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 leg it

Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 1
ok so what do u want goddamit!!
Posted: 7/3/2009 2:48:48 PM
Hi, I'm startin to think most ppl on here to date. I'm no mental state to be dating so I thought i'd come on here and secretly bare my soul from the comfort of my arm chair ha. But women just aint replyin, is it my kid, is it cause i'm not lookin to date, or do I just look like a twat. Be honest i've got thick skin, let me know.

cheers !!
 eschec mat

Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/3/2009 2:52:47 PM
There are other social sites if you aren't interested in dating. I think that most people either chat because they are doing forums or are dating, meeting people to go out with. Now if you were looking for a profile review, that is a different thread. I don't think your shirtless photo is allowed btw.
 Bellydanza

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/3/2009 2:53:26 PM
If you just want to ''chat'' i suggest you try a networking site where people just want to make friends...

most people here are serious about dating and finding someone.

chat rooms will work for you too perhaps
 *Cowboy*

Joined: 4/28/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2009 2:57:27 PM
1) This is a dating site primarily. Most are not wanting to chat/email. Consider face book or my space. Those are social networking sites for people to chat/email.
2) Put your shirt on. Not only is that against site rules most gals consider it a huge turn off
3) Your profile is negative, whiny and has a huge list of things you hate. It certainly would not entice any sane women into wanting to converse with you.
4) Your first date suggestion was
tie u up and put you ina bag WHATCHU THINK!?

5) spelling and grammar counts online

Best of Luck

Cowboy
 rjbalone

Joined: 5/28/2009
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Posted: 7/3/2009 3:01:22 PM
Hello there, I can't help but think that if you phrased your emails properly and utilized the words the way they were meant to be used, your dating life would begin to accelerate. If anyone else agrees, you may wish to re-enforce what I just stated as it would certainly help him.

Bob
 thebugisback

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 7/3/2009 3:03:01 PM
If you aren't looking to date why are you trying to sell yourself in the topless pictures and why are you telling everyone what kind of women you're attracted to? Frankly, your profile screams that you aren't sure what you want, but just friends and to talk is not it.

Clean up your profile and make it viewer friendly if you want to make friends.
 5tarrynight

Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 7
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Posted: 7/3/2009 3:10:23 PM



4) Your first date suggestion was


tie u up and put you ina bag WHATCHU THINK!?





^^^^

You've been here less than a week OP.

Have some patience. ... and then what the others said too. This IS in a way like casting out your bait into a big sea ... Not EVERY fish is gonna bite. You'll probably have to cast a few times before you get a bite. .. And then, when a fish finally does bite, you might not even like what you catch either. ... If you're lucky, you might just get a good catch. Its a numbers, chance, and perhaps skills thing.

Also, perhaps try the Profile Review Section if you want feedback of your profile.
 best kept secret

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2009 3:21:11 PM
It must have been a very very hot day when you took your pics ~

Take more on a cooler day and your luck may improve
 leg it

Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/3/2009 4:46:44 PM
ah yes the whole psycho whiny shirtless thing! all taken into account
(oh an your right about not knowin what i want whoever said that)

cheers mate
 best kept secret

Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2009 5:45:32 PM

ah yes the whole psycho whiny shirtless thing!


you asked....it was unanimous. Now quit whining about it.
 cindyjl69

Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 7/3/2009 10:38:14 PM
Amen Cowboy!! You have a clue or two about women. How refreshing.
 Nicegirl700

Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/4/2009 7:13:30 AM
you might look ok if you stopped making stupid faces in your pics, and maybe women are getting the impression you are not very mature due to the pics

good luck, oh and I don't think it's your child, most women like that stuff
 leg it

Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/4/2009 10:51:02 AM
Yeh fair comments, i'm not whining I welcome it. It's all constructive, I think ppl take this site too seriously though
 Ssongbird

Joined: 3/19/2009
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Posted: 7/4/2009 12:19:36 PM
This is a dating site. You have to expect that MOST people will be looking to date and many are hoping to find that special person that they can spend the rest of their life with. Yes you look like a twat in your main pic; whatever a twat may be. I also don't appreciate the language and I'm sure I'm not alone.
 leg it

Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/4/2009 2:58:16 PM
i love the way you've all bonded, I feel like i've brought you all closer together. Thanks for reminding me that I am not yet as old as you.
 JustNotThatIntoYou

Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 7/4/2009 7:37:40 PM

Hi, I'm startin to think most ppl on here to date.


HUH??

You could say that again. Only, this time, try to make sense.


I'm no mental state to be dating


Say wha??

You're obviously no linguistic state either! So what state are you?


so I thought i'd come on here and secretly bare my soul


Not so secret with the world's largest dating-site member base. Not to mention those who read the forums w/o signing on.

Is that like privately confessing to Barbara Walters, on camera??


But women just aint replyin, is it my kid, is it cause i'm not lookin to date, or do I just look like a twat.


I vote for the latter.

You're not lookin to date, so why do you care?

Most women online are looking for a relationship that they can't attain IRL.
 LD44

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2009 7:43:53 PM
well I just saw your profile, women here want men. not some wanna be hood rat that cant get out of his own way.
 miska1

Joined: 9/16/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2009 9:48:11 PM
I am voting for twat, yup that seals the deal for me
 zephyrmoon

Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/5/2009 12:14:59 AM

I'm no mental state to be dating so I thought i'd come on here and secretly bare my soul from the comfort of my arm chair ha. But women just aint replyin, is it my kid, is it cause i'm not lookin to date, or do I just look like a twat. Be honest i've got thick skin, let me know.

Your pics make you look demented, sort of sealing the whole, "I'm in no mental state to be dating" thing. I think most women you're contacting probably are looking for someone they can go out with, so that's a problem. You put you drink often, but I don't think that's as big an issues in London as it is here.

I'm don't know if it's "your kid" either, since I'm not sure if you have full custody of her or not. For me, I wouldn't bite because of the long paragraph you included about things you hate, and then your statement about loving death and loving pestilence.

I don't care who you are, loving death and pestilence is wrong. Not even Moses loved pestilence, and he called it down.
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