| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:00:58 PM | | Any recommendations on libido suppression? Not having a girlfriend and being constitutionally incapable of casual sex, I find my sex drive annoying and would like to tell it to sit down and shut up. Any ideas? | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:04:57 PM | | Gym, treadmill, protein shakes, swimming, and boxing. All in one go. That will leave you banged up and too tired to think of any sex at all. At least my ex didn't LOL | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:17:14 PM |
Gym, treadmill, protein shakes, swimming, and boxing. All in one go. That will leave you banged up and too tired to think of any sex at all. At least my ex didn't LOL
sounds like a bad case of "blue balls"   he should just try jerking off like most peole. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:18:20 PM |
Gym, treadmill, protein shakes, swimming, and boxing. All in one go. That will leave you banged up and too tired to think of any sex at all. At least my ex didn't LOL
Haha, that hardly ever worked for me. Well.. weight lifting helped but wow... yeah I've always had the same problem.
When I was in college, I fell in love with this girl who couldn't have sexual relations at all. She'd been abused at age 12 and intercourse was a 'trigger' for her. She'd dealt with it as best she could and never sought professional help... which ended up being the undoing. Either way, I was with her for a year and a half... never having sex.
You can suppress it. You just need to figure out why you have the desire to "have sex" so often. For me, it's the way of expression that I can't put out there in words. I've learned to be more open... but it took some very life changing events to get there. The death of my father (my best friend) being one of them.
Either way, stay active with your love interest... don't stay home, go out and do things. Stay busy and try to make connections with her on other levels. I think sex is a substitute for some people... one you can certainly learn to control. | |
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| libido suppression
Posted: 7/1/2009 11:01:07 PM | well if masterbating and strenuous activities (as in exercise alot) don't help burn off that sexual energy, you might just choose to change your mind about casual sex.
I was celibate for 6 years. I will never do that again if I can help it. Since that time, I allow myself to have a casual fulfillment at or near the '1 year without sex' mark! Is it fantastic? Not necessarily, but I do not regret it. Everyone else seems to do this frequently without second thought. Sure I'd love to have a boyfriend or even marry, but I can't sit around waiting for that to happen any more. Better to just take the bull by the horns and satisfy your physical needs - the body does not like to be denied! It'll get you physically and emotionally if you try to ignore it.
Go ahead, nobody is watching! and really, no body cares cause they're too busy getting theirs. | |
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Joined: 10/13/2007
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 12:15:13 AM | Psychedelics, psychotropics, reading classic horror (I recommend The Yellow King- it'll put you to sleep asap, or some H.P. Lovecraft. The furthest things from sex.)
Train yourself to equate desire with pain- conduct some Pavlovian experiments on yourself. let us know how they go. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 1:32:49 AM | Oh hun I feel for ya, I know how that goes...
Let's see, you can give yourself a negative trigger every time the thought pops up, like having a pretty heavy duty rubber band on the wrist, and snapping it extremely hard when ever you have a though of sex...
Hopefully that wouldn't totally ruin your drive to ill repair, but it is the best thing I could come up with...
Other wise get yourself a LOT of ice packs, and just put the ice down south everytime sex pops up in your head... | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 1:39:03 AM | Or you could do what that crazy priest did in "The Da Vinci Code" movie ... you knnow, the chain of spikes wrapped arounf his thigh ... except you could wrap it around .
Back damn you get back in the back of my subconcious ... BACK I SAY. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 2:17:32 AM |
Gym, treadmill, protein shakes, swimming, and boxing. All in one go. That will leave you banged up and too tired to think of any sex at all. At least my ex didn't LOL [/quote
Wrong answer, these activites will only increase your testosterone levels and sex drive. Your ex did those activites to get away from you.
To the OP. Just deal with it and quit your whining. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 3:54:35 AM | Me smells a troll.....
I do believe your right..why would any man want to suppress an active
libido..by the way physical activity only produceses tetosterone in the male
body further increasing the libido
Seeyaa!! Dan | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 5:14:54 AM | | I'm not aware of anything that works for men. For women, there seems to be an infinite number of possibilities, the traditional one being wedding cake. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 5:31:02 AM | Paxil, Zoloft, blood pressure meds, all will kill it.
Otherwise keep all sexual materials under wraps, and when necessary jerk off to relieve tension.
Masturbation is a great thing, though, I say do it as often as possible.
Beth | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 1:35:20 PM | | As men age our system converts free testosterone into estrogen type products . The process is called aromatase. These will then fill the hormonal receptors that the remaining testosterone should attach to. When this happens the testosterone effects are lost: including loss of libido. However, there usually are side effects such as weight gain, fatigue, lack of energy, depression, loss of muscle mass, ED, loss of libido, etc. While taking estogen is not a good practice for men it can reduce the effectiveness of testosterone. This is why men in their 60's thru 80's loose muscle mass, sleep alot, etc. No good answers on this one. | |
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| Any recommendations on libido supression?
Posted: 7/2/2009 2:12:20 PM | I would think with your intelligence and knowledge of hormones to this extent, you already know the effect of lower libido can cause weight gain and depression. A lower dopamine level in general will do that. I've heard that being on adderal will lower libido drastically and lower appetite as well.
I wonder if having a healthy libido would give you the incentive to keep hunting? I can't imagine that with all the activites you like to pursue, some lucky chicky will want to cum along for the fun! I just read your profile cuz I was looking at your libido post, and I happen to think you are super-cool! =)
I can relate to a lot of it because I'm an INTP too. Yeah, the SJs freak me out. S is usually boring, unless they can wield their knowledge of complicated systems in order to create new systems, i.e. for games, LARPs, software development, building projects, sociological critical thinking, organizing large companies in a single bound, etc. The Js just plain freak me out, and give themselves too few choices. And want to give ME too few choices! Stupid, smothering and boring! Run away, indeed.
I think you'll do well on here and find someone who will appreciate you and like you for who you are. There are lots of different folks here. We only want one SO, so the "no" responses will get you closer and closer to the "yes" we're looking for! It's not easy being us, but I think we're pretty special!  | |
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