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Posted: 7/2/2009 9:38:23 PM | Guy's is it possible for a girl to be bad in bed (s*x) if so how?And what can we do better?
Gals please feel free to write your opinion too,Just wanted to see everyones opinion . I really think its nice how honest people are on here. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 9:45:14 PM | | Yes it's possible. What most guys dislike the most is the "dead fuk" where she doesn't move and doesn't make noise. Showing some enthusiasm goes a long way towards making you better. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 9:52:23 PM | Are we sure what she's asking?
Guy's is it possible for a girl to be bad in bed (s*x) if so how?And what can we do better?
Of course it's possible for a girl to be baaad in bed. Do you want to get better or badder ( ) ???
AwP is right. The DEAD FUK syndrome is the wurst. The second wurst (sic) is the porn-star-wannabe who shrieks like she's being murdered when truthfully she isn't feeling a damn thing. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:00:20 PM | | I did this exact same thread earlier because TWO different women I talked to were STUNNED that a woman COULD be bad in bed. A lot of women seem to think that all they have to do is show up. Women are bad in bed the same way guys are bad in bed. They don't pay attention to how the guy is reacting; they have ONE method for doing things, and think ALL guys should get off on it; they either rush, or use their teeth on a BJ; they offer no feedback on what it is that THEY want, or how they want it; and, my pet peeve, is when they forget that the guy consists of more than a penis. ie, they do NO touching, caressing, etc. of the rest of his body, although they EXPECT him to do so for her. A good lover will balance her approach. She won't forget he has a penis, but she also won't concentrate her attention solely on it. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:15:29 PM |
whats a dead Fuk?
What most guys dislike the most is the "dead fuk" where she doesn't move and doesn't make noise.
He said...it's when she doesn't move and just lays there not making a sound.
So that's what that is. Okay? Got it? | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:41:48 PM | | i have no doubt a woman can be bad in bed..if your doing the deed and she is reading a magazine..it prob isnt worth the time and effort. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:52:11 PM | | hell yah women can be horrible... i had one gal who absolutley freaked right out the first time i told her how tight she was... " how dare you say that, i cant believe you'd say something so nasty" she said!! i couldnt believe how lame she was... 2 minutes was her attention span if i was lucky.... the door didnt hit her on the way out , cause i held it as i pushed her... | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:54:43 PM | Ok so you moved to Arizona maybe?
The dead **** comment..hmmmmm
5 words for you- " IF YOU HAVE TO ASK"
Best wishes wtc dont worry most of us inprove in time.You are onl y 24 you have many more years to learn to rock someones world.So there is no confusion to rock someones world= not a dead fuk. And watch those teeth,too!  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 10:57:55 PM | If a man is overweight, they can't seem to be able to do more than one position and have problems cumming, in my experience. I guess ED is a problem when you have weight issues and/or diabetic.
Only knew one guy that asked me to hold still. That was creepy. We are still friends, but that did it for me. So I am guessing like with everything else in life for one person that doesn't like a woman to hold still, there is one that does. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:27:13 PM | I think theres also chemistry, some people just 'fit' together well.
Honestly, the worst I've ever seen is with women who are too self conscious about everything.
Otherwise, bad hygiene is a big turnoff, nothing worse than brushburn on the old rod. Ladies, please shave, everyday. Do it for yourself..
And yes, no teeth EVER | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:32:10 PM |
Yes it's possible. What most guys dislike the most is the "dead fuk" where she doesn't move and doesn't make noise. Showing some enthusiasm goes a long way towards making you better. I'm not a guy, but have heard something to this effect before. MC | |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:51:32 PM | you said you appreciate honesty, so i'll be honest...........are you retarded? why ask a question with a painfully obvious answer?
1. of course. 2. depends on the person, no one here can answer that except to tell you to communicate with the person in question. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 12:24:19 AM | I dated a girl that kissed like a puppy trying to lick ice cream off my ENTIRE face.... and thrashed around like Linda Blair in the exorcist. Lack of any thing resembling coordination and rhythm is worse than the Dead one.
No way to get/keep rhythm...and constantly bending you forcibly...... excruciating.
Wonderful woman... but between that and her table manners, we had to part ways. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 12:50:29 AM | A few possible Signs a woman is Bad in bed...
1... She moves so little, you check for a pulse part way through... and at every position change...
2... She asks, "Are you done yet?" before you get it in...
3... You leave the room, get a beer, resume.... and she doesn't notice... and didn't notice the last time either...
4... When a woman who can keep flawless time to a high energy Techno or Trance beat on a dancefloor can't keep her hips moving at the same pace for 30 seconds in a bed....
5... She has no 'grip'... in fact, you suspect that she has less grip than you might get from having sex with Jello...
6... Almost everything to come out of her mouth in the bedroom begins with "Ewwwww" except for when she finally attempts to go down on you, at which point, "Ewwww" is followed by 3 beers and the other contents of her stomach...
7... She thinks "Blow Job" is a literal term... and your testicles are now the size of grapefruit....
8... She won't stop texting her friends about what you're doing...
9... She calls out "Daddy...." when she orgasms...
10. She insists on going to the bathroom in the middle of sex... Trouble is, she didn't get out of bed....
11. She announces that "Hey, that's not what the guys did last night did..." as you're going down on her...
12. You ask for sex "doggy style", she lifts her leg, pees on you then barks...
13. You still have teeth marks on your penis... even after the stitches have been out a month....
14. She's moaning quietly as you have sex... you finally realise she's praying....
15. And afer 3 hours of foreplay, 2 hours of performing oral sex on her, and nearly an hour of pumping away in her... and just as you're about to orgasm... she starts crying...
