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 Panos_East_York

Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 1
Not getting viewed..please help..
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:10:08 PM
Hello,

I need help with my profile. I've been here 4 months and i'm not attracting any women. I'm hardly even getting viewed. Can someone look at my profile and tell me what i can improve on?

Thanks a lot!

Panos_East_York is my username.
 chanel1961

Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 2
Not getting viewed..please help..
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:54:16 PM
Hi! here is the true... you look very boring and sound very stuck up, change your profile be more humble and see the changes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 ron5000

Joined: 8/13/2008
Msg: 3
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Not getting viewed..please help..
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:02:23 PM
The reason you are not getting viewed is your photo!!! You need a well lit close-up with a bright smile.

Ron
 johninsd

Joined: 3/2/2009
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/4/2009 2:17:05 PM
Your main pic is too dark, and just not "inviting".

Capitalization. Learn it, know it, use it.


I never thought i'd need a site like this to meet women but here i am.


And:


I am also lonely.


Lose 'em. Negativity. They scream desperation, and even the slightest whiff of desperation is the best woman repellant known to mankind.


I am humble so i will not say anymore about my appearance, i'm no 10 but far from ugly.


Lose it. Your pictures should do all of the talking about your appearance for you. It's up to you to come up with pics that portray you in your best light. You should be smiling, looking like fun, doing interesting things, etc.


Please feel free to contact me and i would be happy to send you a pic if you are interested...thanks for reading..


Lose it. Anyone who's reading already sees your pics, and they know they can contact you if they want to.

You need to be telling readers why they should want to contact you. You need to describe yourself, your interests, your goals, etc. Give a good picture of who you are. Then, talk about what you're looking for. You want your "ideal woman" to be able to read that and say, "Hey, that's me!" Then, you want her to read what you're all about and think, "That's what I'm looking for!"
 angelofthewest

Joined: 6/18/2009
Msg: 5
Not getting viewed..please help..
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:18:18 PM
You sound like an honest and caring man, but there are things you can improve. Take out "I'd never thought I'd need a site like this to meet women". It sounds rather insulting to all the people on here looking for someone.
Take out the bit about looking younger than you are. Everyone says that and it's not usually true.
There's too much emphasis on your own appearance. It makes you sound shallow, as if appearance was the only thing that mattered. If I were the right age, I would hesitate to respond because I would think you'd find my own appearance wanting.
And, as others have said, post a photo of you smiling.
 Unfrozen Caveman Lawyer

Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 6
Not getting viewed..please help..
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:28:23 PM

Can someone look at my profile and tell me what i can improve on?


That's easy.

Quit smoking. No matter what changes you make to your profile, not matter how attractive you make it, being a smoker will stop you dead in your tracks almost every time. Your only reasonable alternative is to target the women here who smoke, but that signficantly reduces your pool.

There's no way around it. Unless you're the Governor of a densely populated state, or some such thing, being a smoker is too much to overcome.
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