
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| Should i take this guy serious
Posted: 7/1/2009 9:15:24 PM | | One more case of the disappearing fishie! Don't lose any sleep over this, he's not, its a phone relationship nothing more. | |
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