| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:23:01 AM | | I am getting bored with men and no, I am not a lesbain. I just seem to meet the same guys again and again. And I am what I am ya know, so if I attract a certain type it ain't like I can help it. I want to find a guy but, I am just entirely bored. Any advice or same situations? | |
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| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:27:45 AM | | Too early to throw the towel...!! You are still pretty young. | |
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| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 3:19:24 AM | i threw in the towel a while back...... now everyone has left the building and the custodian is wiping the rink with the damn towel.....
but hey there are still forums to read and smartass comments to make..... thank god !! otherwise what would be the purpose for life !!!!
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| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 3:56:25 AM | If the type of guy you attract isn't working for you, maybe you should contact the type of guy you're attracted to instead.
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Posted: 7/3/2009 4:24:11 AM | You are a beautiful young woman, and I think you've got a good head on your shoulders. You're investing your time and energies into your education with a view to the future.
In the same manner, you want to make sure that you invest yourself into a relationship with a man that will be rewarding now as well as in the future. Sounds like the guys you are meeting are mainly interested in the short term, the one night...if you know what I mean.
You value yourself and it shows. You're being smart and doing what it takes to invest in a bright and hopeful future, and you want to do the same relationally. That's smart, and shows you have a meaningful value system.
It would appear from your profile that you are Albanian. If that is correct, then I'm sure you're aware that most people from your country are either atheists or agnostics. Although you will find many people in this country that share those views, you will find a good many people who attend church, and hold to a Christian value system, which is perhaps what you are, in a sense searching for. You want to find someone who will love you, and the best men I have found have been those who have a sincere love for God and strive to honor him in all their relationships.
Perhaps if you are bored with the same ol' same ol'...you might want to mix it up a little, step out of your comfort zone, ask around and see if any of your friends know of some good Christian churches that teach a sound doctrine, and see what happens!
God is known for being wild and adventuresome, and His people understand that good times and good love happens within the wise boundaries He has established.
Keep up the good work! You're a lovely young woman!
May the Lord bless you and direct your steps according to His will and purpose for your life! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:05:19 AM | Yep, I'm bored too, but not w/ men....the only solution, and it isn't much of one, is to find other passions to dump your desires into.
I'm told, we find "it" when we aren't looking. Maybe....just wish I could find the "off" switch  but, for example, I'm into cars, and at a good car show, I don't even notice the hotties there. They just get in the way of taking photos, and they don't know about the cars....and that's not a slam, most men don't know much about cars except what to unbolt and bolt on.... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:11:25 AM | Date a nice fat guy.. There is cute fat guys.. Pff look at my pictures
We dont cheat, lie, never waste food and to top it off, we will love every
part of your body YOU hate!
Give it a try! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:32:44 AM | | Girl you attract every man out here, you choose which ones you meet. I would guess that there is something about the men you don't like that you find attractive, and so you keep choosing them. I'll give you the same advice I've given my children, don't overlook the quit ones, most often when you can get a shy person to relax they can be a lot more fun than any of those self promoters will ever be. I know that you think because you're a woman that you're not in control, but you do not realize how much real control you have over guys. If you change how you respond to the way men act, men will change the way they act to get a positive response from you. | |
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| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:39:51 AM |
I am getting bored with men and no, I am not a lesbain.
Become a lesbian. That might help a bit. If that gets boring, become bi. If that gets boring, do bi-threesomes. If that becomes boring consider sex change and get an extra penis.
I want to find a guy but, I am just entirely bored.
God have mercy on his soul. Bored women have nothing better to do than start unnecessary sh*t to distract them from their boredom. Thanks for the heads up.
Any advice or same situations?
Masturbate. Get a hobby. Get a job, if you have one, get another one, and if you don't want another one, volunteer. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:44:44 AM | "i can't help it". famous last words of you and everybody else out there blaming the world for their problems and lack of personal satisfaction.
perspectives this short may not be posted.
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Posted: 7/3/2009 6:08:34 AM | And I am what I am ya know, so if I attract a certain type it ain't like I can help it. I want to find a guy but, I am just entirely bored
Sounds like the men you attract aren't the problem. Nobody at your age with your looks and intelligence should be whining - get up off.... and do something about it, like making a few approaches yourself to the men who fit what you're looking for. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 6:49:51 AM |
I am getting bored with men
It starts with you, with how you feel about yourself and your life. You aren't bored with men, you are bored with yourself.
No man will be able to keep you so entertained that you are too distracted to notice the emptiness that is inside of you. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 8:47:43 AM | | I am NOT trying to sound rude here at all OP but I'm not sure how else to say it. Is it possible that you are bored with men because your a boring person yourself so you keep attracting boring men? I'm very boring myself & I like boring people. Maybe it would help to not focus on guys or gals & instead focus on ways to be & feel less boring. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 9:03:37 AM | Whenever you get bored like this, you should go out somewhere!