16. She kills you after mating with her.... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 12:52:21 AM | | what does being overweight have to do with being able to cum, and to add diabetes to that also, not to mention if you have those 2 things you must have ed also....i would really like to know what cracker jack box you got your medical degree in. I will admitt i am a bit overweight and also have diabetes, but i definetly dont have a problem getting it up or cumming for that matter. The worst i think is when a woman doesnt make any noise...how is a guy supposed to know if what he is doing is the right thing for her | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 1:23:55 AM | [QUOTE]If a man is overweight, they can't seem to be able to do more than one position and have problems cumming, in my experience. I guess ED is a problem when you have weight issues and/or diabetic.[/QUOTE]
Not true at all....
Although Diabeties is a significant cause of ED, it is NOT the main reason. Being overweight can lead to having borderline diabeties, but it also is not a reason men get ED... You're proliforating BAD, BAD rumours. An overweight guy can get jiggy just as much as any other guy. He may be limited in his postions, but that isn't going keep him from getting it up or shooting his load.
Now the MAIN reason for ED and not being able to cum is psycological. The brain shuts down receptors and Mr Willy goes limp. The guy may want to keep going, cause he thinks he has to do the deed, but the brain is on shut down mode. That is why Viagra and Cialis work. They inhibit that shut down, regardless of what is going through the guys brain.
One of the MAIN reasons a guy goes limp... Is because of poor response from his partner, or a feeling of inadequency. If there is no chemistry or excitement, then what should be a cooperative situation, turns into a chore for both partners. Repeated problems like that, is what creates chronic ED. A guy with chronic ED will go into a sexual situation with the psycho barrier already up and will have problems right off the bat. It'll take alot of understanding and HELP from a partner to break that barrier and get him back on track. Being more receptive, intimate, and out-going usually help the most. "MOST" ED is not permanent, aside from ED caused by diabities or poor vascular flow. Almost every guy who has ED in bed with his partner, has no problems masturbating and cumming on his own.
Being 'fit', with good cardio and vascular flow does make a guy get hard and engorded easier, which helps with stimulation. However, 'fit' and trim guys can get the same psycho barriers pop up when a woman doesn't respond to him in bed, or he is not confident with his own performance.
If your man has a problem getting it up, think about whats going on in bed... Are YOU making the situation worse?
Can a woman be bad in bed? Definately...
Dead fish, no movement, no pleasurable sounds, bad reactions, like grimacing, gritting teeth, wincing, not wanting to kiss, snuggle, hug, statements like "no, don't, not there, don't touch those"... It all gives off the wrong signal. It means the two of you are not meant for each other sexually. Do yourselves a huge favor, and don't persue that relationship... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 1:40:15 AM | | Yah it's possible. It happens often. Girls need some motion in the ocean too. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 3:42:59 AM | | If you behave like you don't want to be there - don't participate fully and don't open up with your likes and dislikes then yup that's a bad lay! You have to show some enthusiasim and 'move' - participate in the action! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 6:06:15 AM |
12. You ask for sex "doggy style", she lifts her leg, pees on you then barks...
I just have to be a smarta$$ here...Female dogs don't lift their leg up to pee...
Still the list was funny... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 7:28:11 AM | If a man is overweight, they can't seem to be able to do more than one position and have problems cumming, in my experience. I guess ED is a problem when you have weight issues and/or diabetic. My full comment is that a fat or overweight man can't seem to be able to do more than one position. That is my experience with a fat man, similar to a beached wale. I am guessing that ED is a problem when you have weight issues and/or diabetic. I have noticed men that are fat have problems with activity, movement, and if they are not on medication can have ED problems and/or can be diabetic - Type II. The description of a woman just laying there reminds me of a fat man that just lays there and can't do anything. That is my experience with a fat man and won't go out with someone else that is not flexible, too boring and visually disgusting to me.
Then I noted I knew a man that wanted a woman to lay still, so it seems there are men that want that. I am sure some women don't want a man to be able to move around too, I don't know people like this, but I guess there are as I know one man like this. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:00:29 AM |
whats a dead Fuk?
Also know as a "Dead Fish"...someone who doesn't do anything other than lie motionless. A variation of the "Dead Fish" is the "Noisy Dead Fish", which is essencially a hybid of the "Dead Fish" and the "Bad Porn Star Wannabe". She lies there like a dead fish but talks and makes noises like some kind of porn star reject.
There are a LOT of ways for a woman to be bad in bed. It is sad that there are woman that don't understand that. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:07:07 AM | | Complaining is so much easierthan just saying "Uh, baby, why don't you wiggle your hips like this, and grab my arse here and here. Yeah, that's right, now breathe in and out... LOL" I have encountered guys who were just as bad, and all you have to do is give direction. Some women whohave gone through really bad things sexually will revert/flashback, and that can sometimes lead to Dead **** Syndrome in guy's terminology. She has simply left her body there, but her mind is a million miles away. Of course, you the guy have to figure out what type of Dead **** is she... or find someone better. Maybe improve your own game. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:09:35 AM | | I had a couple of dead fishes. The interesting thing is that the dead fishes were usually the better looking girls that were high maintenance princesses. They expected the man to do everything for them. | |
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