| Need some help. Posted: 6/30/2009 6:18:50 PM | | I'm not getting any messages or replies. I know a lot of women are probably turned off by the fact that I don't drink and that I'm a vegetarian, but even so, I would expect to do a little better than I'm doing now. What is wrong with my profile? I was trying to go for something humorous and a little out of the ordinary, but evidently it didn't work. Any constructive criticism will be highly appreciated. Thanks. | |
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| Need some help. Posted: 6/30/2009 6:36:29 PM | Aside from the fact that you are too young, and too far away for me to date....I have no problems with your profile.
I don't think your problem is your vegetarian lifestyle - but you might put in whether you would give a damn or not if the girl you go out to dinner with eats meat. Because most women are carniverous man eaters....errrrm...wait, that didn't come out right.
Anywho, the only really constructive thing I have to say is that at your age you need to man up on the kids issue. Either you want them, or you don't. Because most of the women in your demographic are gonna be looking at that. | |
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| Need some help. Posted: 7/2/2009 4:06:35 PM | | I really think my age is a big problem. The fact that I don't drink and that I'm not "hip" turns off most of the twenty-somethings, and the thirty-somethings automatically write me off because I am young, thinking I'm just looking to "get some." Also my location, and the simple fact that I'm male are also huge disadvantages. Still, there has to be something I can to get some responses. | |
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| Need some help. Posted: 7/2/2009 4:10:44 PM | Picture.
Most commonly given advice is to have a nice, clear, well-lit, picture with a big toothy grin for your primary picture.
Increase the number of interests you have to 15 or so.
That's my first run. I'll try and take another one later. | |
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| Need some help. Posted: 7/2/2009 4:25:01 PM | I love your profile. You have my kind of humor!
You definitely need better photos. You don't look approachable in your primary.
I wish you much success in your search.
You must be patient. | |
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| Need some help. Posted: 7/2/2009 10:18:53 PM | It's not the don't drink/vegan thing, it's all the Prefer not to Say answers. For body style, put Average until proven otherwise. Your photos substantiate this. For the kids thing, "Undecided/Open" may be better and you can let the situation decide.
Normally, a list format doesn't work, but this is entertaining, so you get a pass.
But - I'd like to have seen a sentence or two about who you are hoping to meet.
Good luck! | |
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