| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 1:50:24 PM | I know it's a good thing to make some noise during sex. It's a form of communication (that feels good, you're on the right path, stop now and you won't live to see tomorrow). And it certainly enhances the moments.
My question is about SCREAMERS. I remember one time in particular. My partner was so loud and was screaming so much....I stopped and said.....Really? Then we both started laughing so much we had to stop. Now that wasn't the first time I've come across a screamer. And my question still remains....Really?
What is the screaming about? It can't be the sex is that great...can it? Or is it to help get you in to it mentally? Is it for real or is it an act? I'd love to hear from anyone who is willing to share.
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 2:33:38 PM | | It's a natural reaction. I have to work at being quiet. It's just what happens. It's real. i can't explain anymore than I can explain why some never make a sound and some are between the two. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 2:36:17 PM |
I know it's a good thing to make some noise during sex. It's a form of communication (that feels good, you're on the right path, stop now and you won't live to see tomorrow). And it certainly enhances the moments.
My question is about SCREAMERS. I remember one time in particular. My partner was so loud and was screaming so much....I stopped and said.....Really? Then we both started laughing so much we had to stop. Now that wasn't the first time I've come across a screamer. And my question still remains....Really?
What is the screaming about? It can't be the sex is that great...can it? Or is it to help get you in to it mentally? Is it for real or is it an act? I'd love to hear from anyone who is willing to share.
Thanks. OP -- I've said it before in similar threads so why not here too?
Screamers = FAIL.
I'm all about enjoying yourself when you have sex with someone you dig. I'm even cool with some moans and groans. But screamers? They fail permanently with me. It's so "porno grade" that it makes me wanna dropkick them off my bed/couch/table/etc. I have, and would again stop on the spot and put my clothes back on and never do it again if I met another screamer. They are the WORST.
Makes one wish they had a supply of ball-gags or socks handy for such types. Or a freakin' muzzle...
Moans = YES. Sighs = YES. Heavy breathing = YES. Screamers = FAIL.
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:01:50 PM | | I've never been with a screamer but I wouldn't mind it, ONLY if it was genuine and not acting. I would just hate for a woman to act like she feels good if she doesn't. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:09:53 PM | O GOD I LOVE THIS THREAD THE REPLIES ARE SOOOOO GOOOD!!!!! DON'T STOP...DON'T...AHHHH POST MORE POST FASTER AAAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIIIIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:19:57 PM | ^^^^ lol
I just finished reading the post about funny things that's said while having sex... Ive laughed sooo hard today...you people slay me...
Ive never screamed during sex but I have had uncontrollable moans from being bitten about the neck area.. (I even embarrassed myself from it.) | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:20:11 PM | LMAO!!!!!!! For real people! It's just sex. God!!! Stop over analyzing it. Just friggin enjoy it. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:22:29 PM | | Did you read where the girl wrote during sex on top she pushed down hard and said TAKE THAT BATMAN.... *laughs and almost pees | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:23:56 PM | A long time ago, a million miles away... ok.. more like 15 yrs and about 5 miles... I had the *pleasure* of hosting my ex's cousin and a young lady that I went to school with for one night. The ex and I were in my bedroom, they were in the living room (one bedroom apartment) and we could clearly hear everything. She was truly a shrieker. Seriously. I've never heard anything like it ever.
On the other hand.. I am rather vocal at the point of climax. Volume can range from near silence to rather loud growling moans... depends on the situation. Up to that point there's soft sighs and moans.
What is the screaming about? It can't be the sex is that great...can it? Or is it to help get you in to it mentally? Is it for real or is it an act? I'd love to hear from anyone who is willing to share. While I consider myself to be a screamer, I'm not screaming the whole way thru. Actually HIS noises get into my head and get me more aroused than mine do. I have NEVER faked anything. Ever. The noises I make are as real as they can possibly be. I think I've shared enough. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:24:19 PM | I can get pretty loud. One guy asked me, "Are you okay?" I laughed. "Yes, I am *very* okay!" The neighbors probably thought he was killing me.
