| It happened again
Posted: 7/1/2009 8:03:31 PM | | Once again I went out with a women for drinks, I didn't meet her here, this was our second time going out, after the drinks she invited me to her place to watch a movie no sooner than I am sitting down and the movie starts she starts to fool around and grab my crotch, as stated before this was our second time out. I cant stand when a women just grabs me there after only a few dates. Have women lost there decency or am I just way behind the times? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:07:40 PM | Hey I was told by a "poster" to never go to a guys house unless ya want to seal the deal. Maybe it goes both ways? No double standards anymore......................you weren't wearing daisy dukes were you? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:11:09 PM | I'm a little lost on finding the right words. If a woman had posted this, I would know what to say.
But you're a grown man. So, I'm going to tell you what I would say to a woman:
"Don't go over to their place until you get to know each other better." | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:11:54 PM | Maybe it would be helpful if you discussed what your expectations are for sexual behavior. Being invited to someones home would be a perfect opening for the conversation.
a simple " I'm glad you feel comfortable inviting me into your home, just so we are clear, I am not looking for physical intimacy until we get to know each other better."
But a lot of guys are hoping a woman will grab their package on the second date so maybe you should see it as a compliment.
One more thread like this and I will call shenanigans on you. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:18:06 PM | | Why exactly do you feel the need to broadcast this? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:19:20 PM |
Once again I went out with a women for drinks, I didn't meet her here, this was our second time going out, after the drinks she invited me to her place to watch a movie no sooner than I am sitting down and the movie starts she starts to fool around and grab my crotch, as stated before this was our second time out. I cant stand when a women just grabs me there after only a few dates. Have women lost there decency or am I just way behind the times?
Easily explained.
She looked at your profile picture and just wanted to make you feel comfortable. {monkey see monkey do) | |
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Bluez
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| It happened again
Posted: 7/1/2009 8:19:21 PM | I've had this happen to me many times OP... so I can sympathize with your plight.
In many cases though, I had to admit, she paid for dinner, so I felt that I sort of owed them "a feel". It's when she looked at me with those puppy dog eyes and pouty lip that I'd had enough. As soon as I finished my champagne & strawberries, I demanded she take me home right then!
I sit at home a lot these days, but at least I know I have my dignity!
Bluez | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:19:29 PM | | I totaly understand it's an odd post and an odd question. but wtf, if i hear one more women telling me I am a great guy and I am different why spoil it with such a dumb move. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:25:01 PM | | Just like when a guy does the same to a woman, they want t see how far you will go. Now my Q for you is, did you bail? Did you stay? did you see her again? Ok 3 Q's | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:27:54 PM | | I bailed. when it comes to easy women I always bail. I certainly enjoy being with a women, but I draw the line on cheap women | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:31:19 PM | | I'm gonna tell you what I would tell a woman if she asked this. You are a grown person, stop acting coy. you went back to her house, what did you expect? You were probably wearing a low cut top and tight jeans with a bit of moose knuckle and they were cupping your ass just waiting to be grabbed. Frankly, well, you were asking for it. Freaking slattern tease! | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:32:50 PM | | maybe your animal magnetism overwhelmed her common sense?? consider switching your aftershave to old spice - i know that always turns me off. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:33:17 PM | OH BOO HOO! What I wouldnt give to have a woman grope me on the couch in the dark during a movie. (sigh) | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:37:30 PM | | the key word was watch a movie, when I invite a women to watch a movie, I mean a movie, it was a second time out for drinks. why all the bullsht about your a great guy, your different, you have your life together. and how much she sooooooooo wants a nice guy in her life routine, then act like a bimbo? 2 times out for drinks means we spent a total of 5 hours together, is that all it takes 5 hours? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:43:39 PM | Your profile says:
...If your profile tells the world how brilliant and succeful you are, I can most likely teach you a thing or two about both....
Yet you are not able to deal with some chick grabbing your junk and need 20 strangers to tell you how to deal with it.
FYI: its successful not succeful. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:44:44 PM | I've seen that movie -- "101 BJ Babes Starring: Your Date"
I wouldn't make too much of a deal about it. Some women just don't know how to flirt, how to initiate cuddling or snuggling. They expect the guy to do it, and when a guy doesn't they just fall in his lap or hit him somewhere to show that it's OK to touch her.
It's just a bummer when they hit you in the crotch -- she's just clumsy that way.
I would just say that if a woman is going to hit me, I prefer it in the face with a bare breast. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:47:12 PM | | now honestly how many times have guys posted on here that if they had to wait on a girl to decide to have sex, they would bail. So maybe you got a hold of one of the women that didn't want to lose you to soon? Next time speak up and say, hey I am one of the nice ones, lets take it slow. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:50:06 PM | tooth dude? stop? read? the question was? have women lost there decency. not how do i deal with it. and thanks for the spell check you would make a great secretary. but no daisy dukes on the job for you | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:52:16 PM | | Hey Man, you know i was raised a little old school myself, but i know the rules. if you go to some ladies house after knowing her for about 5 hours, then its obvious what she wants, and she thinks she knows what you want. Having a "life together" line is a perfect sucker punch for most. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:54:00 PM | | thats the other point to the question miska it's not only one time, I find to many women doing that, how much they want a nice guy then make a dumb move. If I say something upfront then what do I get a bimbo who listens? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:54:55 PM | Ah yes the old crotch grab...putting a man and his penis into direct conflict. The man wants to watch the movie, the penis wants to break dance down the velvet hallway.
The man wants to be taken seriously for being a nice guy, the penis could careless.
The man cant believe he went home with such a slut, the penis is punching her address into his GPS.
Maybe the man and his penis should take into consideration, that they may have been just tested to see who would win. If the man wins he is a good guy. If the penis wins, the man is a rotton son of a biatch.
It sounds like you passed the test. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:55:50 PM | | exactly what happens jester sucker punch good way to put it. thanks | |
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