I went to Mtl this weekend and proved that online dating really doesn't work for me.
I met two men who are more physically and even social skills wise the type of man I am attracted to. Men like that DON'T contact me on here or return my emails. Everytime I go out in the real world where there are men my age, I can meet the types I like. On here, not so much.
I'm using this as an option ONLY. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 9:07:58 AM | Some guys are looking for the same thing in a partner as you are. Because you meet all a-hole guys, doesn't mean everyone of us is an a-hole.
I like to think of this whole POF thing as an agreement, when you signed up, you agreed to accept, date, find out if something more exist, whatever you want to call it, with every person you think may be compatible. Only after you've done this can you mark the incompatible people off your list.
Its also suppose to work out in real life the same way I figure. If your looking for a partner, you cant judge everyone by your history.
Don't get me wrong now, I know we all lose motivation but, you'll need to do what you need to do, in order to find that person you seek.
I haven't been in the same situation, I think its because of people "getting bored" and looking for the most mi-nute flaw...
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Posted: 7/3/2009 9:15:58 AM | If you're bored with the men who are contacting you, read msg. 5. Take the initiative and drop someone YOU find interesting a note. I think every woman should write a first contact email and approach a man in "real life" (haha...that phrase makes me giggle).
Sometimes people get too focused on the results and lose the experience of what they may learn about themselves. I've found the women who have made the first approach/contact/whatever seem to be more empathetic and understanding towards men. How could that not be beneficial, at least you'd understand how the guys who contact you feel.
If you find that boring, then...*shrug* I'll send you the link to my favorite crossword puzzle sites.  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 9:27:15 AM | | Hi OP... You are much too young and too pretty to be thinking like that... Wait til you're my age! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:13:47 AM | i know i am ,cause all the men i meet only want sex y nothing more. They lie just to try to get some where with u then move fast out the door if they do and the same if they dont. i talked to this guy for 3 wks at this bar here and i finally gave him my address and when the sob seen my girls he told me someone call him that they need his help. Needless to say he never called me or came back. im ready to give up to just stay a single mom forever. im getting so bored of them, im not looking for a one nite .Plus all the good ones are taking or guy. : | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:17:13 AM |
Plus all the good ones are taking or guy
Sure they are......*snicker* (I take it you mean taken or gay..maybe you meant guy?)
Read all the boohoo whiny threads......there are plenty. All with the same bottom line....the ones you want don't want you.  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:18:41 AM | | u are very pretty .there is no reason why u shouldnt be able to find someone. its why easier for u then me thats for sure,but wait in to i lose more weight maybe then things will be better for me. but if a guy doent do u right he is a big stupid ass . .let them come to u girl . | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:36:04 AM | WoW Caty, if you talk as confusing as you type, may want to learn how to present yourself better. After viewing your profile, Id suggest running over to the Profile Reviews.
I was more with Eric48 on this one, try a different method of meeting, 8567. | |
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| Who is bored....
Posted: 7/3/2009 10:45:42 AM | "It would appear from your profile that you are Albanian. If that is correct, then I'm sure you're aware that most people from your country are either atheists or agnostics. Although you will find many people in this country that share those views, you will find a good many people who attend church, and hold to a Christian value system, which is perhaps what you are, in a sense searching for. You want to find someone who will love you, and the best men I have found have been those who have a sincere love for God and strive to honor him in all their relationships."
Yes, the most adulterous and gun violent country in the world is a devout Christian one. Christian girls dance naked on Girls Gone Wild videos.
Looks like those Christian values aren't actually followed, so you'll excuse me if I don't assume that someone who claims to be christian is automatically ethically superior and a better mate.
Meanwhile we agnostics and atheists manage to live somewhat moral lives without having a supreme being telling us to be nice to people. We do it because it's the right thing to do, not because we're scared into it under the threat of burning in Hell for eternity because a 'loving' god says so. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:50:16 AM | I want to find a guy but, I am just entirely bored.
The problem with little princess prima donas that are bored, is that they are boring themselves. They expect their man to make them laugh, provide entertainment, even initiate sex, while they aport to such relationship very little. They pretend to be passionate, but it's a lot of talk and hot air, and very little action. I dated several creatures as such, and ended up dumping them. It was not even worth to put up with them for the sex.
If you are so bored, get un-bored, don't depend in finding a man to find more excitement into your life. Part of what you need to do is find awesome activities, develop a passion for something. If man take you only for the sex, it's because you allow it, you put yourself in that position.
A woman I dated that used to be a model, was independently wealthy, for instance, found her passion in running marathons and triathlons. She actually qualified and did the Chicago Marathon. To do that she had to find passion within her. Our relationship was good because we had the passion of the outdoors in us. It was fun to get naked on a parking lot and put your gear on and then do your ride. It didn't matter if it rained, or it was sunny, or even snowed, we went out there.
So find your passion and don't depend on a man to get un-bored, because they in terms will get bored with you. | |
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