I don't fake anything. Why do I get loud? Why do people yell at baseball games? They're excited, they're having a good time, and yes, it can enhance your experience if that's what you're into at that moment. When I'm noisy, I'm not holding anything back. Sometimes I'm quiet. Quiet doesn't mean I'm not having a good time. But noisy - you *know* I'm having a good time. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:27:23 PM | | ^^^ Yeah, I don't fake anything either. Actually, I don't spend much time thinking about the noise I make, how my body looks, or who the Pistons drafted today when I am having sex. I spend my time feeling and reacting and making him react. That's the way it should work. If I'm thinking that much, I shouldn't be having sex with that person. It's hard enough to think about safer sex practices but that's drilled into my head so it's instinct now. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:33:23 PM | | Why not shove her face in a pillow? Then you won't have to hear it... ;) | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:44:14 PM | | I had a BF - that had a roomate - each time he was givin' it to his GF she would scream so loud I thought that he was murdering her! It was really bad! I felt like calling the cops!! Yikes! I mean I have screamed before but into my pillow - no need to alert the whole building you are having sex! | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 3:44:32 PM |
They fail permanently with me. It's so "porno grade" that it makes me wanna dropkick them off my bed/couch/table/etc.
Geez...I'd hate for a guy like you to be the one to finally discover my g-spot!
I'm a highly excitable woman...I scream when I'm surprised...I scream when I see a spider... I'd probably scream if someone found my g-spot from what I've heard too.  | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:02:37 PM | | I've been with a couple of screamers back in my single days. One thing nice about living in a rural area is that there's no one to hear the screaming! My girlfriend is very vocal,but she tends more to howl at certain times. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:11:28 PM | | My gf is a screamer- I actually slap her and tell her to shut the **** up sometimes so I can concentrate on my nut. Some women scream ( which I enjoy) and some women are quiet ( which isnt so enjoyable). If you love the woman, it shouldnt matter. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:37:08 PM | I scream. It happens. I dont give it much thought for the most part....unless I have the windows open or if I'm camping..... Like others have said: it's not faking, its just my natural reaction. I dont always scream, and I try to be aware of my surroundings and adjust accordingly. I like man who makes some kind of verbal indication of how he's feeling, but I dont NEED a screamer, nor do I want a non-screamer to force it (act). | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:53:20 PM | | All I can think about is the movie porky's. The gym sex scene and the basket of jock straps. The one from sex in the city, what's her name somebody help me out here. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:57:02 PM | I bite down on whatever is handy to keep from scaring my neighbors. LOL | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:58:08 PM | | To: Spider43 I think it was Kim Catrall. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 5:58:21 PM | Kim Catrall
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKZV1MSldJk
I bite down on whatever is handy to keep from scaring my neighbors. LOL
Yikes! Let's hope you are not one of those women that gets off while giving head! ;) | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 6:20:53 PM | damn it. i hate screamers. my last ex screamed so loud that my next door neighbors came over with cops. that ended my night!
no more screamers for me again! There's no need for overdoing your moans/groans/breathing..... this isnt porn shows! | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 6:48:17 PM | I sometimes get loud during sex... but I don't think I "scream".
I pay attention to my partner to see if it bothers him. I've even been known to give a warning.... "I get loud/vocal" is that problem? If he seems to be uncomfortable, I will try to tone it down.
So far no complaints... unless he's here, posting about that fat biotch who wouldn't be quiet. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 7:00:13 PM | | I don't scream, but I do like to get loud sometimes. But I like to hear him too. I like more verbal exchanges during sex, but I get turned on by dirty talk too. I did date a guy who was louder then me. I thought it was kind of cool actually. | |
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| Screamers Posted: 7/2/2009 7:51:49 PM | | LOLOLOL That makes me think of something that happened years ago. We lived in an appartment complex. It was a hot summer night and we had all the windows open. In the middle of the night I hear the weirdest screaming. I thought someone is in labor or being murdered. My ex woke up too. We were wondering if we should call an ambulance or the police. It was very disturbing. Neighbors gathered in the parking lot to wittness this strange happening. Finally the cops arrived. We listened to the cops going to the source where the noise came from. In the mean time the ambulance arrived. We are and the neighbors are very silent at this point since we want to hear what's being said. After some time of silence the cop comes down stairs and says in a very calm tone of voice , kind of matter of fact tone: "They are having sex". I heard several people saying "What!??? Apperantly, we werent the only ones who thought these were rather strange noises to do while having sex. LOL That was the weirdest ever. I have never heard such noises, except for in the delivering room while someone is giving birth. | |
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