| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:26:28 PM | I went on a date with a girl on wednesday night, we kissed and held hands and I thought it was going great and when I kissed her goodnight she said see you later. But since we went on the date she hasn't phoned or texted me since, and I'm wondering what the hell I've done wrong! What annoyed me with her is she said she's sick of being used, but now she's doing the same thing to me!
If she just comes out and says I don't think this is going to work out, then I could understand that, but instead of that she's just staying slient and keeping me hanging! | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:37:12 PM |
But since we went on the date she hasn't phoned or texted me since
Uuuummm, have you phoned or texted her? | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:37:23 PM | Did you call her? Or text her, Gawd what a useless thing texting is.
But I digress. Back to the subject.
What did she use you for? A kiss and hand holding? Did you bend her over the bumper of your car?
So you went on a date, and you think she isnt interested? Then move on. Simple as that.
If you are interested, give her a few more days but don't slam her with a thousand phone calls and texts,it will just make you look desperate. But if you did contact her and say you wanted to see her again, then let it ride an see where it goes. | |
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Bluez
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:38:07 PM | Perhaps...just perhaps, she's sitting at home thinking....
"I went on a date with a guy on Wednesday night, he kissed me and we did the hand holding thing. I could tell he liked me and I thought things were going OK. He even kissed me goodnight and I said I would see him later. The only thing is, since then, I haven't heard a peep from him! No call, no text. I swore I'd never be used again, but here we go again. Why isn't he keeping in touch?"
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:41:03 PM |
But since we went on the date she hasn't phoned or texted me since
I'm presuming that you've tried calling or texting her since?
Otherwise I'm thinking... "cue video of girl sitting at home, thinking 'I thought it was great, but since we went on the date he hasn't phoned or texted me since, and I'm wondering what I did wrong!". | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:54:00 PM | | Texting is single handedly killing the artform of verbal communication. Half the young folks would be on suicide watch if texting somehow ended today. Learn to talk with your women, it may sound like they are speaking french from time to time, but you can accomplish so much more. | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:07:00 PM | | I texted her on Thursday evening at 7, but no reply then I texted her on Friday and called her, it rang 5 to 6 times before it went to voice-mail (if it went to voice-mail first then I would know she was avoiding me,because she would of made sure it went straight onto voice-mail) but still I've had no reply. I said I enjoyed our date but never said I wanted to see her again, just that I had a great with her on our date. | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:21:22 PM | | I found the best way to deal with women is just be straightforward. Let them do the hinting and you do the action. Guys who just lay down a carpet of hints often hint their way right out of contention. Say, "I really enjoyed your company and would like to take you on another date, next Saturday 7pm sound good?" | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:34:11 PM | | If you want another date, ask for one, if she initiated the first one then you should DEFINITELY initiate the second one. Are you interested or not? | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:46:47 PM | | She's probably going out with the other guys she asked out to see which one she likes best. Then maybe she'll get back to you. | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:48:59 PM | Texting is so lame and antiromantic. It doesn't count as calling.
Maybe she didn't receive the message? I'd say call just one more time before you call it quits.
Why do you feel used? I'm not telling you how to feel, of course, but how did she use you? It was just a date... It's possible that she had second thoughts and decided that she didn't like you. It was impolite of her not return any texts or calls, but it's no more than that - impolite. | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 5:06:10 PM | | Then she should come out with it instead of being a coward, and avoiding my texts and calls! | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 5:17:43 PM | | That sux bro..stop contacting her..just let her go..maybe she will eventually contact you again. | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 5:23:32 PM | | texting is a total waste of time!!! There is zero emotion involved! soon half of the population will be unable to carry on a convo!! Dude dont text her call her if you want to go out again! | |
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| What did I do wrong?
Posted: 7/4/2009 5:41:12 PM | | Don't bloody speak to me like that, don't know who the hell you think you are!! Girls are all the bloody same!!! | |
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